Is it a date, session, or an appointment ?

Nice to see a provider with a smile on her face after she calls up her friend to tell them she has ____
before things get started.

I've been fooled - more than once - but I've also had the genuine thing -

With some providers I know that the "attraction" is very much mutual - and I would say it is a date!  and hopefully she does too.

With some providers I know that I am very tolerable and they are happy that I booked the time... and it is a session... between friends.

And with some - it was an appointment, clocked much as with the psychologist... complete with exit lines.

Either a date or an appointment.

(Bizarro, pity you've has such negative appointments! To me it sounds polite and full of potential

Or I have an appointment I have to get to..

Discression is key- Everyone has friends to see and appts to keep

you call.  (and show up)

I always call it a date.

Kate

I like it when a provider has a "friend" (another provider) over and tells her "friend" as I arrive that "this is the guy that rocked her world."  But then I always wake up!

I did not mean to come off as that negative!  !

on whom I'm talking to.  Friends/family that don't know what I do...I have an appointment to keep.  With people who know what I do....it's a date.  No matter what I call it, I think of it as a date...never a session.

Kinda sets the tone for the encounter.

an example of a classy e-mail sent to me by a provider: " Hi...., I'm not home tonight.I asked my *friend* if I could use *the* computer to write to you.I don't have my schedule with me.I will have to get back to you tomorrow...."

Note the emphasized words that don't disclose if the friend is male or female!

with a friend.

That is one of the exciting things about the hobby. You never know exactly what is going to happen when your new "friend" walks through the door. Oh, you can read MY reviews, I can read the ones YOU'VE written to get a sense of what you like but ultimately it still depends on the chemistry of two people and their willingness to let passion rule the day. Works for me.

I have a old friend walking through my door in an hour. I can't wait for THIS adventure to begin. Life is good.

Smiles and HOT Kisses Always Waiting,
Anneke

an appointment if I'm talking to a provider friend (because that's professional and I'm used to it), but I'll say a date with a gentleman. It gets me -- and hopefully him -- more in the mood because I really want it to be more of a date than a screw. Just my .02 cents.

Hugs,
Ciara

In my limited contacts with a provider, I have requested a 'date'.  Sounds more intimate than a 'session' or 'appointment'.

I do tend to use the term 'session', likely because that's the term most commonly used in Pro BDSM, which is where I started.

It's certainly not said that way to imply any negative connotations... In fact, I wasn't aware that anyone would infer any from the term until now.

Morgan

is the only thing that keeps this boat afloat.

Totally depends on the person. In my few encounters those terms never came up, actually it wasn't really discussed. I would call them appointments myself but I don't really care who calls it what. What are you comfortable with?

Some people are just so insecure and sensitive nowadays....

Now an ugly word in this business is "trick" a term used on the streets. I don't think most providers here would call their clients "tricks." They have more class than that, or so I would hope.

Just saw an old documentary on the subject which got me to reply here. Some of those women (on the streets) have been beaten down by life they just don't care anymore and it is sad to see what an ugly outlook they have on life because they haven't seen the good side of it.