I get that our work needs differ from our personal needs. But I just wonder, could you or have you hired a male escort for your own sexual needs/ desires and how was it? Was it worth it? I am thinking about having that experience under my belt fairly soon, it just seems intriguing, but I feel like I would be too transactional and not enjoy the experience as much. Thoughts?

She is driving pretty hard to the hoop bc on me lately.

and we should not enjoy it?  OK, done with the smart-ass response and while not a lady, my thought is that if it has crossed your mind, it means you are at least intrigued.  Do it, have fun and cross it off your list of things to do, the worst that will happen is you will be down a few hundred bucks

You're a whore  

Its all there buddy in plain English. NO NEGOTIATIONS. Its just above the "your money is for my time only."

Further discounts available if you can bargain hard. After all, making $1 is better than jerking it for yet another night.

I didn't bother to read your site...sorry.

Good God I hope not.

This dude seems to offer an upscale BFE experience    

NONE of my Joans EVER go on TER so they will never see your condescending drivel. You will also learn there is more about this business than just the money.  

You a proxy for Steph now? Doing her negotiations since she is failing so miserably?  

Dear Jaye:
If you were considering or in the market for an adult companionship professional what questions would you ask?  Finally would you ask how he might do his verification? Also would you try to make the questions more general so that he wouldn't know that you might be his professional female counterpart? Finally would you be doing this for social,sexual or personal research purposes? Also would you have a lot of single friends who might be considering this since this would be a time of year that social and professional functions do transpire?

Seems DA has a pretty nice website.  I'll pass that link on to the gals.

My Joans don't review either.  

I wouldn't do it myself. But I would love to watch someone else do it.....just to see the dynamics shift. I'm interested in seeing what a male escort thinks is a Boyfriend Experience, and how he plans on delivering it. Plus I just want to watch because I'm a perv like that

I generally have no problem cruising for NSA sex when I'm in the mood and my taste does not include the muscley prettyboys that I usually see serving as male escorts for women.  For the right male escort, I would consider.

Sure...you're buying?

Good lookin' guy, she said. But she said he kept looking at his watch (i.e. it was "too transactional"), and said things that made it clear he thought there must be something wrong with her if she had to HIRE male companionship.

Jaye - Of course I'm not a lady but I have to admit that I got a laugh out of reading your post. You're quite the sexpot (as I know too well) and I could see you having the time of your life if you found the right guy. But of course, as Zoey implied, you'd want someone who suited your tastes in which case, my lovely woman, you would find yourself in exactly the same position as us guys. Trying to find the right woman, at the right time, given your desires for that particular evening. . .and of course, the never knowable "will this work out" is part of the fun as well.  

I do the same, find a NSA sex guys in the meantime. But for me, they tend to get clingy, and I move on after I get what I want maybe twice. Can't say I paid for a guy, except for one novelty guy I kept around because of his monster cock and good weed (eventhough I don't smoke), but a loser in all other ways in life. I actually bought him groceries the last time I saw him because he was hungry. Never again.

Penis length and girth, education, likes, and looks. LOL! Maybe in that order. I feel like if he knew what I did, it would be more relaxed, we could talk shop and then fuck. Kinda like when I work with girls for doubles. LOL! Definitely don't want a social date, I have a list of guys that would luv to go out and "just hang", nope I like being home with my cable and microwave popcorn. LOL! Just like us girls pretty much know our way around a cock, would like for a male escort to know his way around a pussy, at least try and give me something that I've never had... If so, I'd probably tap into my Vegas fund for some nights with him... Hmmmm, decisions!!!

LOL! I beginning to see what you guys go through! LOL! I think I am more interested in having a mind blowing time and having this guy just go away. That could be hot.  

I didn't see my then- boyfriend often enough, didn't trust him, and just needed an objective source to listen to me complain and let my emotions out to. I was just going to hire him to listen to me talk, not for sex...there was a civie world guy I knew who would have gladly been there for me, but I didn't want the feelings he had for me to get in the way and like burden me even more if that makes sense...
It was kinda a hard time for me and I had so much I needed to get out, but they were things I couldn't tell anyone I knew.

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I'm throwing in a limo to pick you up and bring you to me. Cristal or whatever your pleasure in that dept, your choice of dining establishment, the finest hotel suite I can find, and even though tips are never expected, you'll get the OMG she's an old broad 'bonus' in your unsealed white envelope.

If not, I'll sadly have to go with plan B.

You game?

Steph xoxo

LOL...then why care about his weed?

Just curious...

Steph xoxo

If you accept dates with mature ladies, I'm dumping Jack ASAP! Hell I'll even pay to have our stomachs pumped so we eat again blow more chunks together!

I'll fly up to DC and let's see who can blow the most snails outta their nose holes at dinner!

You do need to get some professional photos done though!

Steph xoxo

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I love the idea of being a hot lady's boy toy for a couple hours.
I'm a natural pleaser any way - hell, I go to AMPS and even THERE I frequently end up giving the lady a massage (after the usual fun) - those poor feet can get tired after being in those heels all day...  
Would be fun to flip the script once, just for something different. Set up a nice incall with liquid refreshment, etc

it sounds like a random guy in a bar with a few beers would have been perfect! (just for your future reference!). :o