I hopefully will have a reason to celebrate very soon and I have decided to spend a weekend with a sexy and beautiful woman on the top floor of a downtown hotel.  I can envision all the games but have to make a very important decision.  How much?

Don't offer a lady less than her posted rate. It's disrespectful, especially when you're not a repeat client.

She must be  A Top GFE And Porn Star,  with  few porn movies..I'd say unless your rich, check around,  for that special someone, or Variety Is The Spice Of Life, so they say..Hugs Xoxo Sheila

women at five hundred bucks an hour rather than spend a weekend with one women.

Of women that charge $10,000 for a weekend,  

...and she considers you a decent client, she won't turn up her nose at 9K.  If she hasn't seen you before, you'd be starting off on the wrong foot.  If she does agree to see you because, after all, 9K is 9K, she still may resent you and consciously or subconsciously not give her best effort.

... to spend on this weekend?  $9000?  $1500?  Or... what?

I say probably not because if you're talking about general price haggling, that's frowned upon.

out of the gate with someone you've never met?  I've sometimes booked multi-hour appointments with new girls, but when its bad, a two-hour appointment seems like six.  You're both watching the clock waiting for it to end.  We all have different personalities and there are some providers you are just not going to click with, but if you do this, you are stuck paying for the weekend whether you stay for the whole weekend or not.  

If her rate is stated on her website, don't negotiate it, whether you're a repeat or not. If its a rate she quoted you after you proposed the weekend, I think you can offer 9k and say that's your budget, but don't delve into back and forth negotiating. (Sidenote: You're going to have a happier provider when you pay full price than when she feels like she's being taken advantage of, and happier provider generally means happier client. Discounted price often means discounted service, especially if the provider isn't the one initially offering the discount.)

A classic point of view - and unfortunately true.....

...fucking stupid regardless of the rate.

I have one if those

than her posted rate is asking for trouble.

does not have a published rate for that time frame. Echoing what others have said, I would not spend an entire weekend if I hadn't seen the provider before and had an awesome time.

....  she was someone I had seen several times. I asked her if she would go on a cruise with me and she said she would. Besides the all-expenses-paid she only wanted $350 a day which is just above her hourly rate.  

everyone keeps saying weekend. A weekend can be many things to different folks. Is it Friday night to Monday morning?
 Or is it Saturday afternoon to Sunday night ? See what I mean?  Those 2 examples will be very different prices.  
Why not tell her you wish to celebrate with her and that you have $9000 to spend and ask what she can do for that price. Tell her upfront the level of hotel you will be staying in. She may wish to extend her time with you if it's a 5 star with excellent restaurants/room service.  
Stop stressing and have a blast

Hop a plane, head to Costa Rica and see 18 different chicas at $100 hr.

Whether Friday night to Sunday night, or Saturday morning to Monday morning is irrelevant.

That's probably a very cost-effective alternative. Spending the whole weekend with one provider is going to mean at least six hours a night of sleep for her, plus bathroom breaks, plus paying to watch her eat, etc. Better to schedule shorter blocks of time with multiple providers.

How did the trip go ?

10k for the weekend with a hooker.Enjoy variety for 9k.

I hope you have a fun weekend!  
stick to your budget.. many ladies all over the country have "fly me to you" packages very reasonable!!!  (Raise hand in here) of course you take care of airfare and at the minimum 4 star hotel.  
I offer packages like that since I prefer longer engagements and weekends here and there are much much fun!

My rate will actually go down some. I just enjoy spending more time with one person really. I cater to the longer engagements.  
As Veronica said, many ladies have a "fly me to you package"  
I do think I'd spend atleast a few hours with a lady before committing to an entire weekend though.
Either way, hope you have a fucking blast.... LITERALLY!! 😜🙄😀
XOXO  
TL

You would be surprised how often I see this. And you get to foot the bill for all the expenses and gifts.  

I think a better question would be "how many of them are actually getting that kind of coin?"

The chances of finding some chump willing to blow 10K for a weekend are remote. If it does happen it's like winning the lottery. A few girls will advertise absurd daily or weekend prices on the slim chance that someday somebody will come along and pay it.

is the "monthly special" advertised by some hookers for $100,000 for an "exclusive" for the month. lol

If I were a Billionaire a hundred thousand is only one  ten thousandth - 0.0001 of my net worth.  

9k or 10 k for the weekend with one hooker. Enjoy spice of life with variety with 9k

so I don't think you are a fool for betting 10K on a hand of blackjack.  I just think you have enough money where that makes the bet really interesting.  Kinda like me betting $100 on that same hand.  

Based on that math, I should only be paying $45 for the month.....
I don't consider $400/hr even with an "awesome hooker" a deal.  Even pussy has diminishing returns.  

The worst thing that happens is she say, no.

I have traveled with a lady before and I am mulling it over as I write this response (which will help me clarify my own thinking).  This is very, very rare.  I would never consider doing it with a lady that I have never met.  You have to have truly exceptional chemistry.  That is very hard to find.  Otherwise you are setting yourself up for disappointment.  My two cents:
1) I would see the lady for 1-2 hours.  Then 2-3 hours.  Then maybe a few times at 4+ hours.  Then maybe, if there is exceptional chemistry, ask her how she feels about a longer engagement.  Don't negotiate --- listen.  
2) Once I have seen her multiple times, I should have a sense of whether or not there is real chemistry (within the context of this unique relationship), whether or not we have enough shared interests and common values, whether or not we would have fun together, whether or not she would truly enjoy herself (I don't know too many people that could hide boredom for several hours or days), whether or not she would be appreciative, an understanding of what her expectations might look like, and the impact that this would have on our existing "relationship."      
3) Be true to yourself.  Don't do something (spend a lot of money) simply because you can.  Consider what need or void you are trying to fill and ask yourself if this is the best way to fill that need.    
4) Overall, IMHO the rate that she quotes will be a good indicator of where you stand with her --- in other words, if the rate is significantly less than what you would expect and/or extrapolate based on her known or existing rates, then to me that would signal that she believes that she would genuinely enjoy spending time with me.  On the other hand, if I have never met the lady before, for example, then I would expect her to price in a significant amount of risk because there are way too many unknowns.  That is another reason why I would never consider doing something like this with someone I have never met before.  
Overall, I think that this should be perceived as a "reward" or "as something special" vs. something to do because you can.  If it feels too much like a transaction, then it isn't a good idea.  Every time that I have considered something like this it was because the lady suggested it vs. me --- which makes a big difference.      

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Do you bring your calculator on a date? Lol

what exactly does she have to provide.  How much ass is she supposed to give up?  If she's gonna spend the whole weekend with her legs in the air, I'd charge $10K too if not more.

I Remember back when I use to watch dyanna Lauren porn videos when she was a young hot pornstar I would have paid her 10,000 dollars for a hr I was young and could go as long as peter north but to pay that kind of money to someone for a weekend and she probably going to say I need 12 hrs of me time each night so to me it's not worth it!!

I'd be willing to bet you haven't seen ten grand in an entire month, much less for a single weekend.

Ga....but her reviews are so great! Lol

How else would you get to 20k in a month?

She could be into credit card fraud, Identity theft, dealing meth, or all sorts of different ways to get to add an extra $19,000 a month onto her hooker income.

I know many who are still waiting for their's.

I had a guy from Arizona wanted me for a whole weekend Fri lunch time till Monday morning. The first phone he kept me on the phone asking me stupid questions 40 mins later.  

There are many jobs you can make over $10K a month.  Lots of sales jobs for one, mid to high level executives and yes, hookers.  Hell, I've known cocktail waitresses and strippers who've made over $2K in one night.  People who own their own companies do it all the time, but not trash talking imbeciles who do nothing but put down escorts and women in the sex industry.  I'm guessing you have a hard time even coming up with $250.

and have a great repore with.  Let her know you would love to see her for a weekend and this is your budget.  However be prepared that she may decline or counter as well.