Yes I hate when my hair gets pulled on too low. They are reigns. Up close to the head and done firm yet gentle is über sexy.

If it's done right... It is a win win for all...

Hahaha good point.

Amen.

Not sure if the ladies who responded are submissive or not.  But for me it's part of that moment when my partner is taking complete control of me.  I don't enjoy it as much as having my ass slapped, but it's up there.  

Do you like to grab the woman by the back of the hair to "guide" her while she is giving you oral? Or to pull her head back to kiss her?  

I have had providers asking me to spank them, choke them (lightly of course) and call them 'my dirty little whore'.

It's just the one time/place I can let go and allow someone else to be in charge.  And even then, my submissiveness has to be earned.  It's not given to every partner.

I will need a list of names in alphabetical order, please.  : )

Good self-awareness.  Also true for many.

Obviously it's a matter of personal taste. As for me, I'm a bit of a masochist so...very big fan.

If the mood calls, I pull from the front, in MISH, with hands on either side of her head, more of a tugging as a means to pull her lightly in different directions while we break from kissing.

That's actually my favorite.

at nape my neck, . thats where i like my hair pulled, not top head, hate it there,

When a person is and OCD Control Freak like me, being submissive is the biggest turn on ever, because it allows us to not have control over the situation. We hate it, but love it at the same time. I love being tied up, but not into pain so much. I just like a guy to literally take that p*ssy!

Hair pulling, light choking, spankings are hot. Idk why I just seem to O instantly. Dirty talk included.

NO! Do not fkin touch my hair or even my head when I have extensions in! That is 2k worth of fake hair, I am not ready to replace. Guys wonder why so many escorts wear their hair up during a date. Fkin duh...because I don't need cum in it, hair getting in my mouth during a bj, or any other bs.