If the mood calls, I pull from the front, in MISH, with hands on either side of her head, more of a tugging as a means to pull her lightly in different directions while we break from kissing.

at nape my neck, . thats where i like my hair pulled, not top head, hate it there,

Amen.

Hahaha good point.

Not sure if the ladies who responded are submissive or not.  But for me it's part of that moment when my partner is taking complete control of me.  I don't enjoy it as much as having my ass slapped, but it's up there.  

Do you like to grab the woman by the back of the hair to "guide" her while she is giving you oral? Or to pull her head back to kiss her?  

Obviously it's a matter of personal taste. As for me, I'm a bit of a masochist so...very big fan.

Now that's my kind of girl

I will need a list of names in alphabetical order, please.  : )