Okay guys, so of course I did it again. Don't ask me how, but I used the word "hooker" in a conversation with a client and he got extremely offended. I don't get it....I don't get offended by the word why would he?(Especially if he liked saying it during the encounter)  Thoughts?

To me, "hooker" as a word connotes the girl on the street pulling tricks in an alley. "Provider" and "escort" and maybe even "courtesan" are much more sophisticated, and suggest something much more mutual and acceptable.

So why should you take offense?

...but I react to the connotations of the word.

i think our Roxy needs some serious cock..

If those words are used to discribe someone's job choice like "He is a cop, she is a hooker and she is a lawyer," that doesn't offend me. Nor does it offend me in sex talk like, "Your my dirty little prostitute aren't ya? Let me spank you." But when used to dismiss or dehumanize some one like, "You can't rape a hooker." "She is just a street whore" or the god awful dead hooker jokes I have heard. That pisses me off. In my book usage is everything.

I tend to use the term provider or escort when talking with a member of that profession, unless/until I know whether she prefers a specific term, or doesn't care one way or the other.  I know some providers who don't like being called hooker or prostitute. I know others who don't think of themselves that way but would just laugh if I called them that - and maybe slap me upside the head as they were laughing.

I have a friend who is a klepto. Not a thief...
A theif steals for profit, a kleptomaniac steals because he has to.
He can't help himself. He steals stupid, useless things...
Anyway. He is so afraid someone was going to rob him. He thinks I would rob him.
I've known him since kindergarten BTW.

...and neither do John, Trick, Client, Fat ass, or any of the other things I've been called over the years. Now, if you'll excuse me (and even if you don't) it's time to ride!

If you want to call yourself a mistress, courtesan, lady of the evening, escort, hooker, tramp, or whore; all are fine with me (though I prefer the nicer ones, even in private).

I think all the ladies I know are my part time lover

For legal purposes...I am an escort or companion. But....you are kidding yourself if you are offended by 1 certain term.

But you mean the words, right?

is there a picture of your client in the definition of "Mangina" in The Urban Dictionary?

I had a provider call me a "whore" once. That was funny ... but offended by the word "hooker"? That's just bullshit that people pull to "control" other people.I'm offended ... FUCK YOU!
 

IRS.........I don't care what you call it, as long as you pay it !!  
lol lol lol  

A term that puts another person down, that is derogatory or demeaning or implies lack of respect is offensive to me.  On the other hand, a term that shows respect or even mutually acceptable humor in the context in which it is used is fine.  
To paraphrase Jelloman,   I do not look at providers with anything less than fondness and  respect for who they are as people, and a deep appreciation for making themselves available as my partners in sex play.

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Does anyone recall the old yarn about two professors walking down the street, spying two "ladies of the evening," and then challenging each other to see who could come up with the most additional descriptions?

but I usually reserve that kind of high praise for my favorite hooker buds like you.

Devina, could we just say "sporting woman".

As SLUT lol but hooker,  whore and even horned up little bitch really don't offend me at all. I really don't mind if a gentleman wants to say those while his cock is in me either.  

The term "Hooker" was a slang name given to the prostitutes who followed the Union Army in the Civil War, and in particular to soldiers under General Hooker's command.