I had to ask this under an alias for obvious reasons, but please know, I am indeed an active provider here. Before anyone suggests it, I cannot ask this on the PO board because, as some of you may not know, it's not that easy to get access to that board. You have to have VIP and numerous reviews whereas I have VIP but only a few reviews.  

you can be clean, polite, and ready to wire them session money in advance and they wouldn't know it.  I'll bet they still get business.

Put and educational paragraph on the etiquette page of your website, if they get to wordy refer them to it. Keep your responces nice but short and to the point. If you reply to a book with a book, you will get another book long email.

...that doesn't schedule many dates, I am sensitive to this from my side.  I only communicate with a couple providers in my geography or areas that I travel to for business/pleasure.  And mostly because they are on my list...otherwise...I'd leave them completely alone for the very reasons you highlight...I don't want to waste their time.

That's true, but I do think some men think women get way more business than they do. I know for a fact that regulars of mine have thought I'm super busy before and in reality, I've seen like one client in a week. It seems like there's unlimited men to see, but there are not unlimited good men to see.  

I've heard that complaint from many hookers over the years.  And I know of some johns that think its OK to have a hooker as a pen pal.

Thanks for the thoughtful response. My website, rate and reviews usually deter the riff raff so I guess that's why I found this so vexing. I do always talk to my regulars more, but unfortunately, they don't come around often enough it seems and I still have to see new people. I appreciate that there's a man like you out there who understand not to tease, lol.  

Haha funny. A little vulgar for me though, the point was to keep it classy, lol.  

my pleasure.  and hopefully you're not the provider in my area that I am wasting time with

and please remember, this is a basically anonymous fuck board where we review how well prostitutes fuck and suck us, just how classy do you expect us to be? lol

You could always say, "I'd love to chat with you all day, I really enjoy it, but the bills are due and I really need to make some money, wouldn't you prefer to chat in person?" Classy enough??? lol

I thought that was a pretty nice way to tell time waster johnnie boy to get lost.

Might help to alleviate the problem a little bit.  Are people just emailing you out of the blue without providing the usual screening info?  If that's the case, I would just make a note on your site that you won't answer first contact messages without the necessary info.  Of course, they could provide it and still proceed to bombard you with emails.  I guess it's up to you then to weed out the ones who you think are just wasting your time from the ones who are genuinely interested in an appointment.  Just do a short but cute little reply about how you'd prefer to get to know them on a more intimate level...Or something to that degree.  

And I do get that this can be a big problem.  Why not just have a stock response that goes like this.

Until a guy is screened, he is full of shit as far as I am concerned. You should simply say, "I am sorry,  but I will be busy and unable to respond. If you want an appt. let me know, or fk off!" Ok, the "fk off" part is just something I would do, but you do what works best in your situation.  

If these are people you haven't seen before, it's strange for them to be emailing you so often. I'd personally cut them off. My rule is screening before conversing ALWAYS, no matter how innocuous the emails...when I've made exceptions, I've been very sorry and even TERRIBLY sorry twice.  

Thanks everyone, great responses. I really got what I needed to hear.

I need much attention and a great deal of texts, "PM's" e-mails and phone calls before I am comfortable with a 30 minute quickie.

It takes you 30 minutes just to get your shoes off.

I keep my emails short and only include the necessary info (appointment date/time, screening info, contact info, requests).

I have one lady I have emailed in the past more than I would normally but she had asked me to send her emails in between dates and even has asked me  to lunch a few times OTC. But After a few unanswered emails I was smart enough to figure out not to send anymore unless booking an appointment. I will followup with a had a great time email and an occasional hope to see you soon etc. The point is that unless he is a regular you should waste very little time with these guys except maybe a first timer who is probably just nervous but I would not hold their hand to long either. Hope this helps.

What do they say? You don't want to know. If you ever have the displeasure of peeking in a provider's inbox, you will wish you had those hours of your life back. It's redundant bs, spam from other escort sites begging for you to join, photos (which no provider should open btw, because viruses are attached), and a slew of random "Are you available" crap, that is already answered for these peons on our damn website!