Hi All,

I have never let it bother me a bit, in spite of all the old biddies here (both male and female) that insist that if a hooker doesn't make you jump through a dozen different hoops that she is unsafe to see. As long as SHE checks out, has glowing and recent reviews, I wouldn't let this bother me a bit.

I do think both sides of this world should make the other side feel as comfortable as possible, since there is so much paranoia in p4p.

In a lot of cases that would be all that she would require.  There is also a place were providers can ask further questions of other providers who have seen you in the past through the providers view.

How many OKs  do you have?
They have that without reading  your profile.
If you in your PM gave them your TER handle they have more information.
In  the reverse as in P-411 there are no reviews only verification so I then go to TER. And look at her reviews.
Awhile back I sent a TER  PM requesting a date and to add to her comfort gave my P-411 identity.
Tracking showed nothing but she told me how many OKs I had and to my knowledge did not contact any of my white lists

Simple enough: sounds like she's a vet with plenty of experience (21 revs going back to 2013) so she got jaded and no longer care as it's just a waste of time for her. Somebody mentioned woman intuition? well, that comes with the experience as well

I have 4 reviews and 3 okays so maybe that was it.  Just made me nervous.  

If you checked her out and she's ok to you, the fact that she didn't check you out puts some risk on her end, not yours. I have had providers who insist that screening is absolutely mandatory, do absolutely no screening on me. I had great sessions with them. Several others have also given you reasons why she may not have.

you had enough info provided on your P411 profile so when you sent the request to her it comes through her email.Maybe she verified you another way and even though she has a P411 profile she does not use P411 as a form of screening.Me personally when a gent sends me a P411 request I do check his profile I like to see if he has any current okays and if he filled out his profile with his likes/dislikes since every guy is different.

when she only views your Okays. Your provider is my kind a gal as she's sensible and to the point.

If the gal does indeed not screen a guy, she may not have screened any guys that day. If she gets busted prior to seeing this guy, LE may wait for all the johns to show that day and our boy gets busted.

And obviously look for who has OK'd him. Actually contacting the provider after they've already given an OK can be annoying to some providers. Some I can tell they don't  OK just anyone.

But I believe we can see the email address on file in the request, which can pull up a lot...

We get an email with all your basic info in it, including your number of ok's.  

You obviously have an active account. She is OK with you being a P411 member that is good enough. She may or may not view your OK's right before the appointment of she may not care.  

From your appt request through P411, she has your handle name, email address, phone number, and how many OKs you have.

but I book about 5-10 new providers a month on average through P 411 and rarely do any of them check my profile more than once, and in maybe 20% of the times, I don't get a notification that they have checked my profile even once. So this is hardly an unusual occurrence and certainly nothing to give a guy, newbie or not, cold feet about seeing the lady.

never had a problem with those ladies.