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36363jensen 4 Reviews 136 reads
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To my knowledge my alias doesn't possess anything.

 
Well, most of us choose not to advertise are real names here so choose something else as their TER logon. And then some like to add another alias to distance reviews or discussion from that TER logon. If that makes people feel safer why not?

 
Don't you use something other than your real name for this line of work?

I've always felt that if you're man enough to do a review then be man enough to own it...
Multiple alias in the review process comes off..."tricky"..Like you're trying to hide something.
That's me and that's the way I see it.

I think it’s a bitch ass move. I’m a little disappointed I can’t put some of these aliases on my ignore list. I am who I am, so you are? Own it.

another review site that reviewing indies under my username came with a lot of blowback if the providers didn't like what I said, so when I moved my reviewing to TER, I decided to post discussion and reviews of Kgirls (who up until 2017 did not really read their reviews, but many have started more recently, and I have a fix for that) with my username, and review indies with an alias that I would change periodically.  It has been the perfect solution.  A few reviews of indies did slip onto my CDL review list by mistake, but they haven't given me any trouble because they were positive sessions that resulted in positive reviews.

Me personally have always stood by my reviews and in all the years that I've done reviews, I have only received blowback on two occasions...one was mild and one was pissed. but I stood by them. Never changed. and took the good with the bad.
The way from I remember is that CDL is your K-Girl alias...where no one girl will get lower then a 7, which is to say coincidentally is a good streak you're on. And your other alias is XXX where on occasion you'll hit a bumpy road and run into a clunker (it happens). you'll review and then you'll get shit for it? That makes me wonder how brutal or personal you made that review..for her to go after you.
I don't play in your playground so...But if that's your style then have at it.It just come off....odd

in a way that is best for them.  I got so much blowback from indies on AF who did not get ONLY 9's and 10's from me that it took the fun out of seeing them and then writing the review.  I had two choices when I came here, and that was to either don't review indies or review them under an alias.  Either way gives me peace, but by reviewing, other members could benefit from my assessment of the session.  

Posted By: Hpygolky
That makes me wonder how brutal or personal you made that review..for her to go after you.
This assumes far too much:  Vicious blow-back can be triggered by a review that is not at all brutal or personal, but only mildly disappointed.
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Reasonable ladies are the norm, yes. But don't assume that unreasonably vicious ones are so rare as to be safely ignored.  
 Most of us have seen examples of full-bitch-mode response to reviews that are not just not as simperingly glowing as the bitch in question feels entitled to demand.  The blow-back extends to rants on other fora, blacklisting, doxxing, and the like.  
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I'm almost surprised that CDL trusts the K-girls (actually their bookers) so much.

three or four weeks after seeing them before I submit the review.   Consequently, because Kgirls move around frequently, I have had many reviews that I did not get submitted before their ad link expired, so they are in review purgatory.  If you don't have a live link, the review will not be approved.  Waiting a few weeks has aided me immeasurably in keeping the Kgirls who DO read their reviews unable to connect CDL to a recent session.  At an average of 25-30 customers a week, sessions become a blur for them after a few weeks.  

Yes! You’re on my ignore list because you continue to post on everything even when it does not apply to you. You’re the top TER poster of negativity. Congratulations!

It really is the only sane response to that troll.
Sometimes I wonder whether he's really a 15 year-old boy pranking us from his parents' basement.  
Or perhaps he's just another sad and lonely incel.

to do if you're a lightweight like some of the other posters here.  I always found it surprising that the percentage of guys who are lightweights is higher than with the ladies.  Everyone should know when they are out of their league and likely to be called out on their bullshit.  Smile for me.  

I used to post political rants under my alias because I figured providers were mostly liberal and intolerant of political diversity. But after seeing there were plenty of moderate or even far right providers and many others who were more interested in dollars than politics, I stopped using the alias. I actually established a long term friendship with a MAGA Trumpian provider that's still ongoing. So another reason to dump the alias.

To my knowledge my alias doesn't possess anything.

 
Well, most of us choose not to advertise are real names here so choose something else as their TER logon. And then some like to add another alias to distance reviews or discussion from that TER logon. If that makes people feel safer why not?

 
Don't you use something other than your real name for this line of work?

I assume close to no one is using their real name on here. And for providers, using your provider name on here is not what I am talking about. I assume we are all using alias's to some extent. I, personally, don't see a lot of value in hiding behind my already hidden name. My username is not who I am irl. So, yeah, no point for me. And yes, after I post a review, a provider can figure out who I am considering she asked and received my name for verification purposes. But, I consider myself fair. If she provids a good service and is the person in the pictures, she will get high marks. If she does the opposite, she will get lower marks. A few times it made me nervous when a provider got pissed at me, and one even threatened to black list me. Fortunately, I have learned most savy providers can see through someone who tries to ruin my rep for an honest review that she didn't like.

The system here calls it an alias, but of course our main username is an alias as we know it.  
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People have reasons to separate the two.  I think providers can be very honest in their opinions if they post under an alias.  Unfortunately the mods here once doxed a provider's alias for her comments.  I thought that was a terrible decision.

UnnamedOne144 reads

an alias is essential or a BSC provider will doxx or out you with the info you used to screen for any perceived slight or in a fit of pique.

 
Alias' are necessary to protect yourself if you write a review.

Dude: I most definitely am against doxxing, but I saw your unhinged text rant on twitter that got you exposed. I don't think was she did was OK, but you were full on nut ball going off on her. 2 wrongs don't make a right, so take some responsibility. I don't think what you said to her warranted doxxing, but still not OK by any means.

If you have a problem with aliases what about the people with multiple accounts and multiple aliases?  

brownjack110 reads

Apologies for resurrecting a zombie thread.  But, it took me some time to resolve my thoughts on this.

 
In my reviews, I'm generally transparent.  In a couple of cases, that has resulted in my losing access to a regular because they did not appreciate my review of a session.

 
But, in my board posts, I want to be able to express my self honestly on any subject.  Or, be transparent regarding previous experiences, controversial opinions and prior poor choices.

 
Since I'm generally not scheduling a session with a provider to have them validate my opinions or to debate my beliefs, I choose to keep the two personas separate.  I don't need some provider adopting a pre-conceived notion about me ahead of a session.  Or worse yet, refusing to book me, based on an opinion I've expressed on the board or a tale I'd shared about an earlier poor choice.

I have a feeling that there’s agencies trolls who post reviews favoring an agency  then under an alias post a not so favorable review  against its competitors or an Indy girl who happens to infringe in its territory… it’s just a thought.

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