I've always felt that if you're man enough to do a review then be man enough to own it... Multiple alias in the review process comes off..."tricky"..Like you're trying to hide something. That's me and that's the way I see it.
another review site that reviewing indies under my username came with a lot of blowback if the providers didn't like what I said, so when I moved my reviewing to TER, I decided to post discussion and reviews of Kgirls (who up until 2017 did not really read their reviews, but many have started more recently, and I have a fix for that) with my username, and review indies with an alias that I would change periodically. It has been the perfect solution. A few reviews of indies did slip onto my CDL review list by mistake, but they haven't given me any trouble because they were positive sessions that resulted in positive reviews.
Yes! You’re on my ignore list because you continue to post on everything even when it does not apply to you. You’re the top TER poster of negativity. Congratulations!
Me personally have always stood by my reviews and in all the years that I've done reviews, I have only received blowback on two occasions...one was mild and one was pissed. but I stood by them. Never changed. and took the good with the bad. The way from I remember is that CDL is your K-Girl alias...where no one girl will get lower then a 7, which is to say coincidentally is a good streak you're on. And your other alias is XXX where on occasion you'll hit a bumpy road and run into a clunker (it happens). you'll review and then you'll get shit for it? That makes me wonder how brutal or personal you made that review..for her to go after you. I don't play in your playground so...But if that's your style then have at it.It just come off....odd
It really is the only sane response to that troll. Sometimes I wonder whether he's really a 15 year-old boy pranking us from his parents' basement. Or perhaps he's just another sad and lonely incel.
I used to post political rants under my alias because I figured providers were mostly liberal and intolerant of political diversity. But after seeing there were plenty of moderate or even far right providers and many others who were more interested in dollars than politics, I stopped using the alias. I actually established a long term friendship with a MAGA Trumpian provider that's still ongoing. So another reason to dump the alias.
To my knowledge my alias doesn't possess anything.
Well, most of us choose not to advertise are real names here so choose something else as their TER logon. And then some like to add another alias to distance reviews or discussion from that TER logon. If that makes people feel safer why not? Don't you use something other than your real name for this line of work?
I assume close to no one is using their real name on here. And for providers, using your provider name on here is not what I am talking about. I assume we are all using alias's to some extent. I, personally, don't see a lot of value in hiding behind my already hidden name. My username is not who I am irl. So, yeah, no point for me. And yes, after I post a review, a provider can figure out who I am considering she asked and received my name for verification purposes. But, I consider myself fair. If she provids a good service and is the person in the pictures, she will get high marks. If she does the opposite, she will get lower marks. A few times it made me nervous when a provider got pissed at me, and one even threatened to black list me. Fortunately, I have learned most savy providers can see through someone who tries to ruin my rep for an honest review that she didn't like.
in a way that is best for them. I got so much blowback from indies on AF who did not get ONLY 9's and 10's from me that it took the fun out of seeing them and then writing the review. I had two choices when I came here, and that was to either don't review indies or review them under an alias. Either way gives me peace, but by reviewing, other members could benefit from my assessment of the session.
The system here calls it an alias, but of course our main username is an alias as we know it. . People have reasons to separate the two. I think providers can be very honest in their opinions if they post under an alias. Unfortunately the mods here once doxed a provider's alias for her comments. I thought that was a terrible decision.
That makes me wonder how brutal or personal you made that review..for her to go after you.
This assumes far too much: Vicious blow-back can be triggered by a review that is not at all brutal or personal, but only mildly disappointed. . Reasonable ladies are the norm, yes. But don't assume that unreasonably vicious ones are so rare as to be safely ignored. Most of us have seen examples of full-bitch-mode response to reviews that are not just not as simperingly glowing as the bitch in question feels entitled to demand. The blow-back extends to rants on other fora, blacklisting, doxxing, and the like. . I'm almost surprised that CDL trusts the K-girls (actually their bookers) so much.
three or four weeks after seeing them before I submit the review. Consequently, because Kgirls move around frequently, I have had many reviews that I did not get submitted before their ad link expired, so they are in review purgatory. If you don't have a live link, the review will not be approved. Waiting a few weeks has aided me immeasurably in keeping the Kgirls who DO read their reviews unable to connect CDL to a recent session. At an average of 25-30 customers a week, sessions become a blur for them after a few weeks.
Boy I would love to post something about CDL but my posts are now all blocked by whoever runs this place. He obviously has a thing for him (her? Them? ) haha I am quite surprised that you guys are allowed to post about him. Perhaps admin needs to learn about the 1st amendment especially since my posts are no worse than a lot of stuff written here. If sarcasm and pointing out absurdities are ibanned then i guess admin is run by Goebbels. But just in case this gets thru i will simply say that my opinion is CDL is a total sham I would not believe one thing he says. It is beyond obvious that he is a lonely man desperate to be someone and since this is not the real world he has a place he can be that. I see now some of the ladies are no longer taken in by him. And plenty of guys as well IMO he’s the one that should be blocked he adds nothing here but how to make up a virtual person perhaps he’s the original AI person Anyway admin you better block this quick before i infect your devotees
to do if you're a lightweight like some of the other posters here. I always found it surprising that the percentage of guys who are lightweights is higher than with the ladies. Everyone should know when they are out of their league and likely to be called out on their bullshit. Smile for me.
"also when you block a username, it doesn't block and alias"
For pms, yes it does. The alias ter system is not good and has many holes in it. This is one of them. If you block the original handle, the alias cannot send anything back to you. You can kinda see how you can figure out who's an alias this way. Now on forums, yeah it doesn't.
Apologies for resurrecting a zombie thread. But, it took me some time to resolve my thoughts on this.
In my reviews, I'm generally transparent. In a couple of cases, that has resulted in my losing access to a regular because they did not appreciate my review of a session. But, in my board posts, I want to be able to express my self honestly on any subject. Or, be transparent regarding previous experiences, controversial opinions and prior poor choices. Since I'm generally not scheduling a session with a provider to have them validate my opinions or to debate my beliefs, I choose to keep the two personas separate. I don't need some provider adopting a pre-conceived notion about me ahead of a session. Or worse yet, refusing to book me, based on an opinion I've expressed on the board or a tale I'd shared about an earlier poor choice.
There's nothing wrong with having an alias. The TER system is set up to allow them. I just wonder about the guys and girls who bolster their posts with chatter from their aliases, especially if they have two or three accounts and 2 or 3 aliases. Some of these crazy cats are basically holding conversations with themselves.
By revealing too much of your "dark side" here, you make yourself a less attractive option. You will still get the simps and suck-ups, but can you survive on that market segment alone? Maybe you should get a day job caring for someone old and disabled, like QB. You could come to California where minimum wage is $16/hr. If you were a little more worldly, you would know that basements are about as common in California as they are in Florida. Hateful and ignorant in the same post? You should be proud of yourself. Lol
at a dog shelter in her free time, I'd just prefer to avoid the risk of her copping an attitude about future appointments, if I say "I hate puppies" on the board (I don't btw).
I have a feeling that there’s agencies trolls who post reviews favoring an agency then under an alias post a not so favorable review against its competitors or an Indy girl who happens to infringe in its territory… it’s just a thought.
Dude: I most definitely am against doxxing, but I saw your unhinged text rant on twitter that got you exposed. I don't think was she did was OK, but you were full on nut ball going off on her. 2 wrongs don't make a right, so take some responsibility. I don't think what you said to her warranted doxxing, but still not OK by any means.
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