Yeah, I am sure your post did come across quite how you meant it, but I have seen much, much worse. lol

Personally I think you exemplify exactly what the OP was asking about. I think the guys who make comments like what she was talking about "mean well", but something gets lost in translation.

I have to admit that if I were to generalize, I prefer Asian and Hispanic ladies to either Black or White, but I don't fuck generalities. lol I judge each woman individually, and have been with some fanatastic ebony women, both in and out of the hobby.

I guess I am kind of like Mikey, but not quite as drunk, but just barely. lmao

This might not be politically correct either, and I invite everyone to flame me as well, but women of different races "ARE NOT" all the same. There are definitely disparities between women of different races, some quite subtle, some not so subtle. It's all a matter of personal taste, just like people don't "choose" to be gay, you can't consciously choose what you find attractive. It just is what it is.

I think everyone should  at least try women of different races to see which they really prefer. The best way to fairly judge is to fuck a hundred women of each race, and then decide which race you like best. rofl

Growing up there was something about them
that didn't attract me as much.Maybe the texture of their hair, or their complexion that turned me off.Maybe its a false stereotype, that so many people express about their intelligence being on the dumb side. I have forced myself when given the opportunity, and if I was in a pinch, but I like it better if they just have more fun without me. I'm just not into blondes.
Most of my civilian GFs have been Ebony,Asian,or Latina and thats exactly how I like my providers.

It's a great question and I hope you get the answers you want. I can't speak for others, but I've been equal opportunity. I do know some hobbyists that think ebony providers shouldn't ask for the same rates and I asked an ebony provider about that and she confirmed that lots of Caucasian hobbyists ask her to lower her rates. They didn't give her a reason, but they asked, almost without fail as she recounted her experiences. One of the things that I find odd is some ebony providers pretend to have a mixed heritage because they assume it will attract more responses to their ads. Like many providers, many hobbyists don't care about that and if you present yourself in a way that makes us think you just didn't hop off the bus, I think there should be no question about being ebony, your rates or any of that other useless fodder. Whether hobbyists don't see ebony providers because of race or something else is unfortunately apart of the American landscape. I've not heard any "horror" stories and I've even ventured into questionable neighborhoods, but I've never had trouble or anything that would dissuade me from going to see them again. I did cancel an appointment with an ebony provider once because her handler/pimp called me and tried to change the rate I was quoted before he would give me the room number. He backed away from his demand, but I didn't change my mind and bolted from the scene.

I am an ebony companion that takes pride in the service I provide and enjoy the friends that I make along the way. Most guys that I meet have some "horror stories" about seeing ebony providers.

80% of the men I see usually make a comment along these lines:

"I normally don't call ebony women but I made an exception for you." -- At times it's flattering but I really do want to know what's behind this comment.

Honest answers only please! I am very receptive of a persons right to their own opinion so PLEASE be candid.

Are there any hobbyists out there that are attracted to ebony women but are  skeptical about seeing an ebony providers or just choose not to? And why.

-- Modified on 8/16/2010 6:42:46 PM

I never have, but have been curious. Bottom line I guess they are just another lady. God that sounds racial, but I don't think I am? I have seen some ads of stunning black ladies and I can idenitfy exactly what attracts me. A cute face and a great looking ass, no outstanding world class ass of which a black woman can have and is rarely matched. Skeptical about seeing an ebony provider. Yea, maybe and I don't know why, not really. Maybe deep down I think I might not be treated as well. As well as what I'm not sure.

Well after all is said and done, If I were you and I read this I would jump all over the dumb SOB who wrote it.

MODERATOR - If a flame occurs on this thread please let it burn, fuck it, throw wood on the fire.  He deserves it.

I know. I'm being a smartass. The fact of the matter is, I don't give a flying fuck what color, race, religion, what-fucking-ever a lady is in those respects.

My deal is, HWP, and gorgeous. In my eyes, anyway.

Look, I'm a middle-aged white guy, 43. Half Spanish, other Heinz-57. First review was with an ebony lady. Would love to see her again. Since then have seen a certain ebony lady numerous times. She's a dear friend of mine I talk with constantly. Actually hurts my feelings if I go a day without hearing her voice.

We make plans to see eachother, and she referred me to another ebony lady even.

Like I said, I'm 43 years old. I know this sounds like shit, but I've always been around black people. As well as Hispanic, Oriental, whatever. My dad was in the armed forces and he made a lot of friends along the way when I was a child. We moved, and met people in the same situation. You stuck together.

Color, or religion, or WTF was never a consideration. Everybody came from the same place.

So, if I see a beautiful lady, I don't think 'oh, she's black.' or 'oh. she's oriental.' Or whatever. I see a beautiful WOMAN. If we meet, it's up to her to decide if I think she's ugly or not.

Know what I'm sayin'?

I recently started hobbying (less than 6 months).  My first was an Ebony girl.  And she was fantastic.  She was soft spoken, educated, and spoke regular English.  Perhaps, some hobbyists are afraid of the Ghetto-type, Ebonics-speaking stereotypes.  But among the several other Ebony girls I've visited, none fit that stereotype either.  I had such a good experience with that first provider, that she also became my first repeat.  In my short time hobbying, I would say about 30% of the providers I've seen were Ebony, or mixed Ebony.

BTW, I saw your website.  You look hot.  Hope you tour DC one of these days.

I will probably always be attracted to thin, blonde(long hair), bubbly, mediun chested cim's. Also young.

I have only ever been with an ebony lady once in my life. DAMN WAS SHE LOUD!!!

I don't like spending hard earned money in a 'trial-n-error' fashion.

Here's your honesty;

I would for something(lady)that absolutely floors me aesthetically. Por ejemplo, I used to think Marilyn McCoo was hot in my youth.

I've been hobbying for 5 years. In the first two years I saw several ebonies whom I like. One of them is more like a friend now. However, since then I couldn't find anyone that I like. A lot of ebonies advertise in CL and BP and I don't go there anymore. With the exception of one I saw a few months ago who unfortunately only does rub-and-tug, the ebony ladies came across as too "ghetto" for my taste. Even the ones who advertise on TER presented such persona; perhaps they created it to attract clients.

I love this response. Very clever! You had me going for a second I appreciate it though. You put a smile on my face

Thank you for all of your responses. I appreciate your answers and honesty. You all gave me insight to a question I've been dying to ask for quite some time.

Thank you robedolo. I might take you up on that offer in the near future. DC is one of the few states I have never been to. I've heard nothing but good things, though. I might stop in for a visit on my next vacation to my home state, New Jersey.

To think that you are supposed to get wet listening to someone insult your race and then expect to get credit for conspiring to have you join him in his denigration is a sad commentary on the public state of things, but there you are.

Sorry you had to endure this and thank you for sharing it with us.

I'm not saying that we don't all have our biases, I certainly do; but at least I was taught to keep them to myself.

"Maybe deep down I think I might not be treated as well. As well as what I'm not sure."

I would love for you to elaborate on this statement. Like I stated earlier, I respect everyone's right to have their own opinion. Don't be shy!

it is simply a matter of consistent failure to connect. either there are scheduling issues or i feel that there is not much interest on her side so i back off. i got as close as seening one lady when she canceled the day before.

it parallels the "real world" in many ways. in my personal life outside the hobby i have had least success with ebony ladies.

You and others as well. That maybe, just maybe, I have something meaningful to say, and that I might not actually be drunk, but hide behind it because that's what you expect?!

I'll turn you on to something in PM. It'll flip your lid!

Anyway, have a goodnight brother!

There are attractive women of all backgrounds, just as there are people of all types from all groups.

I've met ebony ladies who were awesome and those who were less so, but on the whole they've been on par with other women I've seen.

I'm just curious what the racial makeup of that 80 percent you're talking about is.

Where did they find their horror story women? I just looked through the rip off reviews. We are under represented there. We are also in small numbers on the internet hobby sites overall. Unfortunately, those men who made those comments to you probably picked up a street walker. It's a sad reality but street walkers are not known for being reputable.

Probably every African American provider has heard that same line and most of us hear it several times a day. If you get stuck on the race thing you will go insane.

I can tell you to maintain a professionally done website, watch your health, work out, if you have not finished college go back and knock out your degree(s), pay your taxes, update your photos often, make sure your rates reflect your ability to provide the type of session that would command that rate...YOUR RACE NOT WITHSTANDING....bc when you go to book a flight for a tour the airlines are not going to give you a discount bc you are black, no one is going to cut the cost of the hotel room bc you are black, no one is going to discount you anything...that is what you tell someone who will eventually ask you to lower your rates bc of your skin tone. Take care of your health, take some time off when you need to, and have fun!

Don't stress out over a few people.

I actually had all my poor experiences with white girls.  A hot lady is a hot lady.  The only woman who took my breath away was a woman of color.  

IMHO, a gentleman should read the reviews, look at the pictures & only see ladies he's attracted to.
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ImReadyRU "The real answer is many ebony ladies talk trash, act like trash, dress like trash, because they watch too much trash on tv, and in many cases have been treated like trash by men in their lives. So why would you expect anything different from them"

  Good Grief Man!! What hole have you been living in. If you can't see all the white Trash surrounding you, it can only  be you are one of them. The only thing worse than white trash is ignorant ass white trash. I am seriously wondering when was the last time you smacked your white trash GF?

I think I prefer the good old fashioned, overt racism that we can all recognize. I am amazed at all the left handed compliments, and downright ignorant shit that comes out of people's mouths.

I have dealt with ignorance and racism all my life and generally just dismiss it as a fact of life, but this insidious, back handed racism, disguised as well intended ignorance, or so called understanding about where women of color "come from" is quite eye opening.

If you think black, or yellow or brown people are inferior, just fucking say so. This dancing around trying to justify racism is disgusting IMO.

It reminds me of the stupid rednecks who comment about "how good your English is" and "where do you come from?". I don't throw too many punches in my "old age", but I am sorely tempted some times.

Blacks are not a monolithic subculture as some of the responses suggested. What's said is that she even has to deal with it.

It is easy to chalk it up to racism. When it really comes down to it, it is all about attraction, not race. Most men and women are attracted to certain types and if you ask them, they won't be able to explain. Don't believe if a hobbyst finds someone attractive, race would not be consideration.

As far as what is said, people do have open mouth insert foot problem and that goes for all races without discrimination.

he's ok for a black fellow? That one pisses me off. It still subordinates people of color. Right there, that's another one. 'People of color'. I'm a fucking color. Peach my daughter likes to say. Or in my case, medium brown. lol

You're right, covert biggots enrarge me much more than the asshole who overtly opens him/herself open for a punch in the nose.

It still smacks of backhanded racism, all under the guise of pretending to know why they are all "that way" or at least why so many are.

Why don't you just come right out and say you think black chicks tend to be ghetto, but you understand that it's not their fault? Yeah, I'm sure that's going to win you a lot of friends.

I bet you use a lot of terms like "those people" and "she doesn't talk black" don't you?

...so I pass them by.

I have probably seen 2,000 different women over my lifetime, and I have not noticed any difference in percentage of BBBJ vs CBJ by race.

I have received mind blowing BBBJs from women of all races, and I have also been dissappointed in the oral skills of women of all races as well.

If you've seen ten black women and only two gave you a BBBJ, go out and see another ninety, but do better research and come back with the results. lol

I like the ebony ladies who have class and act like normal people. Sex crazed is OK! LOL
Actually the above goes for ALL ladies. The real answer is many ebony ladies talk trash, act like trash, dress like trash, because they watch too much trash on tv, and in many cases have been treated like trash by men in their lives. So why would you expect anything different from them. I am not saying all ebony ladies are like that but their path to the hobby may not have been a pretty one. All I can say is it is fairly easy to see the beauty of a classy lady past her skin color. To those ladies when can we meet?

In the hobby, providers come in all sizes, hair color, skin color, age and method of engagement, (FBSM, FS, Tantra, etc.).  I think all of us have had experiences outside what is for each of us, our chosen norm.  For me, that is older, fleshier, darker complected, white FS providers.  I suppose that at one time or another after being especially pleased by a provider who doesn't fit this description, I might comment about what I great time I had despite her age or the extent of her service offering.  Although in my mind, the other attributes guide me towards those providers with whom I would most likely be satisfied, I certainly wouldn't render a compliment about sensitive topics like size, hair, skin or body type.  Put yourself in a providers shoes.  She is born a certain way and there is not a Hell of a lot she can do about it.  To receive a back-handed complement based on that is really demeaning and one based on race is just about as bad as it gets.  I hope someone derives something out of my views, and I hope nobody finds them offensive.

And by my type I mean they have a body and face that I'm attracted to, but also aren't your typical CL/BP type girl. I don't see those girls regardless of race. As far as I've seen there's only one ebony provider in my area that comes close, and I think she travels most of the time. But another thing that really scares me is that the CDC reports that 48% of black women between the ages of 14 and 49 have genital herpes. I assume that the percentage is even higher among providers, and I don't like those odds.

It makes no difference to me at all, as long as she has class. I have dated ebony ladies in my civvie life  (including one with a PhD) , and as a hobbyist I e.g. enjoyed Victoria Lane, a most wonderful provider.

Eden Monet-

Reading your original post reminded me of the folks who have nothing but negativity to spew about average Black folks but "aren't racist" because their favorite basketball player is Michael Jordan, or they watch Oprah or had dinner at the same table as a Black guy once or whatever.  The statement you hear from 80% is a backhanded compliment at best.

There's a vast cultural diversity amongst African-Americans themselves, and it gets even more true when you consider West Indians, Africans, etc.  Whatever truth stereotypes have at their roots, drawing any conclusions about anybody based solely on the color of their skin is a straight up mark of stupidity.  

I'm not sure I even qualify as a hobbyist considering how rarely I get down, but I'm neither skeptical about visiting women of color, nor have I ever chosen not to.  Quite the opposite, in fact.  And I must say, each of the ladies I had the pleasure of meeting was sharp, memorable and absolutely unique.  Am I just lucky?  Who care, as long as my streak stays intact.  

Now let me each the fellow who encouraged you to carry yourself to DC ASAP.  

ImReadyRU "The real answer is many ebony ladies talk trash, act like trash, dress like trash, because they watch too much trash on tv, and in many cases have been treated like trash by men in their lives. So why would you expect anything different from them"

 What part of my copy and paste of your ignorant white trash statement is out of context? The problem with white trash like you, you don't realize the real answer is, white trash don't know how bad they stink, when they are consumed with calling others smelly.I would expect nothing different from you. Smackdown

One under this name and several others under other names.  This also might sound odd (i.e. stereotypical), but I find, generally, ebony providers bring a better "game".  I find them to be more comfortable with themselves and more sexually expressive, generally.  Go ahead, let me have it.

You are worse than a politician! taking quotes out of context! Go back ad read the message it also applied to any trash like yours. smak

gracious lady.

When I wrote the post I just wrote my honest thoughts. When I read the post I had second thoughts but decide to post. It sounded very racial, however  you asked for an honest opinion.

I grew up on the Mason Dixon line. Not the South or North, a border state. There were no black children in my school until I was a sophomore in high school. A guy who was very good at sports and a girl, both in my grade. They were not related.  

By chance the girl was alphabetically just ahead of me by last name. We always sat next to one another in home room and our lockers were always next to one another. She was not very good looking and had few friends. I always said hi, was cordial I guess, probably at best. Guys were always kidding me about being around her -  locker, home room, classes, organized assembles.  

The Junior prom came around. I asked her if she was going one day at the lockers and she just shook her head and walked away. I asked the black guy if he was going to ask her and he said hell no. She really wasn't good looking, but  Junior year in high school, Junior Prom and she wouldn't be asked.

Hell I went by her house one day and knocked on the door. Both her mother and her came to the door. I asked her to the prom.  Whew, her Mother taught me some words I never knew, peel the paint off a John Deer tractor. Two days later her cousin gave me boxing instructions.

It was pretty awkward after that. I live in the South West now. Black providers are not prevalent.  A few traveling, some on BP.

From your website and  comments here I think you would be an interesting lady to talk to.  
I've often asked myself , "Do I have a racial bias?" Maybe, maybe not, just don't have much oppertunity to test myself one way or the other.

Best of Luck Lady  

I understand where you are coming from.  I'm a black man who fancy all types.  However, I can say that this hobby comes with its share of risks and challenges.  For the sake of space, I'm only going to speak to my experiences with ebony women.   I've had great experiences with all women including ebony women; a couple of which keep me consistent company.  My worst experiences have been with ebony women as well.  I've had money stolen from me, treats, dangerous neighborhoods, angry attitude and such.  After my last ebony experience (where she took the money and didn't want to offer the time), I decided not to go with ebony providers for the time being.  It also turns me off when ebony women claim heritage from other races (latina, etc.) when you clearly see they are not.  Be proud - no reason to apologize for being ebony - it's a blessing.  It's hard to get into someone who misrepresents themselves for whatever reason.
jmtc

unless 1.4 to 1.6 of the two ebony provider he saw turned him down for BBBJ.

With a sample size of two, his possible conclusions would be, all of them, half of them, or none of them. No other conclusions would be possible.

"no problem, I have friends that are black". Geesh

There are many providers who advertise as mixed or Latina (part-Latina) or whatever. And brown people come in all different race/ethnicities.

I am considered light skinned, though I get dark in the summertime. And my mom is half black and half white, while my dad is half black and half Latino.

So when I say I'm mixed, I'm mixed. Whether or not you decide to attribute a particular race to me when you see me, I am not misrepresenting myself as that is my race. There are other mixed providers as well.

Unfortunately, TER doesn't have a mixed race box on the provider profiles. My profile is marked African American, though I grew up in a family that is as bright and dark on both extremes. We are a rainbow.

And so even if men want to identify me on the boards as ebony (which they do all the time)...

...I am MIXED.

And by the way, my niece is full Latina but is my complexion and as almost identical features as me. The only difference is she's lucky enough to have naturally bone straight hair. I wonder if people will tell her she misrepresenting herself as Latina when she's older. Or they may say she’s not a real Latina like I hear in the hobby…”no not the real Latina so and so”. Wow.

Eden: There are MANY men in the hobby who love ebony women that you don’t even have to worry about the small percentage that do. I am very successful and all of my clients but two are white. And I do better than some of the white providers in my city (or at least they complain…but I have no reason to). So focus on the ones who know what they want in a provider and are smart enough to pick you, because of your qualities and not your skin color.

is one of the whitest states in the US.  My southeast home: just the opposite, as you'd likely expect.

During many years growing up in the southeast, I heard every racial slur going.  Racism was a cloud over EVERYTHING.  

When I visited the northeast, people couldn't comprehend the barest utterences of those slurs or actions.

I now live in the northeast, and have for the nearly 30 years since high school.  My reviews are ALL of caucasian ladies, though I did see two ebony ladies when I first began hobbying.  One was very young, and a mistake for me (due to immaturity, not color), and the other was a complete professional whose company I enjoyed immensely at the time, and whose board presence I still enjoy.

For me, like others have stated, it's simply a matter of what floats my boat.  Recently I had a dialog with a well-regarded ebony provider in the DC area, but we couldn't work the schedule out.  I WILL see her at some point...she appears to have all the qualities that I desire when I meet a provider, and her communications let me know clearly that she is a VERY bright young lady.

Though racism was rampant in my "southeast" family, I can honestly say that the balance brought on by my "norhteast" family helped exorcise it from within me.  I look forward to meeting more providers "of color".  Sometimes I wonder if it's only to prove that that exorcism has actually taken place, or if it's a curiosity, or what, but I AM attracted to those that fit my desires.

I agree with this comment."I'm not racist I have black friends" someone that makes this comment usually is trying to justify undercover racism not blatant but you know it's there.I am mixed with a few different nationalities including african-american maybe some can see the different nationalities and some might not see all those nationalities.Does this mean i'm not really mixed?No, it just means some see it and some think I'm mixed with other races I am not.I have heard this comment being posted in other replies "ebony ladies say they're mixed,but really are not"I say to these people how do you know?I have heard this identical thing from another ebony provider that she has clients tell her she needs to lower her rates because she should not be charging the same as other races.It has the tone of "how dare you think you're equal to other races,you're not."I was shocked to say the least I couldn't believe what I was hearing.Just as the OP stated she has experienced this with 80% of gentleman.Ghetto and ignorant people come in all races,but when I read things such as "she wasn't ghetto to be an ebony provider or she spoke very well."Everyone has their preference on the type of lady they want to see,but to ask some to lower their rates based on their race is despicable.If the lady is not your type move on,but don't send that kind of message it's hurtful and uncalled for.

try he is alright for a white guy on them it will confuse their narrow minds.
Doc

I have seen 2 ebony providers. The first was one of my first experiences and she was perhaps and still is in the top 3 of my ATF list. Just an amazing young lady. She was many years wiser than her 24 years of age. She has retired and gone back to school.

My seond esperience with an ebony provider was horible. It was like a trip to the hood gone bad. Bad section of town, brothers hanging out in front of the house. She was much too street wise for me. No passion, just sex and get it over with, take the money and run.

I have contacted an ebony proivider for a trip I have planned in a few weeks. So far based on e-mails things are looking like we will have a great time. I like ladies of all colors, shapes and sizes.

I live in the south and most Ebony ladies advertising are BBW, and so not really my type of body.
I see some skinny ones too, but they don't have the curves.  I'm still lookin for someone in the middle. So I have not tried.  I have tried several Asians with darker skin, but not Black.

However, what's attractive to me is a more tone body, big eyes, full lips and nice racks and ass.
I haven't found the perfect one.  Ebony ladies I've seen that get me hard are in Porn films and some actress.  I continue to search for one.  Would love to try.

LOL...I don't like the ladies in that video either.

And the funny thing is I've lived around black people my entire life and I typically don't encounter what you posted above. Rather, I see the women below...umm...because they actually exist. I suppose if you've never ventured out beyond what you've seen on TV, well you'd be ignorant. How sad. I guess what I find interesting is that I grew up around black folks, went to college with them, have a family full of them and they are not like the women in the video you posted.

I have been exposed to hundreds and thousands…and well…it’s just not like that always. So I wouldn't assume that is what an ebony provider would be like...especially if you are finding her on a top tier website like TER.

Anyway, I am sooooooooooo grateful that I have had a life filled with knowledge and that I do not believe every video I see is representative of an entire race. I am so glad that my family taught me to be intelligent enough to judge things based off my real life experiences with MANY people (not just one) and not just a video.

I feel bad for you that you are ignorant. Truly, I feel sad for you that you have not been exposed to people beyond what you see every day. How unfortunate.

I am happy there are many white men whose eyes are wide open to the many different types of people out there. They do not stereotype and they are far from ignorant. I value them for that among other things. They are truly special among the rest.

By the way, I go to a black hair salon weekly. The salon is PACKED with black folks...none of which are represented in your video above...nope. They are CEOs, college students, mothers, escorts (well at least me)...and the list goes on...but they are NOTHING like what you deem to be true for all.

With that, I say goodbye to you, as I requested to be voluntarily delisted...but hopefully my voice will still be heard here until that occurs and perhaps I may move at least ONE individual to stop stereotyping, as it is never ok.

Ciao! (I will miss you…truly)


http://www.askmen.com/celebs/women/actress_100/116_stacey_dash.html
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2YmrIQ5gzQY
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=diNyoOyTI5g
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JlxByc0-V40

Previous poster had a sample size of 2,which in all fairness, is enough data to draw a straight line.

I just look at the lady I'm totally color blind and some Ebony providers
I have met have been the best of all
My favorite is one lady in vegas I'll cancel anyone over her
If I can find her???
Who needs arrogant partners who think they are the best things since sliced bread?
I say if I dig you you perform good and have a good attitude, you're in. Period.  

I really have no answer to the question you pose. Except...if you have not figured this out yet all of us of the male species...no matter what race...are  rather flawed.   Perhaps the comments are an expression of nervousness.  At any rate , they are indeed idiotic...but then again , so are we.

BTW, where's your website Eden?  I would love to check it out.

I am a computer/business geek.   I am socially awkward.  I talk to maybe 2 or 3 civvie women a day, TOPS.  I don't even talk to the hot receptionist.  Most of the folk I talk to are nerdy, pasty skinned whites, asians, and dark skinned indians.  I am not an anthropologist.  I don't study cultures and races for fun.   I don't care to learn about people.   I don't care if my employees are blue, silver, black, red, green, or mauve.  Hell, I don't even make eye contact most of the time.   All I care is they write the code and bring me my fucking money.

But I have a LOT of exposure to Hip-Hop music, so I have a subconscious link between black women and hip hop.  I love hip hop music.  I love the creativity, swagger, and style of rappers.

I don't know, I just don't find the girls in this video I linked to that attractive.

WTF difference does it make the color of a person's skin?

Does it make them a better or worse provider or hobbyist?

What about their economic status?

Is a person of means better in the sack than someone that doesn't have shit?

Is a Catholic person better than a Jewish person? Or Islamic? Or Buddhist?

What about where a person lives?

WTF difference does it make?

Fuck!

Fucking respect should be the order of the day. Every day.

I have found that most of my clients love, the fact that I am ebony. However, I do get the question what  are you, once they see me they are excited.

ebony woman contributing here

As an educated and honestly advertised ebony woman, I've got to say I enjoyed reading all responses. Even the not so positive. All I can say is that not all ebony women are true to the stereotypes. I personally challenge all apprehensive men to try a well reviewed ebony out. In my case, I'm confident that I could kill the stereotypes quickly! Don't want to come off as cocky, but I feel I hold more intelligence and worth than a large percent of providers regardless of race due to my education and professional experience. I'm also intelligent enough not to get offended by not so positive thoughts about ebony women because as service providers, we can not be categorized. My conversation is mine. My body is mine. The taste of my vagina is mine. A woman that shares my skin color or race does not share those characteristics. To make an assumption on quality based on race is unjust!

I'm not knocking those who flat out aren't attracted to black women. Afterall the point of meeting with a provider is to be turned on in companionship. Just not in favor of those who stay away based on stereotypes.