there is a reason they make locks for doors..there is also a reason why hotels and motels exist..sounds like another bs alias thread to me..

He makes this godawful gasping, screeching sound of shock; She launches herself off my dick like a bottle rocket and explodes into action and sound, snatching clothes to cover herself and yelling at him to get out of the room;  and I'm standing there in full Monty with my dick wilting and subject to looks from the kid that could boil lead.

So, this wonderful scene between Mother and Son moves into and through the rest of the house while I'm, thankfully, left behind in the room with the audio version only.  Ok, so there's a whole shitload of issues here, and I'm not so hobby-mentally-diseased as to not acknowledge that those two have some shit to work out, BUT, I think I might be getting a little TOO jaded.

Because the first thing on my mind, now and at the time, is: Am I going to get part of my money back or at least be offered a discount for a future session?   I'm not so stupid as to have brought it up when she finally made it back to the room to deal with me, but when do I?  Or should I just let it slide?

I'm inclined to seek redress.  First of all, she didn't finish the session, even when the kid ultimately stormed out of the house.  Second, since she was so fucking stupid as to forget that the kid had a half day of school that day, she was responsible for giving me a damned near Defibrillator Needing Moment, and I only have a limited number of those in me.   Am I being a prick here, or should I be getting something out of this to make up for the shit I had to deal with?

One thing for sure is that I'm staying away from BP for awhile.

Don't worry. The working girl will simply tell her child that you are his new DADDY. Congratulations.

WTF? WOW!! I am in shock at what I just read! How will she EVER explain this to her son? Not to mention WTF was she doing providing in her HOME where her children live? I am not sure if you will ever forget that or if you can get past this. This is just awful on so many levels! I dont think your being a prick but I do believe that woman is as stupid as they come.  I do believe I would chalk it up as a bad experience and stay far away UNLESS she wanted to get a room and continue the session.
Guys please be careful where you see the ladies at! Obviously anyone could just walk in.
So sorry this happened to you. I am even more sorry for her kid
Hugs and kisses
TL

you even realize how much trouble BOTH of you would be in if CPS ever got wind of this? Nuff said. Turning tricks in the same house a minor lives is bad enough, but when one is actually there? Get a rope!

She bad.  But you have to feel a little compasion for her as this is way worse than you not finishing a session.  Kind of like the I had a client die on me so I took the rest of the day off post.  Come on guys Providers are people and have shit happen.  give them a break, now if a pattern deveolpes that the boy always walks in or she is having every client die, different story.

give her a fkin clue! You simply don't do things like this period!! Any mother should know better, or be hauled off to jail for tricking in a damn house a minor is at! That is putting the child at risk for more than you can imagine, and should NEVER be tolerated!

Am I the only one

who is seeing humor in this....This gotta be funny. If that were a adult daughter, may be she could have joined you guys too...LOL

I'm still having coffee come out of my nose...I also like the OP's writing style. Very creative use of words...

Just chill girl...

Yes shit does happen and we are people, however I don't think it's right for a provider to be working out of her house when she has young children living there.  If she worked out of a hotel like a normal person in that situation then that would have never happened.

Things happen, you get ripped off? you learn from it. You get busted? You learn from it. You start itching or dripping? You learn from it. Whenever something bad happens, and this is life and bad stuff happens, we typically seek redress to right the wrong. Sometimes, and I truly believe this is one of them, you simply pack up your balls and move along and learn from it. Take a breath and learn the lesson before you. Do not get hung up on the fact that you did not complete the transaction you showed up for. If the lady on her own did not offer you any accomodation your attempt to extract one will only lead to another sub par visit. Just move along My Man and live to fuck another day.

"Now for you Ms. Jones, hands her a goblet of her favorite wine and some chocolate, you just sit back, enjoy the goodies and allow me to lick that little button until you feel better"

Just an Old, Ugly, Fat Fuck with an opinion

Finally someone thinking of the child ! Thats sad on so many fronts ,many providers have "older kids" and unfortunately they do know what is going on.

Re: Disgusting

totally agree with you Julia...wow..

I am not even sure how anyone could think otherwise...!

the "Uncomfortable Kind"

http://theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=61427&boardID=29&page=1

Snoopy is what Snoopy does.

Sorry, but that is horrific in so many ways.  Your not being a prick at all by wanting to get your session discounted, or something in return.  She should have got a cheap hotel room instead.  GREED is what get's us caught up in drama & ladies with kids should realize even if it is not a half day your kid could show up without your knowledge at any given moment this is a risk they choose to take.  I for 1 would not take the risk.  The rise is not worth the fall.

Sort of reminds me of this "Friends" episode:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ud225L5omcM

Don't be so quick to call BS just because my experience doesn't conform to your TER Newbie Board inspired  fantasy of what the Hobby really is.

Plenty of women provide out of their homes and, him being her son an all, he had a key to the front door.  She just forgot that he had a half day at school.

did u get atleast release one cup before u got busted???

This will be a great story to tell the grand kids.

FWIW, I don't think the working girl's son gives a damn whether you were in his mother's ass or pussy. All he cares about is that some guy violated his mother. Question now is if he will try to find you and make your life a living hell in retaliation for the role you played in making his life a living hell now.

Who provide in their homes that they share with children no matter the age of the children.

You could pass off as her BF? Maybe she could explain to her son that you two were actually making love. LOL.

People wonder why cautious providers don't visit a personal home in their own vehicle if at all...duh.

If there is one thing I've learned, it is NEVER to underestimate the technical sleuthing skills of teenagers. Most are quite adept and finding information when they put their minds to it. I sincerely hope the Original Poster has taken the necessary precautions to safeguard his identity from the working girl and her son.

Posted By: London Rayne

People wonder why cautious providers don't visit a personal home in their own vehicle if at all...duh.

In either case, the kid is probably traumatized for life. His mother is a working girl v. his mother is dating a fat, old, ugly guy who could end up being his new step-daddy. Neither choice is especially appealing.

Between him and her.  It's her fucking fault to begin with. I didn't bring the fucking kid with me, and I didn't know that she even had one that COULD walk in on us.

And yes, I'm too old and ugly to be the BF LOL.

need to post about it and be so oblivious to the big picture. When someone sees "13 year old kid" in the tag line, it does tend to get some attention and not the good kind. You had to know you were going to her house when you pulled up? Should have turned around right then, but I get it bro. Cheap ass is cheap ass regardless.

The actual story or the fact that he's thinking about a future session ..

... a few months back posted by a different alias.

I have a fond appreciation of London's posts as well. Very insightful, witty, honest, humorous responses.

In my OP, I DID acknowledge that there were a lot of issues and that they had some shit to work out between them.  I also acknowledged that I may have become a little too jaded by thinking about the business part of the Hobby is this situation.  So I wasn't oblivious.

Actually, I personally believe that the life issues were so patently obvious, that I didn't need to make my post about them.

BTW, the lack of hotels in the area in which I saw her usually results in the ladies in that neck of the woods providing from their home, so it is NOT an uncommon thing.  Besides, when I pulled into the driveway, I REALLY, REALLY wanted to get laid.

are home in another room or place in the house. I have heard many stories of this and when the provider or provider's found out , they were out the door like a new brides dress on her honeymoon

I am guessing this was NOT a highly reviewed provider from TER or any other website.

Just my .02

I don't think you were "jaded" by thinking about the business part of your situation. You were simply being pragmatic and trying to protect your financial interests in the transaction.

You would have been "jaded" if you had asked the working girl if she was going to upsell you for the new arrival joining in on the "fun".

And of course, you would have been "sick" if you had asked the working girl if the new arrival could join you both.

Posted By: DinahMoeHumm

In my OP, I DID acknowledge that there were a lot of issues and that they had some shit to work out between them.  I also acknowledged that I may have become a little too jaded by thinking about the business part of the Hobby is this situation.  So I wasn't oblivious.

Actually, I personally believe that the life issues were so patently obvious, that I didn't need to make my post about them.

BTW, the lack of hotels in the area in which I saw her usually results in the ladies in that neck of the woods providing from their home, so it is NOT an uncommon thing.  Besides, when I pulled into the driveway, I REALLY, REALLY wanted to get laid.

just make sure that she's considered what time her kids get home before I get into the session.  

This presupposes that I get some sort of price break for the fuck-up on Friday.

ritualistic suicide? can i watch? maybe then we will all be spared these bs ho-hum threads..right dynamo..

A certain GF & I (~ 1980) installed a bolt on her BR door lest her sons wander in in the middle of the night, while I was sleeping over.  They quickly learned to knock on thre door & were cared for promply.  They never interrupted any action because we were smart enough to not do anything when they were awake & we would stop action at the sound of foot steps.

My ex's 15 yo daughter could hear our bedroom activities (she should have waited 2 weeks because that was the end of it)...  went first to live with her father & new wife...  after a month, went to the grandparents.  

My second time around, her 8 yo hated me from the time we announced marriage plans.  When we got married, she moved her bed against the common wall, announced she could hear everything said or done & stopped action until she left for college.  I was not hobbying & I must have been insane to stay.

Current ATF, mature lady...  family nearby but not in the house...  we do meet at her house now but lock the outside door.   I have actually met some of her family who think I'm a business client as she does office work from home.  
We have dealt with fammily emergency phone calls...  but it has all worked out.
HV  

...immediately upon arrival. Out of  habit, I always recheck just before gettin nekid...just in case..ya never know.!
Not saying that it won't ever happen (at least the kid part won't...no kids..whew)...but being "Hobby Savvy" would minimize the risk.
Heck, I hear clients pulling back the shower curtain...just in case.
Th OP needs to cover his ass a little better before he traumatizes another *child*...period.!

But I can't stop laughing

to read your next post.

It may go something like this.....

There I was balls deep in her ass when the bedroom door burst open and there stood her ex biker boyfriend and his 13 year old son staring at me in disgust and utter disbelief.

-OR maybe like this scenario.....

Retired Police Chief Grampy picked up little Johnny from school because he wasn't feeling well and the school nurse could not get in touch with his mom because her cell phone was shut off.......

Please be sure to write it up for us all to read.

I can see how this could happen and it is regrettable-however-in my mind - the right thing to do is to call her and see how she is doing and how she is handling this situation-show some empathy for her situation-and if she invites you to come back to finish the session-decide in advance what your response will be under a variety of scenarios-it happened-hind sight is generally 20-20 but I wouldn't end a business relationship that otherwise was okay due to some sort of issue-so call her-see what the deal is and how she is coping.  The 13 year old won't ever forget the incident-but why punish her more than she has already been punished by making her feel even worse than she does??  Give her a call...tell us how it goes...if you can no longer reach her-that of course is a different story.

  Couldnt make that shit up in a thousand years. . Boogedy, Boogedy..   and make
sure you get a redo.

Thanks guys...obviously, I am here all week bwahahaha!

-- Modified on 4/30/2012 11:03:19 AM

your child never walks in on your wife with another man whilst you are out fkin hookers. How funny is that?

You said exactly what I was thinking.

Yup, that will happen to Backpage providers, and that doesn't exclude Backpage providers my hobbyist friend.

Aren't we mocking the client for having a dumb trick for a trick? I should certainly hope so.

It's done an over with now. You didn't say anything to her. I guess you could try and see her again and ask for a discount. But honestly just let it go and move on. It's really not that big of a deal. If providers have kids and they do sessions at home while kids away, there is always the chance the kid can come home early. Life. Sure you can say she should use a hotel room then, and maybe you are right. Each provider does what is best for them.

Have you heard that this happens a lot with said provider? If not then just let it go. Sucks it happened to you but you left without saying anything.

I completely agree with your assessment. Those who feel compelled to use the "Ignore" function don't really understand what forums are all about and are insecure to some degree or another.

Looking forward to your next posts, as always.

I completely agree! Never ever bring this kind of business into your home, kids or no kids... that's playing with fire.  Many dangerous scenario's can come of that. Sorry this happened to you. Next time if there are signs that a minor resides where you are at, walk out the door.

in the sack with a guy. How would the kid know it was P4P and not just casual sex?

I'm not disagreeing with many of you re. using her home for her playground. Yes, it was a dumb ass thing to do on her part. The guy at least says he will stay away from BP.

You're missing the point. The issue is NOT whether the sex was P4P or casual. The tragedy is the child seeing his parent having casual sex. If you don't believe me, try having sex in front of your own kid and see what happens.

it is stated in the thread way up^^^ that the OP is too old and ugly to be a bf. Secondly, no 13 year old should see his mom getting fucked by ANYONE! Including his father!

it should not ever happen...period, end of story. If you want to turn tricks in your own home, don't have kids! You are irresponsible not taking them into consideration! This guy was a gent for the most part ha ha, but what if it had been some drug dealer? Serial Killer? It takes ONE time. I put my life at risk every day in this business, but I won't bring that crap around my child.

You think this situation is bad? You guys should hear about one of our local gals who had the kid calling her saying the sheets smelled funny and were all wet. Seems this provider let another provider use her home with only one bedroom at that, to play and she did not clean up after herself...she was a squirter. Imagine that...kid laying in someone else's nasty stuff and asking her mommy why. Stupid hooktards never cease to amaze me.