Ok I'm a bit confused here maybe somebody can understand and explain this to me. For the past week or so i have been emailing a lady where i live she has good reviews and seems fairly low volume. I sent an email about possibly meeting she doesn't really have pictures on her site i mentioned this and she was very nice and sent me some pictures private email. The pictures were nice so i mentioned there are certain things i look for when i see someone. I have been doing this awhile and know what you are and are not supposed to ask some ladies in email although some don't mind. She emailed back and said i don't mind you being specific about what you want in fact i encourage it she said. So i emailed back what i was looking for being she said it was encouraged since then nothing no return email nothing i have tried emailing i sent like 3 over a week or so and texted once still nothing she won't respond now at all.
So am i missing something i don't think i did anything wrong and it kinda sucks cause i really wanted to meet her. Oh well i guess.

weren't on her menu, but it seems a return communique to that effect would have been a lot more professional than radio silence.

that was my thought she could have said something anything i mean just silence.

you never mention money and you never mention sex acts (or euphemisms for those) in an email or text. It is bad for provider and for client.

No I'm not a newbie and i do know what you say is true in most cases and i usually never mention either of those things. I would not have done so in tis case either until she sent the email stating and i quote "i don't mind you being specific about what you want i actually encourage it". Thats why i sent what i did so i don't understand the silence even if it was not on her menu a simple that's not available would have been something.

If you mentioned any sex acts specifically or were vulgar in any way or even implied sex for money, then she probably gave you the cold shoulder. There are specific abbreviations or terms for what you are looking for or want to do. There are some websites that list them. Since you were not specific about what you communicated to her, then I cannot give a specific answer as to what you did wrong. I can say that emailing her 3 times a week and texting her after she shut you down probably sent up red flags for her. It is not unprofessional for a service provider to shut you down completely. They do so because they feel there is something wrong and do not want to endanger their safety.

Yeah i stated what i was looking for using mostly abbreviation and there was nothing vulgar. It was more like 3 emails in a week and ahalf or so and 1 text yesterday i didn't want to text or email more becuse i didn't want to seem like a stalker or crazy or something. They were just short emails like how are are you still interested in meeting stuff like that. Don't get me wrong i don't hold any bad feelings or resentment towards her sometimes people don't click and sometimes you feel it through email or in person. I have had my share of those both ways so it's no problem i guess i just posted this to see if anyone else had something similar and it's just been on my mind. Since this is a very private part of my life like most here i imagine this is the only place i can talk about such things.

If I were a monger I'd stick with well-reviewed girls where there would be no question about their menu.  Why be a member here and not use the assets of this site?

Listen and learn.  

And asked about something not on her menu. I say this based on his response to Zen Man.

You are a monger lol whatever the fuck that is. Did you make up that word?

I have been told back channel that is typical for you.  LULZ!

Get verified before you talk or bring up anything p4p.

But "LULZ" is pretty stupid if you ask me. Wtf does that even mean. Is that a non-monger phrase for those "special" non-mongers (ahem, rolling eyes) lol

Isn't "backchannel" for boys

What does GG stand for?  Genetic Girl?  Given your age you can't possibly be posing as a girl, one assumes. I think when I got here U were admitting U were 48.  But I've been told UR really in your 50s.  Condolences. If I'm still doing this when I get that old I hope someone shoots me.
LULZ!

And girls don't backchannel?  We all chat?  You know all, I suppose, and speak for all women.  Sheesh!  Get over yourself.  Good lord.  Take a chill pill.

By the way you converse should I assume you are 3? Shame on you lol.  

I believe you're old enough to be my Dad actually lol. Nice giveaway lol hahaha

the person UR referring to is honest about stating her age.  U, OTOH, are the one who is telling a fib about it!
LULZ!
UR right about my being 3.  Happy now?

Geez, make up your alleged mind.  Do you always talk out of both sides of UR mouth, Mom? Give it up before you sprain yore Lil' bwain.

... if she wants to ignore you based on a question, then she's not worth the hassle.

It's irritating as shit I agree.  It will have a place in my video no worries.  😉

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