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Re: Guys do this all the freaking time
Greenbacks2 31 Reviews 184 reads
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You are right. te]

Posted By: Erin Keevy
It's irritating as shit I agree.  It will have a place in my video no worries.  ðŸ˜‰

footlong46991582 reads

Ok I'm a bit confused here maybe somebody can understand and explain this to me. For the past week or so i have been emailing a lady where i live she has good reviews and seems fairly low volume. I sent an email about possibly meeting she doesn't really have pictures on her site i mentioned this and she was very nice and sent me some pictures private email. The pictures were nice so i mentioned there are certain things i look for when i see someone. I have been doing this awhile and know what you are and are not supposed to ask some ladies in email although some don't mind. She emailed back and said i don't mind you being specific about what you want in fact i encourage it she said. So i emailed back what i was looking for being she said it was encouraged since then nothing no return email nothing i have tried emailing i sent like 3 over a week or so and texted once still nothing she won't respond now at all.
So am i missing something i don't think i did anything wrong and it kinda sucks cause i really wanted to meet her. Oh well i guess.

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LoboGris531 reads

weren't on her menu, but it seems a return communique to that effect would have been a lot more professional than radio silence.

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footlong4699344 reads

that was my thought she could have said something anything i mean just silence.

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MasterZen546 reads

you never mention money and you never mention sex acts (or euphemisms for those) in an email or text. It is bad for provider and for client.

No doubt deviating from the accepted practices which are tried and true put you on her do not talk to list.  

There are ways to communicate and be clear, without being explicit or implying the worst - sex for money.

You are not a newbie (I don't think), but it seems you forgot the basics and made a newbie mistake.

I may be wrong, but you don't give many specifics.

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footlong4699351 reads

No I'm not a newbie and i do know what you say is true in most cases and i usually never mention either of those things. I would not have done so in tis case either until she sent the email stating and i quote "i don't mind you being specific about what you want i actually encourage it". Thats why i sent what i did so i don't understand the silence even if it was not on her menu a simple that's not available would have been something.

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nothrofboston337 reads

Get verified before you talk or bring up anything p4p.

Rule 2 ... get verified of you interested.  

Rule 3 ... Play Safe (on the phone/text
                Have Fun (if you don't scare her away)
                Repeat (after you've been verified and get the date)

The rules and guidelines are better served when a provider knows you're who you say you are and book. You can always decline if you don't like her answers ... AFTER YOU'VE BEEN VERIFIED.

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mrblond68365 reads

If you mentioned any sex acts specifically or were vulgar in any way or even implied sex for money, then she probably gave you the cold shoulder. There are specific abbreviations or terms for what you are looking for or want to do. There are some websites that list them. Since you were not specific about what you communicated to her, then I cannot give a specific answer as to what you did wrong. I can say that emailing her 3 times a week and texting her after she shut you down probably sent up red flags for her. It is not unprofessional for a service provider to shut you down completely. They do so because they feel there is something wrong and do not want to endanger their safety.

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footlong4699315 reads

Yeah i stated what i was looking for using mostly abbreviation and there was nothing vulgar. It was more like 3 emails in a week and ahalf or so and 1 text yesterday i didn't want to text or email more becuse i didn't want to seem like a stalker or crazy or something. They were just short emails like how are are you still interested in meeting stuff like that. Don't get me wrong i don't hold any bad feelings or resentment towards her sometimes people don't click and sometimes you feel it through email or in person. I have had my share of those both ways so it's no problem i guess i just posted this to see if anyone else had something similar and it's just been on my mind. Since this is a very private part of my life like most here i imagine this is the only place i can talk about such things.

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MatureGFE252 reads

Listen and learn.  

Steph

-- Modified on 2/29/2016 11:44:00 AM

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Afro-desiac396 reads

If I were a monger I'd stick with well-reviewed girls where there would be no question about their menu.  Why be a member here and not use the assets of this site?

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MatureGFE272 reads

And asked about something not on her menu. I say this based on his response to Zen Man.

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GGxo351 reads

You are a monger lol whatever the fuck that is. Did you make up that word?

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Afro-desiac289 reads

I have been told back channel that is typical for you.  LULZ!

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GGxo253 reads

But "LULZ" is pretty stupid if you ask me. Wtf does that even mean. Is that a non-monger phrase for those "special" non-mongers (ahem, rolling eyes) lol

Do you know what transparent means ohhhh special non-monger poster?

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Afro-desiac219 reads

What does GG stand for?  Genetic Girl?  Given your age you can't possibly be posing as a girl, one assumes. I think when I got here U were admitting U were 48.  But I've been told UR really in your 50s.  Condolences. If I'm still doing this when I get that old I hope someone shoots me.
LULZ!

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GGxo235 reads

By the way you converse should I assume you are 3? Shame on you lol.  

You don't insult me about my age. I'm actually quite proud to be in my 40s. Now if you're going to insult anyone older, I believe you just did. She's on this thread as well and we are quite different in age groups. So apologize to her. Not me.

Posted By: Afro-desiac
What does GG stand for?  Genetic Girl?  Given your age you can't possibly be posing as a girl, one assumes. I think when I got here U were admitting U were 48.  But I've been told UR really in your 50s.  Condolences. If I'm still doing this when I get that old I hope someone shoots me.  
 LULZ!

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Afro-desiac197 reads

the person UR referring to is honest about stating her age.  U, OTOH, are the one who is telling a fib about it!
LULZ!
UR right about my being 3.  Happy now?

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GGxo222 reads

Isn't "backchannel" for boys ;)

Us chicas we don't backchannel. We chat. Or inform if you will. On a higher level to boot. Other than what our ass crack really looks like 2" away lol. We have better things to talk about. Like if you're SAFE!!!!!!!

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Afro-desiac242 reads

And girls don't backchannel?  We all chat?  You know all, I suppose, and speak for all women.  Sheesh!  Get over yourself.  Good lord.  Take a chill pill.

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GGxo206 reads

I believe you're old enough to be my Dad actually lol. Nice giveaway lol hahaha

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Afro-desiac211 reads

Geez, make up your alleged mind.  Do you always talk out of both sides of UR mouth, Mom? Give it up before you sprain yore Lil' bwain.

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Epsilon_Eridani117 reads

... if she wants to ignore you based on a question, then she's not worth the hassle.

I have ran across providers that will provide services that are not listed on the "menu".  

On the other hand, I will read reviews and some will say that a service was done, but not mentioned in the "menu" (on her website or ad). So, I would ask her about that service just to verify if that service is offered or not.

If the lady is going to get all pissy when someone asks her a question, then she shouldn't be in the business in the first place.

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PenleyDuke275 reads

It's irritating as shit I agree.  It will have a place in my video no worries.  ðŸ˜‰

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Greenbacks2185 reads

You are right. te]

Posted By: Erin Keevy
It's irritating as shit I agree.  It will have a place in my video no worries.  ðŸ˜‰

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