Okay, lets not OVER-Analyze this subject here. YES, it's a business and YES...I certainly do ENJOY, what I do. YES- I want dick (sorry for the language) 24-7 (literally). YES-if I can find a man who can keep up with me, then YES-he and I would be "banging" so much, that I wouldn't have time for variety/clients (although, I must admit, variety is awesome!!!). Damn, I am horny lol Where are you, Clarence??? lol

p.s.

I am probably not making sense here for I am in thattttt mooooood for love right about now lol

Seems to me you're talking past each other. If he were attempting to explain why women choose to be escorts, you'ld be dead on.  But my read is that he's talking about why a woman who chooses this business (for whatever reason) is able to succeed at it.  In different words, what are the characteristics of a "woman who can handle it".

Whether he's right or not I plain don't know.  Sounds plausible, but so do lots of things that turn out to be wrong.  BTW, all providers who post on these boards (except occassionally under an alias) claim to be type 1.

why good for you sweetheart ...

WOMAN: if i'm gonna work for it, i might as well make it enjoyable

MAN: if you're getting paid for it, you MUST make it enjoyable!

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a hypothetical dialogue  ... NOT a movie quote!  

Not necessarily. A provider has direct insight only into her own motivation, and this  insight might not  be accurate. Just because a provider thinks she's only in it for the money doesn't make it so.

When it comes to the motivations of other providers, her insight is even more questionable. She's as much an outsider to them as any client is, and can only  infer their motives, same as anyone else. She possibly has LESS first hand experience with providers than many clients do, so her understanding might be inferior to theirs.

Lets look at the other side of the coin. Who has more insight into why clients see providers?  The knee-jerk answer would be thatthe clients themselves do: they must know their own motives!


But motives are tricky things to catch. Possibly providers might know the motives of clients best, simply because they see so many of them. As with the provider, a client only knows his own motivation first hand, the motivation of others can at best only be surmised.

Even what the client thinks when he explains himself might only be a rationalization, misleading his hearer and/or deluding himself. And what he learns from other hobbyists well be similarly cultured, filtered through a net of caution to prevent seepage of any motives they do not wish to reveal to the world or to themselves.

But there is a method that might provide some understanding. What one does reveals more  about ones motivation than  what one says. (Ihat's why there's a law against heresay evidence in court.) Don't look to what someone says, but at what he or she does. That is the key to their motivation. What fellow hobbyists and fellow escorts learn about themselves is usually learned in bull sessions,What they learn about each other is learned in action. Look at the persons behavior, then ask yourself  for the reasons YOU might do it (even if its something ytou would never IN FACT do.)  This type of empathetic understanding, perhaps fictive, is the most anyone can hope to achieve.


Of course, one might say that there are as many reasons for becoming an escort as there are escorts. That's true, but useless.It's lazy, like saying all politicians lie. Under the guise of worldliness,  it  saves one the effort of thinking--and saves one from the embarassment of ever being wrong.