not doubting your authenticity or your earnest efforts here but....
Are you NUB? Just wondering because I see nothing reflecting previous experiences here and maybe just maybe if you were screened it didn't pan out for you resulting in a lack of response from the pro f idea. Depending on the circumstances , like maybe you were untruthful she/they did not choose to follow up. I myself will follow up,if the requested info,is inadequate to be comfortable but if intentionally misleading, you will hear nothing further from me. Example being Xmas eve someone insisted on sending their info via text which I do not normally do and it checked out very quickly then only to follow up with repeated insistent texts that I meet right away. I dusted him for rudeness or drunkenness, Xmas day I get a text from another number different name and a tally ranked with him tentatively seeting a later appointment if it checked out. Dumbest set up new social media under new name and phone but there were pics the same as the previous idiot. Was I kind enough to contact him and break the news that I knew he lied to me....seriously, what do you think.
Another thing noted in your posts is the references to using texts for arrangements. The reason I had the previously noted problem was I broke my own rule about texting screening and setting appointments. To me texting is like hiding behind a screen and does not lend itself to honesty unless,it is with someone I already have experience with. My little bit of reference tells me that most reputable PROVIDERS don't work solely by text except, with a KNoWN and most reputable knowledgeable HOBBYIST dont either for the same reason.
Zo,az,uxual You say your texts good and forthright, 3 Providers, with one being arranged 2 twice.....methinks either something is amiss, you need to change your Modus Operandi or the Provider group you are engaging. Plus take into consideration maybe that the Holidays could have been in play too....
Honestly you really have no place to go (anymore than it would if the roles were reversed) with this unless you name names and i am suspecting that it would not effect them at all.
A salubrious New Year to all
Suzee the slut