TER General Board

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worried 23 reads
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1 / 35

What do YOU do with all our personal information after verification and a solid visit?  What do you think most other girls/agencies do with this personal information after verification and a solid visit?  You do you; it's just a question.  

CurlyW-NatsFan 11 reads
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2 / 35

Things are not always the way they look. You can negotiate, and not just price, but other things as well..  

 
That being said, you do what suits you the best. If it's too far out of our comfort level, the market will speak for itself.

davincib1 96 Reviews 32 reads
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3 / 35

have to risk it all for some vag.  Within the boundaries and safety of both parties of course.  I have always argued that current WL's on TER should suffice as screening, some won't accept it while others have scheduled with me simply from a PM through here.  I have also argued that P411 should be the primary tool for setting up a date, but even there you have some providers that want even more personal information, others that won't see you if your "Okays" aren't current enough, you have too many, or not enough of them.  Even with references, some providers have ridiculous rules that require you to see them semi regularly just to get a reference to see another provider, and there's also the whole jealousy within the hobby itself that has been discussed plenty.  Some ladies take it too far.  Again, I'll circle back to P411, if that isn't good enough then I'll move on and save my bread.  

worried 35 reads
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4 / 35

Soooo ... you delete our information once you've verified?  Correct?  Are you the norm or the exception?  Again, you do you.  Just a couple of questions, since you brought it up.  

100ProofOfLV See Agency Profile 24 reads
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5 / 35

It may very well be because business is slow, or just out of ignorance. One thing is for sure, you will eventually find yourself face to face with LE. As the old saying goes, "desperate times call for desperate measures." Nothing good can come out of not screening. You can't run in between raindrops forever.

inicky46 61 Reviews 17 reads
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6 / 35

Mainly because people seem to have plenty of money to spend on everything else, like houses, cars, etc. Not to mention the amount of pent-up horniness that's built up.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 17 reads
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7 / 35

screening is cut back, it's harvest time for LE.  That seems to be when agencies get busted in LA.   It usually happens when screening is relaxed due to a temporary slowdown.  

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 26 reads
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8 / 35

for 20 months, a lot of scammers took advantage of customers by misusing their screening information or outright blackmail scams.  Many stories of trouble caused by these providers ended up on this board.  You can look back and find them.  Consequently, many customers are more resistant to providing too much personal information in order to get screened by a provider.  Many times, higher end customers are the ones Providers seek out, but the more a man has to lose if it's discovered that he dabbles in P4P, the more likely he will resist intensive screening that allows you to do a full verification of who he is.  The guys that will hand over their life story are blackmail-proof (which does not automatically mean they are NOT also high end) and have nothing to lose if you put a story on the front page of the Times that they see sex workers.  For some, it's a badge of honor.  Lol

worried 19 reads
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9 / 35

Bullshit.  When agencies get busted, it's because of the nosey neighbor.  Not because of the screening.  You should know pork.  

Hpygolky 233 Reviews 18 reads
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10 / 35

As I was making my plans for Vegas, I wanted to see someone new. So I reached out to a few ladies who have a "Screening is a must" on their site/ad. Now, I'm not good at giving references, I hate it but I gave it a whack without the references...and the three ladies I reached out to, had no problem seeing me. They didn't ask for a deposit,didn't bring up references. I didn't go through P411 (Not a member anymore) I just text them, chatted a few times, gave them my sad song and dance and voila, I was set. Now if they don't show up then that'll be a different story.
Funny is that didn't ask for anything personal or out of the norm.
Shit,Maybe I can now crack the code to the whole KGirl scene...nah, never mind.

636sd 23 reads
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11 / 35

And if it's deleted, is the info deleted properly? Or does it just sit in the trash forever? And is the phone secure to begin with?  

I personally don't have an issue with screening. Use a burner phone, send of an old ID (not even my current state) with everything but my name/pic blocked out, and a LinkedIn with no real info on there, and TER/411 info. That's it, if they want more I simply say sorry for wasting your time.

I only contact providers who are present and have reviews on multiple reputable sites.

DT_lover 188 Reviews 28 reads
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12 / 35

Maybe that's with girls who offer greek?

worried 18 reads
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13 / 35

The oldest profession in the world is NOT struggling.  Providers and agencies that overcharge and over-verify are the ones struggling.  If the cops are sending someone to infiltrate you, you're doing something more than the plain vanilla sex for money; they also go for the lowest hanging fruit with the most amount of pizzazz.  So why do you need to know where I eat, shit and play?  My opinion, you don't, but YOU do YOU and what makes you feel safe.  I will never suggest otherwise, but I'll do me and what makes me feel safe.  BTW, you're incredibly sexy and Montreal is a beautiful/artistic city, love those murals.  Also, if pork wants after you, it's an unfortunate misallocation of funds with ALL the other real crimes going on today.

GiaGenet See my TER Reviews 23 reads
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14 / 35

...that refusing to screen is still participating in screening. It just means you fail lmao

This industry has always had a full spectrum of standards and working conditions, and the economic impact of the pandemic coupled with a mass shift to spending life online has made this more visible. None of these phenomena are new, we are just seeing a shift in impact happen in real time.

Re: my personal screening practice, it is concerning to me when a man approaches me with the expectation that I begin our relationship by contradicting myself. It feels like he is trying to establish that my boundaries are his to control, and at that point he is trying to buy something I do not wish to sell. I am lucky to be able to ignore those requests and focus on clients with whom I am a better fit.

mr5mike 7 Reviews 22 reads
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15 / 35

Even in Canadian Dollars this is still just my opinion for what it is worth.  I joined P411 when it started because I liked the concept.  Hobbyists could join and build their reputation over time and if a provider wanted to verify you when you met the last 4 digits of your DL were proof of who you were.  Between my Okays and the agreed to protocol to show my license on request in support of my P411 profile, I have never had an issue and I think maybe once was asked to show my DL.

Much like deposits which I will not provide, if the P411 procedure isn't good enough to get me in the door, then I just move on.  If the ladies who use P411 think they need a deposit or more screening, I don't complain or grouse about it.  It is their choice and their safety.  But they will not enjoy the pleasure of my company or compensation for their time.  

I respect that and expect them to do the same.

nevertoolarge 30 Reviews 16 reads
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16 / 35

let me repeat something said many time ..   as soon as the girl is ready to send me her personal info and her drivers license, then p411 Okays and TER white lists will have to do.    this especially for girls that only have a couple suspicious  reviews  ( reviews from guys whose only post is a review for that girl)  and no p411 account !  

100ProofOfLV See Agency Profile 19 reads
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17 / 35

That is correct. Also if you do not screen, the wiser hobbyists will not see you.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 18 reads
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18 / 35

Unfortunately, the bullshit's on you.  I agree that nosey neighbors CAN be a source of LE reporting for ladies using an apartment incall, but that's not even the number two threat, much less number one.  I go to some apartment incalls that have been at the same location for 2-3 years.   What do you have, about 30 reviews since 2017?  That's about 6 a year.  Tell you what, get some more experience, become a VIP customer with a few bookers, date some agency girls in real life on the outside, then come back when you know what you're talking about.   I promise to at least listen.  

RegencyHobbyist 109 Reviews 16 reads
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19 / 35

Agree. There’s an apartment incall in Vegas that’s been in the same place since 2015 when I started going there. And the police station is right across the street.

TinaStar4u See my TER Reviews 45 reads
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20 / 35

Im having the same issues, what I think you gentleman fail to understand is that you have a 75% Idea of who is walking through your door by reading our reviews, visiting our websites , and also seeing what other sites we post on and the info provided on them.

I cant speak for everyone but before I make my point ... PERSONALLY I DONT CARE WHO YOU ARE, WHAT YOU DO/WHERE YOU WORK, HAVE NO DESIRE TO EVER CALL OR TEXT YOU RANDOMLY, NO DESIRE TO CAUSE PROBLEMS IN YOUR RELATIONSHIPS!!

What I do want from you though is your name,age,ethnicity and either a reference from a highly reviewed provider or if you dont have that ... I need something that has your name on it and proves that it is you. Examples of accepted forms of verification that I accept.

AND ONLY 1 IS NEEDED ....

1. Your ID/LICENSE with matching name you booked date with
2. Business card with your name and company on it
3. Some type of Social Media Account that is at least 5 years old EXAMPLES: LinkedIn,FaceBook,Instagram,Twitter

Something that proves you are you and not a fake made up name by law enforcement or a serial killer. If you cant provide that the that is a serious red flag.... what do you have to hide? Do you really think that 90% of us are looking to screw you over ... Your not that important and if you were ... Have us sign an NDA. I've done it with alot of my higher profile clients.

This may just be a hobby to you but it is still our job if you are hoping to get to spend time with me then you need to understand that the research and hiring goes both ways!!  

JUST MY 2 CENTS!!!

OldRanger 62 Reviews 30 reads
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21 / 35

From my end what you are saying and requiring is more then reasonable. If myself or others can not supply a reference or two you absolutely need something else. Any provider that does not want at least what you are asking I do not want to see. Am not hearing deposits so with your screening requirements anyone trying to schedule and not provide one of the items you ask - CRICKETS

worried 15 reads
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22 / 35

Agreed.  You DO need to screen.  And as always, you do you.  I personally like that you take references and P411.  In most cases, I don't think that we are worried about the particular provider that some of us give our identification to, but if you get busted, we do NOT want a call from pork OR your ex/current/future pimp, Or your ex/current/future boyfriend/husband/family/relation/do-gooder/anyone, OR our names posted on some website, whether it's 10 minutes from giving the information to you or 10 days/10 months/10 years.  Some of us, say that we have no exposure, but I will guess that 95% of us have a lot to loose, whether it's our JOB(security clearance)/family/friends/anyone we care about/jail.  Ask anyone on the Ash**y Mad*son list.  If it really goes both ways and to repeat NEVERTOOLARGE, I would know your real name and address too.  What do you do with the information that you receive?  Is it deleted afterwards?  Again, YOU do YOU and whatever makes you feel safe.  

THE other 2 cents!!!!

Angel4Life 23 reads
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23 / 35

You advertise on P411.  Why isn’t being a P411 member with 6+ reviews suffice?

Angel4Life 18 reads
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24 / 35

You advertise on p411.  Why does a p411 admirer with 6+ Recent OKs not suffice?

MP67 11 Reviews 19 reads
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25 / 35

Victoria Jolie, first let me say I'm a HUGE fan! You're crazy fucking hot and don't let anyone tell you any different!  

Next, you're fucking right. This is your  fucking world. We just fucking live in it.  

Sweetheart, if fuckheads don't like it that's their fucking problem. But I will say, if it wasn't you, whom I've known for years, no way in hell would I put a deposit down for an extended date. Some I had and great experiences, but I've heard horror stories that would make guys think otherwise which I understand.

Victoria, here's my deal. You and I have been on TER for a long time. If you and decided we were going to meet, knowing each other's history and references, I'd be comfortable with your concerns for an extended date as long as you know and understand me and my history. Cool?

BTW, did I say I think you're fucking CRAZY gorgeous and I totally dig your vibe!!!

DonDosEquis 13 Reviews 15 reads
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26 / 35

You pretty much nailed it for me.  I have too much at risk to ever provide my real name or dl.  I did that one time, ten years ago, with p411, and maintain that continuous membership for the purpose of verification.  I respect that may not be enough for some, but it has served me well so far.  I expect that will remain the case until I retire from the hobby.

inicky46 61 Reviews 21 reads
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27 / 35

I've been with VJ several times, so GFY.
Also, I've only paid a deposit once and it was to a mutual friend in LV so she could get her car out of hock. I knew it was zero risk because she was a friend of you and a few others and we were all going to a party in LV so there was no way she'd stiff me.
Last, you'll almost certainly never read this because you almost never come back to this site after an occasional random post. Come back, throw a bomb, disappear.
LOL.

CurlyW-NatsFan 16 reads
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28 / 35

To you.. See he doesn't like you that much after all.

Angel4Life 18 reads
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29 / 35

I am Sorry Victoria… in reposted under Tina’s reply.  That was who it was intended for.

inicky46 61 Reviews 18 reads
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30 / 35

Wasn't on Christmas Eve? Fun times always with you, mi amor!

CurlyW-NatsFan 19 reads
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31 / 35



-- Modified on 6/6/2022 8:37:10 AM

CurlyW-NatsFan 17 reads
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32 / 35

I don't wanna get between your love fest, but you do realize she is French and "mi amor" is Spanish for "my love", right?

inicky46 61 Reviews 17 reads
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33 / 35

And VJ, being a classic courtesan, speaks ALL the languages of love. She has a VERY talented tongue.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 14 reads
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34 / 35

of love without a single dollar sign in your post?   Lol

TinaStar4u See my TER Reviews 24 reads
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Posted By: Angel4Life
Re: Same Here…
You advertise on P411.  Why isn’t being a P411 member with 6+ reviews suffice?
Hey sorry I just forgot to write that I accept references from other websites such as p411 and PD.
That being said I will not accept them as a reference unless as you said there are a minimum # of OK's or reviews.
I can't tell you how many have tried to bypass screening by creating an account for another website the day they send me a booking request .. lol

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