: TER General Board Discussion : For hobbyists: Research well! For Providers: Screen well! EOM

iliketofarm 1913 reads

posted 13 years ago

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Rules of the game.

Hobbyists: What's the single most important rule to follow in the hobby?

Providers: What the single most important rule to follow as a provider?

iliketofarm 426 reads

posted 13 years ago

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Typos!

Sorry about the typo.

OCSummer See my TER Reviews 502 reads

posted 13 years ago

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Reading the ad.........

There is nothing worse than answering a bunch of questions that I already have in my ad. I find it to be a huge time waster, and just purely disrespectful. My phone number is there for after you have read the ad and I don't mind clarifying things for you. It is not there so that everything else can be skipped over and answered in a phone call. I immediately read that as someone who is not serious about meeting. Especially when Im asked "which girl are you again" because they aren't even sure who they have just called....LOL

BizzaroSuperdude 30 Reviews 435 reads

posted 13 years ago

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This is not hard.

As a hobbiest - keep in confidence what you know of the provider.

As a Provider - keep in confidence what you know of the hobbiest.

By not doing this, you can destroy lives. All too often not exercising discretion is a result of emotional feelings and we can all empathize with that, but it is still no excuse for not keeping secrets

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 388 reads

posted 13 years ago

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For hobbyists: Research well! For Providers: Screen well! EOM

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1192967 45 Reviews 319 reads

posted 13 years ago

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I'd say Bizzaro & ps have it right. Those go together. (eom)

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MagicMedic 5 Reviews 487 reads

posted 13 years ago

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never, ever

Go bareback full service...the end

MM

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hiddenhills 143 Reviews 335 reads

posted 13 years ago

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Always go with your gut

listen to that little voice that tells you DANGER, DANGER ! It's actual good for both hobbyists and providers alike. It may take a little time to develop this sixth "hobby"" sense, but when you do, always pay attention

Posted By: iliketofarm

Hobbyists: What's the single most important rule to follow in the hobby?

Providers: What the single most important rule to follow as a provider?

Tobi Telford See my TER Reviews 329 reads

posted 13 years ago

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+1 to the max! -e-

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macdaddy1944 51 Reviews 480 reads

posted 13 years ago

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3 little rules

be on time..be clean..be sober..ALWAYS respect your partner..

Posted By: iliketofarm

Hobbyists: What's the single most important rule to follow in the hobby?

Providers: What the single most important rule to follow as a provider?

Senator.Blutarsky 485 reads

posted 13 years ago

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And never ever....

See anyone that has seen Udo, Ridgetucky, or the other trolls.

London Rayne See my TER Reviews 443 reads

posted 13 years ago

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I have a no fktards rule. E.

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iliketofarm 370 reads

posted 13 years ago

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Me too. -e-

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escalade1964 65 Reviews 438 reads

posted 13 years ago

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Will not see donations lower than

20 bucks an hour..

trust me...Its Gross

iliketofarm 348 reads

posted 13 years ago

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Good stuff.

I especially like hiddenhills', BizarroSuperdude's, and MagicMedic's rules. But which, if any, is the single most important rule of them all?

"Leave your feelings at the door" is a pretty fkn important rule --all sorts of sht hits the fan when you break it.

Maybe the bareback rule is the sine qua non. Not London's "no fktards." The hobby-economy would collapse!

iliketofarm 334 reads

posted 13 years ago

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Puke. Everywhere. -e-

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Bostonguy57 48 Reviews 394 reads

posted 13 years ago

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Never book out of desperation...

Do your research and don't let the little head over rule the big head.

iliketofarm 306 reads

posted 13 years ago

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Re: Never book out of desperation...

Yes! It only takes one time to learn that rule.

Lorenzo67 6 Reviews 424 reads

posted 13 years ago

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For hobbyists.....

#1 rule: the provider while GFE is not your real GF nor is she apt to be. Loneliness does not make this hobby anything other than what it is..... cash for time.

#2 rule: RESEARCH.

Sexy Gymnast See my TER Reviews 307 reads

posted 13 years ago

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Re: I have a no fktards rule. E.

Pff haha ROTF!

Sexy Gymnast See my TER Reviews 325 reads

posted 13 years ago

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Re: Will not see donations lower than

Ha! Wow.

hotplants 343 reads

posted 13 years ago

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Trust you. Huh. Who wouldn't? So...say...30 bucks an hour is all good.?{eom}

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case321 31 Reviews 367 reads

posted 13 years ago

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Respect and leave you're emotions in the truck!!

This may sound a little cheesy but every gal we see is someone's
Mother, daughter hell even wife and should be treated as such. Nothing wrong with some ass slapping and hair pulling as long as you don't go too far with it, it's kind of hot with the right gal.

Also leave you're emotions at the door this isn't a dating site. While sometimes you develop some real friendships out of this, it's still pay for play. I've been lucky enough to make a couple actual friends out of a couple ladies. But until I get a call saying come over its on the house just cause I like you ( trust me not gonna happen) no delusions here. The donation keeps it in perspective.

Number one rule though is research and have fun!! Be yourself don't worry about making an impression on her or trying to be the best lover she's ever had. Be who you are and just roll with the flow and you'll be surprised how much better this hobby can be!