: TER General Board Discussion : Everything you say is better off unsaid. eom

EuroModelsShown 3393 reads

posted 9 years ago

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Things you don't want to hear from your date.

I have kids, that's a total mood killer for me.

1. I think to myself, why are you here with me and not your kids.

Even if they are with granny you are their mother no one else is.

2. Now I think you are playing me for a sap, and trying to get more money out of me.

You aren't my GF I don't care about your kids.

vantheman666 11 Reviews 92 reads

posted 9 years ago

2 / 25

I don't want to hear anything from a date, period.

That would be like a raisin or a prune talking to me. That's just creepy.

FakawiTribe 90 reads

posted 9 years ago

3 / 25

"I had a session with SPOTY". Major wood killer. (eom)

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EuroModelsShown 61 reads

posted 9 years ago

4 / 25

Dried fruit.

Your humor is dry as...

EuroModelsShown 82 reads

posted 9 years ago

5 / 25

Is there a person that would....

Give you wood if they had a session with your date?

FakawiTribe 70 reads

posted 9 years ago

6 / 25

Re: Is there a person that would....

Understand wtf you're talking about?
You are about as muddled and clueless as ever

sympathyforthedevil 57 Reviews 58 reads

posted 9 years ago

7 / 25

Oh shit. My period! Eom

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EuroModelsShown 66 reads

posted 9 years ago

8 / 25

Wouldn't want hear that.

You could still get a BJ.

... and if she was a regular. I didn't get my period!

NoGreenBorderedEnvelope 82 reads

posted 9 years ago

9 / 25

I can think of several things I wouldn't want to hear from my date...

... but talking about her kids isn't one of them. I view such comments that she feels safe and comfortable enough with me to share some info about her private life.

My ATF has kids and her SO has kids. We've known each other for years and often we talk about what's going on in our lives while we're catching our breaths, and our kids are part of that. And recently I met a provider who's just a few years younger than I am, and at one point she volunteered that her daughter was getting married soon, and it turns out her two kids are the same ages as two of my kids. It was a nice way to break the ice.

It's not about providers being my girlfriends... at least not beyond the "GFE" thing that's part of p4p. It's about relating to these ladies as fellow human beings, who have much more going on in their lives than their providing jobs.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 94 reads

posted 9 years ago

10 / 25

The only thing I don't want to hear is, . . . .

"Do you have shit in your dick?"

EuroModelsShown 64 reads

posted 9 years ago

11 / 25

Some things are better off unsaid.

And how do you know it's not BS.

The way you talk guys don't usually treat providers as human beings.

I will also say I don't think it's healthy to have long term paid relationships. Despite what people say, people will genuinely want more, as they invest more.

As sappy as you sound you could be one of those guys.

micktoz 43 Reviews 67 reads

posted 9 years ago

12 / 25

After I've been restrained in 4 point on the bed....

.... I don't want to hear, "I'll be back in 2 hours!".

rembrnad0284 12 Reviews 92 reads

posted 9 years ago

13 / 25

;You have the right to remain silent' - e

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NoGreenBorderedEnvelope 70 reads

posted 9 years ago

14 / 25

As for the BS...

... I've seen photos of the kids.

And you crack me up, telling me what you think is a healthy relationship... despite knowing almost nothing about it, or the two people involved. BS indeed, from a master of BS.

EuroModelsShown 71 reads

posted 9 years ago

15 / 25

Re: As for the BS...

They could be my kids. How would you know whose kids they are?

She might be good and tell you everything you want to hear. It's not like you are going to question it.

EvaFantasy See my TER Reviews 66 reads

posted 9 years ago

16 / 25

Don't want to hear.

I normally never talk to a client about anything personal unless they want to divulge their private info. With that said the client doesn't want to hear a providers personal problems as they come to enjoy time together and get away from the normal day to day life.

impposter 49 Reviews 96 reads

posted 9 years ago

17 / 25

Re: After I've been restrained in 4 point on the bed....

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NoGreenBorderedEnvelope 66 reads

posted 9 years ago

18 / 25

I'm certain they're not your kids.

They looked happy.

Jensen36363 58 Reviews 68 reads

posted 9 years ago

19 / 25

Re: I can think of several things I wouldn't want to hear from my date...

As I was reading I was wondering what your reaction would have been to "My daughter is getting married on the Xth with the ceremonies held at Y" and both X and Y matched exactly what your son's wedding plans were.