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funhunterbp 64 Reviews 914 reads
posted
1 / 24

I had a bad experience with a provider.  When I  tried to post to warn other members my post was rejected, because she delisted.  I didn't know post were being censor.  why have a board if you cannot freely post?

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 627 reads
posted
2 / 24
BigPapasan 3 Reviews 484 reads
posted
3 / 24

...hence the delisting.  If she pops up again under a new name, you can warn members at that time, providing you can prove that Miss A is now Miss B.

SinCitySinner 67 Reviews 496 reads
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4 / 24
RRO2610 51 Reviews 585 reads
posted
5 / 24

I learned to always check a provider's membership status years ago in a similar way as you have.
And yes! "Censorship" is omnipresent as compared to back when.............

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 530 reads
posted
7 / 24

I even started a thread on the S&P board saying the rule change was stupid.

In any case the rule discussing delisted providers was quietly changed to allow discussion of "some" delisted providers on a case by case basis, but I think it was also quietly changed back. So the general rule is still no discussion of delisted providers, which the OP (having been around as long as he has) should have known. :

tg_baby 559 reads
posted
8 / 24

What if a girl was stalked/outed/blackmailed? If somebody posts 'Gee, whatever happened to so-and-so' and an idiot either said, 'Oh, she's still around, just email her at XXX,' or 'Oh, she's going by XX now, her new site is...' imagine the harm that could result from that. Whenever I see posts like, 'Oh, I see that so-and-so took her site down, and does anyone have any current info??' the lack of consideration and respect for privacy honestly upsets me. It's like, either email the chick and ask HER...or just realize that if she wanted dudes to know where she went, she would have posted a PSA. Please don't think this is so farfetched, as I speak from experience here.  

Anyway, I had a good reason to delist...it's hard for people whose privacy hasn't been compromised to realize what a HUGE privacy risk this site entails. It's where people go to get the skinny on girls, and all types of people want to get that info...hobbyists, stalkers, gossips, assholes.  

So in sum, I sympathize w/your quandry. But, I feel that it's better to err on the side of caution...comparing outcomes. Anyway, if she has to delist, she won't get the business that an established, legitimate escort would. So it's not like she's really helping herself. Basically the same outcome comes from bad reviews and delisting...people won't see her. And, the people who are dumb enough to see, probably wouldn't have read reviews or board posts anyway. You can't protect other ppl from their own stupidity, especially when they don't take time to research.

boominmyroom 320 reads
posted
9 / 24

I do not think it is easy for a ripoff provider to get delisted

MissAliceQuinn See my TER Reviews 408 reads
posted
10 / 24

Hi there,

I don't know what sort of "bad experience" the op had with this provider, but I can't help myself in responding that posting a rip off report should not be the answer. Yes, it seems it may be justified in this particular instance, but given my personal experience with that site, I wouldn't wish a ripoffreport on my worst enemy.

I happen to be in not one, but two ror's and they're horrible! (And do I really need to proclaim here that they're utterly FALSE?). It's basically supergluing something bad to the top of a google search. And get this- even if you should decide later to take it down, you cannot. NOTHING posted on that site gets taken down. In fact, other than google, various search engines have stopped indexing the site all together since they violate so many ToS. The only thing one could do is sue the author and show the court order to google who'll then not index that post.  

Seriously though, it's a really shitty thing to do to someone whether they deserve it or not. I truly believe that people who post anything on that site will get a karmic kick in the butt at some point.  

Anyway, again- no idea what happened and/or if the provider deserves it, but please don't use ror. That site is horrid.

Kiss me,

Kat

1192967 45 Reviews 400 reads
posted
11 / 24

...TER members provider & hobbyists that don't have any idea how it works

Dr Who revived 360 reads
posted
12 / 24

I just love the hookers with ALL 10/10's...of course there's the bullshit factor.

Yea...I didn't need to google it either  LOL

But I've read those stories for years about the fake reviews and extortion from hookers.  Hmmm...where there's smoke, there's a 10/10?
Posted By: NoQuarterGiven
i guess you dont know anything about 1/1s  
 Rip-off reviews (1 - a total ripoff)are posted on TER to warn hobbyists when others have been ripped off by providers. (cash n dash, bait n switch, ROB etc)  A rip off report can also be posted on his regional board  
   
 I wasnt talking about ripoffreport  
 I've never seen a provider posted on there until you. I just looked it up.  btw I didn't have to use googl to find it.

TheHoundOfCullin 9 Reviews 399 reads
posted
13 / 24

I just assumed a delisted provider broke some rules on the board one too many times.
Shame on me.  
I don't get why a client would go out of their way to screw a provider. Especially married/ rich guys.
I'll bet they are the same type to complain about everything.

The kind of ass that would bitch about his eggs being over easy, instead of over medium..
I say "Fuck you!" Wait a minute, and your stupid eggs will cook on the plate.
Then I'll shove the bacon up his ass!

Sorry for the shitty metaphor.  
It sucks that the provider has to change her name because of one asshole.
It can't help biz. :(

At the very least. You taught me something.
Thanks :

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 316 reads
posted
14 / 24

Most people wouldn't even know about it. Now we all do. Especially stupid since the post you were replying to was talking about writing a ripoff review on TER, not talkng about ripoffreports.

Dr Who revived 226 reads
posted
15 / 24

I had read that drivel about Katie and Teatro a while back.  Is it true?  I don't know...but I will suggest that not every John writes that shit because he has nothing better to do.

The reality is that in this gig transparency is important.  As I posted, and many others have openly questioned, hookers with strings of 10/10's have raised many an eyebrow.  

Keep in mind that there are plenty of members here who discuss these matters beyond the boards...with sufficient information to form opinions on these matters.

And you know it!

Now get your head out of your ass  :D
Posted By: leonlp
Proud of you Kate.  Just because PS has his head up his ass and didn't know about it, doesn't mean that most of us didn't.  People need to know the truth about such things, whether they think they do or not.

Dr Who revived 154 reads
posted
16 / 24

You've clarified your reason for posting on this sidebar.

Thanks!

Oh...and maybe you should list out who all those moronic misogynists are...I doubt they know.  But of course they don't have your expertise either.
Posted By: leonlp
Mine and Kate's comments are limited towards that site.  Yeah she may have misunderstood the premise of a ripoff posting here.  That said, since ROR was brought up, it did became a valid and important sub-topic of this discussion about why some ladies feel the need to de-list themselves.  Yes, I am on the RO board too and I get PM'd all the time about ladies.  But that wasn't the subject of our comments.  I am certain the number one reason by far that the ladies find the need to delist from TER is due some moronic misogynistic douche bag abusing her.  You all know who you are.  
   
 So yeah, whose head is up their own ass in this conversation?  
   
 And yes, I have met Kate and she is absolutely a 10-10.

MissAliceQuinn See my TER Reviews 407 reads
posted
18 / 24

Hi again,

It's not 'brave' of me to post and talk about what so many people already know. It's been mentioned before and I have no need to hide anything. Anyone who has shown interest in me has come across my rod in the due course of research. It doesn't matter to me if the people who never bothered to research me now know about it- I obviously wasn't on their radar to begin with.

If I depended solely on meeting new people, it would be one thing, but those I've met know it's false and continue to see me.  Indeed, most people read it and realize how catty it comes across. I personally believe another girl wrote it. At the end of the day, it didn't hurt me because I am real with those I develop relationships with. Paradoxically, the people who believed it at face value proved through correspondence that I wouldn't want to see them regardless.

None of that was the point however. The point is that, speaking from experience, I wouldn't wish one on anyone. I do see now that I was mistaking a rip off advisory on TER versus one on that other website, and I apologize for that. Also for somewhat changing the path of this thread (sorry OP). You could all understand why I'd react that way though...

Again, apologies for misunderstanding the post referencing a rip off report. No feelings of insecurity about my own, however- so no apologies on my "stupidity" for letting cat out of the bag one something people were aware of regardless.

Kiss me,

Kate

perfectstorm 19 Reviews 206 reads
posted
19 / 24

As far as I know, TER does not allow a provider to delist herself because of bad reviews
To your credit, You did say "As far as I know," so I am not jumping on you for giving false information, but just out to give the correct information.  

Yes indeed a provider can delist herself for bad reviews. a provider simply needs to ask to be delisted. She can be delisted for pretty much any reason, she wants, or for no reason at all. Of course then she can't post on TER either. The only ones who cant be delisted are robs, bait and switch, and ripoffs.

Dr Who revived 232 reads
posted
21 / 24

If you did you wouldn't be using TER as a source of investigation...would you?

The "rip off" describing Kate is nothing more than what gets posted on other boards discussing the hookers who use various coercion methods to maintain "high TER ratings" which, from many hookers POV translate to "higher fees".  There is nothing posted on that report that many guys haven't heard about in various back channel forms on so many of the 10/10 hookers.  Perhaps even from you?

Outing the STD issues on TE...maybe it is real...maybe not.  The reality is it's just another reminder of the risks we all take in fucking strange.  

Now if you want to discuss some of the seriously BSC hookers who "out" guys for being smelly, we can have that conversation as well.  But as many of us know and have discussed those types of hookers...they are insane.  I'm not suggesting that the 10/10 (who are not the well known BSC) hookers will out a guy for that...but OTOH many have outed guys for not giving out a 10/10.  

And you know that as well  :D
Posted By: leonlp
I probably should have said they can't delist themselves for bad reviews and then come back with no reviews under a new name.  TER will link the two stage names, unless its a stalker or outing situation.  In that case TER will respect the lady's privacy and allow a new name with no reviews.  
   
 As a last thought, too bad there are those among us who stupidly do not show that same respect for privacy.  Those dudes need to go.  I have no problem with a lady threatening to out some douche bag who stalks her, endangers her safety or invades her privacy as to family and co-workers.  Same goes for the ladies - outing him for a bad review or a NCNS?  She's got to go too.  But actually carrying out the threat should really be done very cautiously and with much forethought and self honesty. Is it really necessary?  In most cases, no not at all.    
   
 I disagree wholeheartedly about CCPA's comment that this gig requires transparency.  I think he mis-spoke with that term and will agree with this:  Honesty yes, but the veil of secrecy and privacy is of tantamount importance and is sacrosanct here.  The whole point and purpose of TER is to promote honesty about services or common abuses (NCNS, misrepresented age, looks, etc.)  without piercing that veil.   If you choose to violate it by outing a lady (or a hobbyist) without really good cause, you must accept the consequences of your actions.  People tend to react by slapping back when slapped.  
   
 We can bark, question the parentage, insult the intelligence and generally sling crap at each other all day long here.  Lets just stay within the bounds and rules of the game and not blindly attempt to cause actual harm due to some slight or petty insult.

AlexandraMilw See my TER Reviews 379 reads
posted
22 / 24

Kate, don't worry about it and thank you for sharing your story. When I see all 10's I do wonder (on a gal's profile)... but I read that ROR and the person mentioned as the "victim" flat out responded (on the comments section) and said it wasn't true. So as far as that, in my eyes the ROR was made in hate to mess with you.

Quite a bit on both sides of the fence... Guys don't want to be ripped off. Women don't want fake bad reviews by petty men. Neither want to be outed/blackmailed/stalked. I don't get this world sometimes, or the at times, the real world. I don't know what ever happened to being honest and respectful.

kendalllynn See my TER Reviews 463 reads
posted
23 / 24

Here on TER as a delisted person under providers with something to hide. I believe anyway :) good luck , Miss K

Posted By: funhunterbp
I had a bad experience with a provider.  When I  tried to post to warn other members my post was rejected, because she delisted.  I didn't know post were being censor.  why have a board if you cannot freely post?

MissAliceQuinn See my TER Reviews 301 reads
posted
24 / 24

Hi CPA,

I know this post was for Leonlp, but I wanted to chime in again and say that I don't necessarily disagree with you either. There are lots of women in this world who are BSC and who do stupid things things for high ratings. And yes, especially if they don't get that high rating. But that really isn't all of us. That's all. At the same time, I would also be cynical about the subject if I were in your shoes (by 'your' I mean the guys). In fact, there was a thread on the NY board where I stated how horrible it must be for you guys needed to weed through all that bullshit! You all definitely have the short end of the stick in how this has turned out with ratings and BSC women.  

At the same time, I do agree leonlp's response to this same comment of yours. It would be so wonderful to have TER, and indeed this whole world, without the bullshit. Not accepting it as a given in this world.  

And again, the whole point of me starting to respond to this thread in the first place was simply to ask you guys to think twice before writing a ror. If someone deserves it, it's one thing- and we don't know what the story was with the op. But if someone doesn't quite deserve it, it shouldn't go up.

Kiss me,

Kate

PS is Kendall right? Is this a perfect example of what "providers with something to hide" should be used for?
 
Posted By: ChgoCPA
If you did you wouldn't be using TER as a source of investigation...would you?  
   
 The "rip off" describing Kate is nothing more than what gets posted on other boards discussing the hookers who use various coercion methods to maintain "high TER ratings" which, from many hookers POV translate to "higher fees".  There is nothing posted on that report that many guys haven't heard about in various back channel forms on so many of the 10/10 hookers.  Perhaps even from you?  
   
 Outing the STD issues on TE...maybe it is real...maybe not.  The reality is it's just another reminder of the risks we all take in fucking strange.    
   
 Now if you want to discuss some of the seriously BSC hookers who "out" guys for being smelly, we can have that conversation as well.  But as many of us know and have discussed those types of hookers...they are insane.  I'm not suggesting that the 10/10 (who are not the well known BSC) hookers will out a guy for that...but OTOH many have outed guys for not giving out a 10/10.    
   
 And you know that as well  :D  
   
Posted By: leonlp
I probably should have said they can't delist themselves for bad reviews and then come back with no reviews under a new name.  TER will link the two stage names, unless its a stalker or outing situation.  In that case TER will respect the lady's privacy and allow a new name with no reviews.  
     
  As a last thought, too bad there are those among us who stupidly do not show that same respect for privacy.  Those dudes need to go.  I have no problem with a lady threatening to out some douche bag who stalks her, endangers her safety or invades her privacy as to family and co-workers.  Same goes for the ladies - outing him for a bad review or a NCNS?  She's got to go too.  But actually carrying out the threat should really be done very cautiously and with much forethought and self honesty. Is it really necessary?  In most cases, no not at all.    
     
  I disagree wholeheartedly about CCPA's comment that this gig requires transparency.  I think he mis-spoke with that term and will agree with this:  Honesty yes, but the veil of secrecy and privacy is of tantamount importance and is sacrosanct here.  The whole point and purpose of TER is to promote honesty about services or common abuses (NCNS, misrepresented age, looks, etc.)  without piercing that veil.   If you choose to violate it by outing a lady (or a hobbyist) without really good cause, you must accept the consequences of your actions.  People tend to react by slapping back when slapped.  
     
  We can bark, question the parentage, insult the intelligence and generally sling crap at each other all day long here.  Lets just stay within the bounds and rules of the game and not blindly attempt to cause actual harm due to some slight or petty insult.

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