Recently while texting with a potential provider I requested DATY, and she replied never that's disgusting. This is after it was already established that she does BBBJCIM. So,she will suck my dick bareback take my cum in her mouth, but wont let me lick her pussy. Somehow this seems sorta fucked up to me.
You communicate with sexual terms, witch we charge for our time NOT services. She probably thought you were a cop.
Guys: DO NOT request specific services when communicating online, text, twitter, ter, p411.
Common Sense!
Since they already discussed bbbjcim.
could mean he read it in a review. Its still a rookie move on his part to discuss specific acts before ever meeting her.
before meeting, but in reality, it still happens a lot. Not everyone follows what many here think is common sense. Just like the silly LE check, that you would think "everyone" knows is useless, yet it still happens all the time.
We are both making assumptions here, and unless the OP clarifies, who knows who is correct. You are assuming he read about bbbjcim in reviews. I am assuming she has no reviews. I would think if she did have reviews, he would have found out if daty is on the menu through reviews.
In any case, my point was only that in this case, I don't think the reason she said it was disgusting was because he asked an explicit question. I think they both were discussing explicit acts already. Again, unless the OP comes back with more info, all speculation.
Glancing at his reviews, it looks like he does a lot of TOFTT. So that gives more credence to my assumption that the gal in this case is unreviewed.
I've been in this hobby longer than most of you have been alive. I dont make rookie mistakes, I know the rules, etc and my conversation with this lady had already established it was an open dialogue.
Maybe she just thinks getting eaten by an old fart is disgusting. LOL
We always tell the newbies "Never discuss sex acts prior to meeting." That is a really good rule to follow. However I bend that rule myself occasionally. There are times when rule bending is ok, (as long as you know the risks of doing so), but not by rookies or newbies.
Anyway in your situation, that is an odd reply. I know some ladies actually do not care for daty, but to flat out tell a customer "that's disgusting" is pretty weird. She could have said, "no, I don't like it" or "I don't do it with clients" or some other similar reply. I have known some providers who are just the opposite. So called "safety girls" who don't kiss and only do cbj, but enjoy and even expect uncovered daty. Everyone is different. Go figure.
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no offense, but as PS says, sometimes we make assumptions on limited information in an OP. I should have checked your review history before responding and my response would have been different. My bad. As PS says, thanks for the follow up with clarification.
For God's sake don't see her yet! She's obviously never had it done properly. Have her contact me and I will change her mind for you.
Actually scratch that................it may be that she's kinda rank down there and knows it. Might be sparing you from having to GaG.
Why, thank you! Glad you caught that.
have said lickety split? Its not that graphic.
I've never heard of a provider that does bbbjcim that doesn't allow daty... Move on. If things don't add up, don't force the math. There are plenty of other wonderful ladies that will love for you to feast on them.
She is allowed to have her own sexual likes and dislikes. That doesn't mean someone "did it wrong" or anything else. She just isn't into it. Seems she wants to provide a service but also enjoy herself. Ultimately all the clients I have had get off on getting me off....so don't fault her for wanting to give and get a genuine experience....just move on to someone who is into what you are into
Yes, I totally agree. I love DATY, so how is it disgusting if your services include BBJ/CIM?
Baffling to say the very least indeed. Kind of, like hooker math...
Bewildering.
lol
I know right! 😚 who knows... maybe she just doesn't like getting her pussy eatten ?
XOXO
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If she had any desire to see you she might just say she's not into that, or not on the first date, etc...
Not knowing you and saying something you're into is DISGUSTING comes off as an insult to you.
On the other hand, maybe she's getting barebacked by her pimp/boyfriend between paid sessions, so be grateful for her honesty.
I knew one gal that would go crazy if a drop of cum touched her body, but loved to give and receive golden showers, so don't be so surprised if something strikes her as wrong.
Just adapt to it, or move on.
Damn Fish! Are you POTUS!?!
There's a good chance her pussy is much cleaner compared with your mouth, so can't fully blame her if that's her stance.
.... and she'd obviously be a DNS for me.
I know a few women outside of pay4play land who are quite prudish about it, and self-conscious/ uncomfortable having it done.
I've also come across a few women in pay4play land who seem reluctant about this during the first encounter, but are more welcoming of this during subsequent visits.
Could just as easily be a YMMV situation. I sure the idea of getting eaten out by some strange oddball (with questionable dental hygiene) is unappealing for some.
I once came across a provider (BP girl) with blackened teeth (I decided against following through with the encounter), and would not have allowed that disgusting mouth anywhere near my cock.
Told me she did not like it, she said I'm wet enough and I'd rather you just fuck me..... then when I read reviews of her while we were still dating (I did not know she was a provider), I see you guys liking her to 4 or 5 orgasms..... either I am no good at eating pussy and she was just trying to get it over with quickly or these guys are full of shit or somewhere in between. None of the ladies I've been with since have complained. ... I guess she was giving me the TGFE true girlfriend experience, the one where you pay for everything and she bitches about everything
I guess we're all masochist at one point or another!
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cocked sucked by a random girl instead of sucking and licking a random girls pussy. IMHO.
That was a pretty negative response. She sounded kind of conservative at first but then she offers the rest. Interesting. I respect everyone's personal preferences.
So I searched all of TER and apparently there are 18 providers out there in the last 30 days who BBBJ but do not allow DATY. Strange for sure but to each there own. More common, were plenty of transgenders who state that for obvious reasons.
Or maybe it was just a Freudian finger slip. lol
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