Recently while texting with a potential provider I requested DATY, and she replied never  that's disgusting. This is after it was already established that she does BBBJCIM.  So,she will suck my dick bareback take my cum in her mouth, but wont let me lick her pussy.  Somehow this seems sorta fucked up to me.

You communicate with sexual terms, witch we charge for our time NOT services. She probably thought you were a cop.  

For God's sake don't see her yet! She's obviously never had it done properly. Have her contact me and I will change her mind for you.

the acronym?

Actually scratch that................it may be that she's kinda rank down there and knows it. Might be sparing you from having to GaG.

Since they already discussed bbbjcim.

I've never heard of a provider that does bbbjcim that doesn't allow daty... Move on. If things don't add up, don't force the math. There are plenty of other wonderful ladies that will love for you to feast on them.

GaG....funny

could mean he read it in a review.   Its still a rookie move on his part to discuss specific acts before ever meeting her.  

She is allowed to have her own sexual likes and dislikes. That doesn't mean someone "did it wrong" or anything else. She just isn't into it. Seems she wants to provide a service but also enjoy herself. Ultimately all the clients I have had get off on getting me off....so don't fault her for wanting to give and get a genuine experience....just move on to someone who is into what you are into

have said lickety split?   Its not that graphic.  

Yes, I totally agree.  I love DATY, so how is it disgusting if your services include BBJ/CIM?

If she had any desire to see you she might just say she's not into that, or not on the first date, etc...

I've been in this hobby longer than most of you have been alive.  I dont make rookie mistakes, I know the rules, etc and my conversation with this lady had already established it was an open dialogue.  

before meeting, but in reality, it still happens a lot. Not everyone follows what many here think is common sense. Just like the silly LE check, that you would think "everyone" knows is useless, yet it still happens all the time.  

Glancing at his reviews, it looks like he does a lot of TOFTT. So that gives more credence to my assumption that the gal in this case is unreviewed.

Maybe she just thinks getting eaten by an old fart is disgusting. LOL

We always tell the newbies "Never discuss sex acts prior to meeting." That is a really good rule to follow. However I bend that rule myself occasionally. There are times when rule bending is ok, (as long as you know the risks of doing so), but not by rookies or newbies.  

I knew one gal that would go crazy if a drop of cum touched her body, but loved to give and receive golden showers, so don't be so surprised if something strikes her as wrong.    

no offense, but as PS says, sometimes we make assumptions on limited information in an OP.  I should have checked your review history before responding and my response would have been different.  My bad.  As PS says, thanks for the follow up with clarification.  

There's a good chance her pussy is much cleaner compared with your mouth, so can't fully blame her if that's her stance.

Damn Fish!    Are you POTUS!?!

I know right! 😚 who knows... maybe she just doesn't like getting her pussy eatten ?  
XOXO  
TL

.... and she'd obviously be a DNS for me.

Told me she did not like it, she said I'm wet enough and I'd rather you just fuck me..... then when I read reviews of her while we were still dating (I did not know she was a provider), I see you guys liking her to 4 or 5 orgasms..... either I am no good at eating pussy and she was just trying to get it over with quickly or these guys are full of shit or somewhere in between.   None of the ladies I've been with since have complained. ... I guess she was giving me the TGFE true girlfriend experience,  the one where you pay for everything and she bitches about everything

cocked sucked by a random girl instead of sucking and licking a random girls pussy. IMHO.

I guess we're all masochist at one point or another!

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I know a few women outside of pay4play land who are quite prudish about it, and self-conscious/ uncomfortable having it done.  

That was a pretty negative response. She sounded kind of conservative at first but then she offers the rest. Interesting. I respect everyone's personal preferences.

So I searched all of TER and apparently there are 18 providers out there in the last 30 days who BBBJ but do not allow DATY.  Strange for sure but to each there own.  More common, were plenty of transgenders who state that for obvious reasons.  

Why, thank you! Glad you caught that.

Or maybe it was just a Freudian finger slip. lol

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