for the ladies.  have you ever declined a repeat visit with a hobbyist because he took to long to cum?  in my 20's, used to think I had to be able to pound that pussy for  30 minutes or I was a wuss.  now after all the foreplay, I am shooting (pun intended) for  10 minutes once the fucking starts !!!!

Shakespeare said it best.." to cum or not to cum"..that is the question..

For me personally I have not, although after spending 3 hours with the "hobbyist" when only an h is discussed it does become frustrating... .especially when they blame me for the lack of or the time.... I can only do so much, by myself to assist...  

I am all about all sorts of fun, but if a guy purposely wants to straight up fuck the whole damn time... get yourself a PSE. GFE is NOT that!!! I am sorry but if a guy tries not to cum til after his time is up, he can go home with blue balls. It is disrespectful to say the least. Cheap ass is a nice term to call him.  I am very understanding and my reviews will tell you I have tackled guys who have problems and am willing to devote the extra time because I feel shitty if he isn't finished. But there have been (a few) who thought they'd take advantage of my time/niceness and thought they'd go for WAY more time than what they paid for. That's not happening. I don't mind going over for talking etc, but I am not going to be used. I have almost always gone to the time paid for, if not more. I don't like being ripped off and won't do it to others.

The only way for me to hold back is take it out of her mouth.  Seems to me the jackhammer is trying his best for both of you to cum.

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I hope you are a young guy, because every man over about the age of 35 or so should know how to hold back when he wants to. If not, I guess that's your loss, I like being able to delay my gratification a while when I want to.

What you need to do is find a lady who really likes to fuck for a long time, the type of woman who is actually disappointed when you pop in less than 30 minutes. It doesn't take long to learn how to hold back when you are doing so for someone else's pleasure, and then you can do it for your own.

Easiest way to hold out is just to ask the gal...

I spread the legs out with chains and ankle restraints. That allows me to to take my time, lol. The only way to cum is to fuck real hard.

but then it is fun to work them back up again.

How does a guy "milk a few extra hours" out of you after paying for one?  

That is way I explode. I sound like a lion roaring when I cum like that. A few of them were track stars in high school and they have continued to do squats, so that trick does not work because they can squeeze vagina like crazy.

It's one thing to go over by a few minutes, but HOURS???

I bet your in box is filling up as we speak by requests from guys who think your donation is "until he's done" I can, and have gone non stop for quite a while, even hours on occasion, but to take advantage of a providers time to the tune of hours of uncompensated time is beyond me.

and I am with you about the strength of my orgasms, my first is always my strongest. At my "advanced" age, by the time I make it to number three or four, I am lucky to fill a thimble. lol

Relax there big fella

Amber is a former member of the USS Enterprise and was on board during the "Wrath of Khan".  So you should know, and she certainly does that

I said "Maybe I should clarify this, there is a difference when a man holds back because he is trying to get her off... and the guy who pays for an hour but it trying to milk a few extra hours out of it for free." Key word is "try", not necessarily done. I am not referring to me, I am stating my opinion on why a few guys will try to hold back and then get pissy if a gal leaves when the time is up.  

Not even sure why BossMonger posted that reply. But I do agree with him, kick the guys butt out. I take the time to clearly type what I mean (the majority of the time). Ugh if my inbox fills up with guys thinking what he did, they got another thing cumming.  

I posted this " I am sorry but if a guy tries not to cum til after his time is up, he can go home with blue balls. It is disrespectful to say the least. Cheap ass is a nice term to call him.  I am very understanding and my reviews will tell you I have tackled guys who have problems and am willing to devote the extra time because I feel shitty if he isn't finished. But there have been (a few) who thought they'd take advantage of my time/niceness and thought they'd go for WAY more time than what they paid for. That's not happening. I don't mind going over for talking etc, but I am not going to be used."

Very clearly stated that a guy can go home with blue balls if he can't cum by the time is up. I am a reasonable person and have made SLIGHT allowances but not going to get used. I have never once given a guy free HOURS. That is absurd. And yes you are damn right I feel shitty if a guy doesn't cum who was really trying to. I have a conscience and I do truly make sure that guys have a good time (as long as they are not using me). Kindness and understanding goes a long way. I try to treat people how I'd like to be treated (try, sometimes I can't though lol).  

But just because I said I feel horrid about it (the few times a guy hasn't came), doesn't mean I will stay until he does.  

Thanks CPA, now I got to go think for a minute lol. My head is in programming atm and you got to throw out some history stuff. ugh lol.

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So here I am knee deep in my school work... and you got to confuse me? Hell I thought you were talking about the Naval ship lol.  

Most have to do with the connection factor, both in, and out of the bedroom. Any guy booking me should not be stupid enough to think he is getting a porn star, or that his shit is even going in all the way if he is above average.

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