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AlexandraMilw See my TER Reviews 160 reads
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I said "Maybe I should clarify this, there is a difference when a man holds back because he is trying to get her off... and the guy who pays for an hour but it trying to milk a few extra hours out of it for free." Key word is "try", not necessarily done. I am not referring to me, I am stating my opinion on why a few guys will try to hold back and then get pissy if a gal leaves when the time is up.  

Not even sure why BossMonger posted that reply. But I do agree with him, kick the guys butt out. I take the time to clearly type what I mean (the majority of the time). Ugh if my inbox fills up with guys thinking what he did, they got another thing cumming.  

I posted this " I am sorry but if a guy tries not to cum til after his time is up, he can go home with blue balls. It is disrespectful to say the least. Cheap ass is a nice term to call him.  I am very understanding and my reviews will tell you I have tackled guys who have problems and am willing to devote the extra time because I feel shitty if he isn't finished. But there have been (a few) who thought they'd take advantage of my time/niceness and thought they'd go for WAY more time than what they paid for. That's not happening. I don't mind going over for talking etc, but I am not going to be used."

Very clearly stated that a guy can go home with blue balls if he can't cum by the time is up. I am a reasonable person and have made SLIGHT allowances but not going to get used. I have never once given a guy free HOURS. That is absurd. And yes you are damn right I feel shitty if a guy doesn't cum who was really trying to. I have a conscience and I do truly make sure that guys have a good time (as long as they are not using me). Kindness and understanding goes a long way. I try to treat people how I'd like to be treated (try, sometimes I can't though lol).  

But just because I said I feel horrid about it (the few times a guy hasn't came), doesn't mean I will stay until he does.  

Thanks CPA, now I got to go think for a minute lol. My head is in programming atm and you got to throw out some history stuff. ugh lol.

-- Modified on 4/14/2013 11:38:01 AM

shadowryder863 reads

for the ladies.  have you ever declined a repeat visit with a hobbyist because he took to long to cum?  in my 20's, used to think I had to be able to pound that pussy for  30 minutes or I was a wuss.  now after all the foreplay, I am shooting (pun intended) for  10 minutes once the fucking starts !!!!

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macdaddy1944564 reads

Shakespeare said it best.." to cum or not to cum"..that is the question..

Posted By: shadowryder
for the ladies.  have you ever declined a repeat visit with a hobbyist because he took to long to cum?  in my 20's, used to think I had to be able to pound that pussy for  30 minutes or I was a wuss.  now after all the foreplay, I am shooting (pun intended) for  10 minutes once the fucking starts !!!!

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JewelKat434 reads

For me personally I have not, although after spending 3 hours with the "hobbyist" when only an h is discussed it does become frustrating... .especially when they blame me for the lack of or the time.... I can only do so much, by myself to assist...  

But will I ever not see the person again....of course.  For me it takes time to develop and understand how one another ticks......  makes for great fun and exploration...

xoxo
Kat

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AlexandraMilw437 reads

I am all about all sorts of fun, but if a guy purposely wants to straight up fuck the whole damn time... get yourself a PSE. GFE is NOT that!!! I am sorry but if a guy tries not to cum til after his time is up, he can go home with blue balls. It is disrespectful to say the least. Cheap ass is a nice term to call him.  I am very understanding and my reviews will tell you I have tackled guys who have problems and am willing to devote the extra time because I feel shitty if he isn't finished. But there have been (a few) who thought they'd take advantage of my time/niceness and thought they'd go for WAY more time than what they paid for. That's not happening. I don't mind going over for talking etc, but I am not going to be used. I have almost always gone to the time paid for, if not more. I don't like being ripped off and won't do it to others.

Yes I will 100% decline any further visits if I feel he did it on purpose. I will also give references a heads up on this. On the other hand, if he had issues and needed more time... I am accepting of that.  

I am very nice person but I am a bitch if you think you can use me. I know this is not exactly what you asked, but I am telling you how I feel on certain things.

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DT_lover442 reads

The only way for me to hold back is take it out of her mouth.  Seems to me the jackhammer is trying his best for both of you to cum.

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GaGambler300 reads

I hope you are a young guy, because every man over about the age of 35 or so should know how to hold back when he wants to. If not, I guess that's your loss, I like being able to delay my gratification a while when I want to.

What you need to do is find a lady who really likes to fuck for a long time, the type of woman who is actually disappointed when you pop in less than 30 minutes. It doesn't take long to learn how to hold back when you are doing so for someone else's pleasure, and then you can do it for your own.

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Dr Who revived282 reads

Easiest way to hold out is just to ask the gal...

"So...tell me about your day"

That'll delay your O for hours and hours

And you'll have a new BFF

Posted By: DT_lover
The only way for me to hold back is take it out of her mouth.  Seems to me the jackhammer is trying his best for both of you to cum.

-- Modified on 4/14/2013 6:02:35 AM

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London Rayne331 reads

Most have to do with the connection factor, both in, and out of the bedroom. Any guy booking me should not be stupid enough to think he is getting a porn star, or that his shit is even going in all the way if he is above average.

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