maybe you should try a Hawaiian Shirt and some Khaki Shorts and Flip Flops.  Then they wont think your a gangter.

They usually say to me "You Look Good" they are just being nice I guess.

Providers and Fellow Hobbyists,

What's the most common first compliment you get when meeting?

I constantly hear, you look like a gangster. Wtf?! I don't come dressed in black slacks, black t-shirt, and a black leather jacket. I'm a damn nice guy, damnit. If you don't believe me, you'll be swimmin with the fishes....

For me, it's generally about my beautiful, silver, full-head of hair.

Haha, a ganster!  What are you wearing a 3 piece pinstripe suit, borsalino wide brimmed hat and a pinky ring!

Your hunchback is not nearly as bad as the other girls said
Or
Your back hair is not nearly as thick as I expected.

But mostly, they say,

Your penis looks much less like a thimble than I had been told.

What is this 'compliment' of which you speak?

Those are all fantastic compliments. Very good for moreale.

Well, yeah. But I leave the black and white dress shoes at home and never grease my hair back for an appointment.

mustache maybe... not a goatee


HH

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I had that said to me recently, too!

Is that a compliment? or ????

What does a gangster look like?

I, IN NO WAY, look like the Al Pacino-Style mobster. Nor a Wu Tang-style gangbanger. Nor a Hell's Angel-style biker, Nor a Ultragroomed Cartel-style...

I dont look like a Juggalo, a Tea-Party member, or Barack Obama. In fact, I HAVE NEVER seen an image of ANY dangerous criminal type that looks anything like me.

For crissakes! I've been told I look like JOHN FUCKING DENVER!!!!!!

So what does 'gangster' even mean?




HalfHour

"Chore beeg nose ees vairdy handsome.  I luff beeg noses.  Does chore son haf beeg nose also?"

So sweet....hoe could I not blush under the weight of that compliment?

The first compliment I normally get is ether on the fact I am very clean or on my eyes. The fact that I am bathed comes up shows how far the ladies are reaching to say something nice about my looks. LOL. At leased they are able to reach and find something.

I get that alot.  "Me!" is my answer.

On a serious note, many of the other guys make me look good.  A number of the 30 or so women that I have seen say that the guys almost never read their websites in any depth, show up late or not at all, just lay there or are just not very nice.  Thanks guys!

I'm often accused of being LE, not sure why, maybe its the goatee?

Why, that looks just like a penis...only smaller!

I get a lot of "Are you sure you have the right room? Oh, God, I hope you have the wrong room."

Not at beginning, but somewhere early in the throes of the playtime, on a repeat visit: while I wasn't fishing for a compliment, I got this ............ "well, I'm here aren't I?"  LOL  Since it was early, I couldn't give her a smartass response that I would have liked.  But, instead I said:  That's nice, me too! .......... so, brace yourself, Nellie ......... I'm ready to roll! LOL

Almost 100% of my sessions have started with the lady saying something along those lines.  I view the comments as pleasant attempts to break the ice.

Well, I do have the 70's style brostache (sp?) to go with the goatee...

"You're not THAT fat!"

..get to meet a gent who looks so obviously "like a gangster" that I'll feel the need to comment? That sounds fun!

I think the most common one I get is that my skin is really soft.

Darya