Happy Friday TER friends!

You just can’t help yourself. I’m beginning to think you might be a masochist, have very little self-awareness, or have taken attention starved to a grand new level.

I think the whole psychological thing with cummuing in the mouth is enhanced with swallowing. But gents might be ok with spitting.

Ladies never spit!

That the lady swallow. It's so debauched that it's a turn-on. In fact, if she prefers to spit, then I'd rather skip CIM altogether.  

It's a dominance thing. Cucked men are forced to swallow other men's cum dripping out of their wive's pussy.  Similarly when a chick swallows your cum, she's demonstrating her submission to you.

It's def a submission thing, as Lester stated, and it's also very gratifying to see it in my minds eye and when I think back on the date hours or days later. There is something so hot knowing that the lady in question is carrying inside her a little bit of me for the rest of the day. I know that may sound silly, but that is how I feel about it. It's like she is saying she is so acceptive of me, that makes it a turn on too. I never expect it but it's always a great turn on and a nice surprise when it does happen.

Never saw the attraction only to think of it as some male dominance thing. But when it did happen, she swallowed and I got a kick out of it. I think it happens because they wanted it to happen and I just went along with it...call me a team player.

I do prefer to give throatpies (if OKd by the girl of course) if I am to cum inside a mouth. Swallowing looks hot.

for a wonderful visual, there's nothing like seeing a gal dribble your cum slowly over her lower lip onto her breasts, then massage to cum into her breasts.

Your Granny is precious. Thanks for sharing love. I had to hit the like button. Lol. I think spitting defeats the purpose & running to the sink to spit it out is no fun.

Not a big deal with me either way, although as others have said, swallowing is kind of a little extra turn on.  Not many women I've seen allow CIM and of those, most spit.

I have never been a fan. I’ve had 3 providers ask me too. 2 went to spit it out. It’s not a turn on to me but I like sensuality and it seems kind of degrading to me. Just my thoughts.

I love this! Personally I enjoy CIM because I really enjoy the sucking that continues for a minute or five after I cum when my cock is at its most sensitive and my knees get weak. Whether she swallows or spits doesn't really matter to me, but if I have to choose I'll go with swallow because it feels more personal, like we're connected and she likes me rather than it being a job.

Huge fan of CIM. In fact, it's my preferred way to explode. There's something exciting, naughty, dirty, and fulfilling for a gal that swallows.
Bonus points if she goes all the way down on it when I'm "speaking".
Triple bonus if she lets me push her head down while I'm "speaking".
Now I'm aroused just thinking about my last episode!

I enjoy CIM and swallow too. Shouldn't this go both ways? 🤣💦👀
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either finish acceptable providing a snowball is not in the mix.  Lol

swallow is always the "cherry on top" of an amazing CIM finish, especially when they’re not known for swallowing.  

If she squirts and I swallow, then she's "dominating" me?

I'm not telling you what fantasy to have.  But yeah, swallowing her squirt or golden showers etc, these can all be considered submissive activities.  This isn't a judgement, just a statement of how people CAN view these things.  You don't have to  view them that way.  But you really can't control your partners perception.

Can't you spit into a handy Kleenex?  

No CIM is a deal breaker for me. Doesn't matter spit or swallow but I need the lady to keep me in her mouth until I'm done pulsing. Love that feeling.  

When a gal leaves me to spit, it takes away from the moment. It’s a turn on when she takes my cum and swallows, then licks any droppings she missed.

It's totally cool with me that that's how YOU do it.

Everyone interprets things differently.  
Thanks for the novel insight. I'll alert the news media.

Maybe. I have in fact drunk a lady's squirt (at least the part that didn't spray across the bed, the wall, the floor, the ceiling 😅). But it's a choice both ways. If a lady won't let me CIM UNLESS I drink her squirt, that suggests to me that something is amiss.

who was a known squirter, though she later admitted to me it was pee, happened as I was eating her pussy. I knew she was getting close but I kept my mouth fully engaged with her twat. She exploded and shot it right into the back of my throat. When I told her she laughed like hell and said, "Now you know how it feels!"
God, I miss her.

"spit, stick around and lick it off then go to the bathroom for hygiene purposes"
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That's totally cool with me.  The flow of affection is good, as you won't rudely make me lonesome just when I'm feeling most warmly connected.  
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Thank you for clarifying this distinction.  For me it isn't spit vs swallow really, but more stay close vs abruptly run away.

Who said squirt? You do realize women cum too from DATY lol who said UNLESS? Lighten up.  
What would be amiss about me cumming in a man's mouth? it's even better when we both cum in each other's mouths together 😘😋
I had a woman that started squirting once and it blasted out n I dodged it going straight in my eyes 🤣 it was really just unexpected or I would have swallowed it all down 👅
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Hahaha!! 🤣 I bet you drank it all up too 👅💦🙌
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I thought you only had breakfast with your dates and they paid you $500....."no sex"?  I guess you eat more than sausage and eggs lol

This morning I rise to a pre booked breakfast date that was booked in advance by a distinguished gentleman who supplied a deposit for my time. My contribution is $400 for platonic social time in public. No behind closed doors entertainment & you’re not my clientele. Fortunately, there are true gentleman who read my posts on TER & are considered lurkers because they do not participate on the boards here, nor do they agree with the majority of the sexist pigs who continue to pollute the boards......yada yada yada

a little pee never hurt nobody. LOL.
Anyway, at that moment I thought it was squirt. It was only later that she admitted it was pee.

a swollen Skene's gland will only hold about a tablespoon of fluid, whereas, once a lady relaxes her kegels and allows the urine to flow, it's hard for them to limit it to a very small amount.  Oftentimes, they have no choice because losing kegel control (which are also the muscles used to stop or prevent the flow of urine) is often a byproduct of an intense orgasm.  Kudos to YOU for THAT.  Lol

I thought I posted this a few months ago, but I love CIM and CIM Swallow. For some reason (any psychology majors here?), I find it really helps things along.
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I mean, if I was thinking about what I might have for lunch (pizza or burgers?), the upcoming weather, or a National Geographic Special on the Lemurs of Madagascar while enjoying a BBBJ I don't think it would enhance the experience or the ending at all.  
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However, even though it hasn't happened YET, I get a great feeling and great rush when I can envision CIM Swallow that is soon to come, er, cum. Maybe it's like animals that can sense an earthquake before it happens or insects and birds that somehow know to wake up BEFORE dawnlight even appears so they can go to work. I think I bust more cum, ejaculation lasts longer, the buzz is buzzier, and it just works better for me. And I love to watch her swallow. Wow.
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CIM Swallow preferred.
CIM Spit is OK. (Same deal: if I know it's coming, it's a big boost to the experience. If I'm expecting Swallow and she switches to Spit I feel insulted and it's a big letdown.)
No CIM. I'll tolerate it. But I expect COF or COB (B = boobs or body (tummy, butt cheeks, ...)

If I can swallow her squirt, she can swallow my cum!

One of my favorite girls more gushed than squirt and it was of a clear and syrupy consistency. And, as you said, not a great deal of volume.

I prefer it, but an ex girlfriend used to let my cum drool out of her mouth down my shaft while still sliding her mouth up and down. That was very good, too.

Grab your favorite duos partner and snowball that cum back and forth.  Only swallowing after it’s divided equally amongst throats. Spitting should be against the law IMHO.  

The way she works her way down, the touch, the little tastes; feeling her breasts drag across my skin and her wetness as she straddles my leg.

Cum kisses are hot, too. Haven’t had one in awhile. Good idea, any of you girls wanna volunteer? LOL

is NOT something I enjoy nearly as much as a bbbj that has been performed all the way to the end.  I don't care if it's spit out on my stomach and it runs onto the sheets, couch or into the swimming pool.  I have  a SO that is all too happy to tell me when she can spit it into my mouth, she'll consider allowing cum in hers.  When I go down on her and stop right before she cums, she gets pissed but never quite has figured out the correlation to a man's orgasm.  Devout catholic girl so birth control has never been an option with her.  

I prefer swallow, but as long as she allows CIM, I'm not offended if she spits. CIM is one criteria I look for in reviews and don't book if the provider doesn't allow it.

All of my favs hold the lip-lock well beyond my release!  At that point I don’t really care what they do with the load, although a hot kgirl recently gave me a salty kiss which was great!

My number one preference is in her pussy, and in the P4P world, that means with me wearing a condom.