These responses are going to be brutal

You just can’t help yourself. I’m beginning to think you might be a masochist, have very little self-awareness, or have taken attention starved to a grand new level.

I think the whole psychological thing with cummuing in the mouth is enhanced with swallowing. But gents might be ok with spitting.

My Grandma always told me

Ladies never spit!

That the lady swallow. It's so debauched that it's a turn-on. In fact, if she prefers to spit, then I'd rather skip CIM altogether.  

And as for 2 ladies snowballing, that just about makes my week.

It's def a submission thing, as Lester stated, and it's also very gratifying to see it in my minds eye and when I think back on the date hours or days later. There is something so hot knowing that the lady in question is carrying inside her a little bit of me for the rest of the day. I know that may sound silly, but that is how I feel about it. It's like she is saying she is so acceptive of me, that makes it a turn on too. I never expect it but it's always a great turn on and a nice surprise when it does happen.

Never saw the attraction only to think of it as some male dominance thing. But when it did happen, she swallowed and I got a kick out of it. I think it happens because they wanted it to happen and I just went along with it...call me a team player.

I do prefer to give throatpies (if OKd by the girl of course) if I am to cum inside a mouth. Swallowing looks hot.

 
 I wouldn't say swallowing is about dominance/submission as much (I think a facial is a bit more dominance-inspired) but it's more of a "I consume your fluids" thing which makes the post-cum shot play way more intimate and sexy to me. Swallowing also doesn't interrupt the flow by her running to her choice of disposal and spitting out/rinsing. Less messy. More intimate. Hot. Slutty. Nasty. I love it!

for a wonderful visual, there's nothing like seeing a gal dribble your cum slowly over her lower lip onto her breasts, then massage to cum into her breasts.

 
Running out of the room to spit it out in the sink is a big turn off.

Not a big deal with me either way, although as others have said, swallowing is kind of a little extra turn on.  Not many women I've seen allow CIM and of those, most spit.

I have never been a fan. I’ve had 3 providers ask me too. 2 went to spit it out. It’s not a turn on to me but I like sensuality and it seems kind of degrading to me. Just my thoughts.

Huge fan of CIM. In fact, it's my preferred way to explode. There's something exciting, naughty, dirty, and fulfilling for a gal that swallows.
Bonus points if she goes all the way down on it when I'm "speaking".
Triple bonus if she lets me push her head down while I'm "speaking".
Now I'm aroused just thinking about my last episode!

Although I don't have a cock....

I enjoy CIM and swallow too. Shouldn't this go both ways? 🤣💦👀
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either finish acceptable providing a snowball is not in the mix.  Lol

swallow is always the "cherry on top" of an amazing CIM finish, especially when they’re not known for swallowing.  

As for preference, spit or swallow doesn't matter to me as long as the provider allows CIM which is not commonly provided in my experience.

No CIM is a deal breaker for me. Doesn't matter spit or swallow but I need the lady to keep me in her mouth until I'm done pulsing. Love that feeling.  

How about you Bia? What do you and your twin prefer, swallow or spit?

When a gal leaves me to spit, it takes away from the moment. It’s a turn on when she takes my cum and swallows, then licks any droppings she missed.

I thought you only had breakfast with your dates and they paid you $500....."no sex"?  I guess you eat more than sausage and eggs lol

This morning I rise to a pre booked breakfast date that was booked in advance by a distinguished gentleman who supplied a deposit for my time. My contribution is $400 for platonic social time in public. No behind closed doors entertainment & you’re not my clientele. Fortunately, there are true gentleman who read my posts on TER & are considered lurkers because they do not participate on the boards here, nor do they agree with the majority of the sexist pigs who continue to pollute the boards......yada yada yada

I thought I posted this a few months ago, but I love CIM and CIM Swallow. For some reason (any psychology majors here?), I find it really helps things along.
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I mean, if I was thinking about what I might have for lunch (pizza or burgers?), the upcoming weather, or a National Geographic Special on the Lemurs of Madagascar while enjoying a BBBJ I don't think it would enhance the experience or the ending at all.  
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However, even though it hasn't happened YET, I get a great feeling and great rush when I can envision CIM Swallow that is soon to come, er, cum. Maybe it's like animals that can sense an earthquake before it happens or insects and birds that somehow know to wake up BEFORE dawnlight even appears so they can go to work. I think I bust more cum, ejaculation lasts longer, the buzz is buzzier, and it just works better for me. And I love to watch her swallow. Wow.
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CIM Swallow preferred.
CIM Spit is OK. (Same deal: if I know it's coming, it's a big boost to the experience. If I'm expecting Swallow and she switches to Spit I feel insulted and it's a big letdown.)
No CIM. I'll tolerate it. But I expect COF or COB (B = boobs or body (tummy, butt cheeks, ...)

If I can swallow her squirt, she can swallow my cum!

I prefer it, but an ex girlfriend used to let my cum drool out of her mouth down my shaft while still sliding her mouth up and down. That was very good, too.

Grab your favorite duos partner and snowball that cum back and forth.  Only swallowing after it’s divided equally amongst throats. Spitting should be against the law IMHO.  

The way she works her way down, the touch, the little tastes; feeling her breasts drag across my skin and her wetness as she straddles my leg.

While I prefer the swallow, the spit or dribble out is fine so long as she stays on me for a bit during that most sensitive period after I cum. Running to the sink to spit can spoil the whole thing.

is NOT something I enjoy nearly as much as a bbbj that has been performed all the way to the end.  I don't care if it's spit out on my stomach and it runs onto the sheets, couch or into the swimming pool.  I have  a SO that is all too happy to tell me when she can spit it into my mouth, she'll consider allowing cum in hers.  When I go down on her and stop right before she cums, she gets pissed but never quite has figured out the correlation to a man's orgasm.  Devout catholic girl so birth control has never been an option with her.  

This is what really brought me to the hobby.  Prospective wives take note!

I prefer swallow, but as long as she allows CIM, I'm not offended if she spits. CIM is one criteria I look for in reviews and don't book if the provider doesn't allow it.

All of my favs hold the lip-lock well beyond my release!  At that point I don’t really care what they do with the load, although a hot kgirl recently gave me a salty kiss which was great!

My number one preference is in her pussy, and in the P4P world, that means with me wearing a condom.

My second preference would be in her mouth, and my third preference would be on her face, but I do need to state that that third one is only if and when a woman tells me or asks me that’s where she wants it. It doesn’t do much for me.  

Going back to my number two preference, in the mouth, if and when she swallows it, that is a turn on, but I also like when she lets it dribble out of her mouth and down her chin, plays with it, or rubs it on her face, rubs it anywhere.  

I actually don’t mind if she spits it out, but it depends on how she spits it out. The immediate, frantic jumping up and running to the sink to hurriedly spit it out as if it’s poison is a turn off. I accept the fact that either the taste, the feel, the texture of it, the thought of it in her mouth or in her throat may be disgusting, so I understand that she wants to spit it out. It’s just that the immediacy of it and the disgust factor makes me rather that she didn’t take it in her mouth at all in the first place.