Read an interesting article that I’m not going to discuss here because it’s political (link to the P&R discussion below and article below).

But one argument in that long piece seems “General” enough to discuss here. So how do you view yourself? As a an individual compensated dater, or a woman occupying one sector of the sex work industry?

the factory jobs he created would hire workers like her, he would still be president.  I'd be willing to come in early and stay late.    LOL

Companion!

In Sex Work or “adult dating,” it’s so easy to violate people by mentioning anything that doesn’t align with their own bubbles so the label is broad enough to include everyone!

Some like being called professional courtesans who make sure to review Barron’s before a date, I call that a hobby. Some just enjoy fun and are naturals bringing nothing short of an amazing performance.  

I just like being called a sexy friend who is taken cared of! Considering my guest’s needs but not to the point where being “good enough” is contrived.

I had no idea that "she" was your type.  

 
First off, "she" is a Latina, not your usual K-Girl and secondly....... Well I'll let you share your newfound urge to play for the other team. lol

that I shouldn't have missed?

I don't know if you missed a "little" something or a "big" something, I guess you'd have to book a session with "her" to find out, but YES, you most definitely missed something. Unless of course you have something you'd like to share with us regarding your new taste in sex partners. lmao

I missed something all right!!!  Just liked the graphic.  So NO, I have nothing new to share, and YES, I will click the link next time before I respond.   Everyone should disregard my  prior post.   LOL

but suck one little dick and you are a cocksucker for life. ROFLMFAO.

 
Cue the SJW's that almost certainly will be calling me out as transphobic over a little joke.

But through the article?

Mainstream Sex work isn’t for everyone. There are always room for improvement for the “system” to work but how it is now reflects what people want.  

You have to have a thick skin, expect being threatened or violated if you aren’t informed enough about your job, or cannot hold boundaries. Going into this without mentorship or guidance can be a death sentence. You can only enjoy this if you know what to do and how not to make stupid mistakes.

 
Their experiences and point of view aren’t invalid, because yes the line of “work” attracts bad experiences. Sex workers have to understand what invisible forces control consumer thought, habits, take precautions and use self defense. You cannot keep all of that in mind being in a constant state of distress.  

Again the system isn’t perfect, but unless ALL sex workers take accountability for what happens unfairly or not, the system will always win. And what I mean by that is punishing assholes, having situational awareness and common sense.

Not many providers feel the need to use pimps to manage and protect anymore because more often than not, they’re just lazy abusers and not impressive. You just buy a template, follow conduct and just be sharp. If one is starting out, they cannot do it alone without any kind of help.
You work with the system or work without it.
 

Now some people do feel trapped! I sympathize because I’ve been in that situation once. At that time you have to decide which is a better way to struggle towards stability. Being constantly raped without a guarantee of saving a dime didn’t seem to be one of them. Mainstream isn’t known to be lucrative, especially with every neighborhood somebody posting an ad asking and promising the same thing. Most of the time if there is no optimizing your business you’re going to be stuck, compounded with having low self worth, terrible attitude, and not knowing how to limit bad risk.
 
 
I’d say keep “sex work” and compensated dating. Although most people are too vanilla to accept the concepts, it would be disastrous to have an abrupt halt on unlimited TNA, TLC by forcing people into monogamy with their own hands.
 
So if a sex worker, or compensated dater doesn’t enjoy sex work or compensated dating, they should do something else.  
And if either are gone, there’s gotta be another way to do them!

Everyone disregards ALL OF YOUR POSTS.

Lots of fun,

A top-rated, upscale, elite, VIP atmosphere model who enjoys the finer things in life.

 
JK a sex worker/escort/companion/a gentlemen's companion/professional girlfriend/atmosphere model/social companion/courtesan.

 
I personally don't use whore/hooker/prostitute due to the legalities and also the negative connotations.

 
I personally don't like "sex worker" for myself because it's nobody's business what my sex life is. I don't like running around telling people I'm a sex-worker. I actually had a guy assume I was a sex worker at a shoe store who was my sales guy, and I'm not going anymore because why should he talk to me about my sex life? Fuck that.

 
So I call myself an entertainer and also the work I do outside of this stuff. If people want to talk about my job, they automatically think about sex, and they should pay me for that or I'm not entertaining them.

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Nice of you to not get the shoe store guy fired.

Oh, of course not! He didn't say it directly, it was a slip - (like - apparently it's obvious when they see it all the time lol,) he was really nice about it. I just felt funny and want to keep everything separate, that's all.

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Companion of Negotiable Affection