Please let me know if this post comes across as offensive or rude.  

I’m sure most ladies would do it covered if you prefer.

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So I'll. be gentle. Please do a search and you'll find YEARS of discussions on this subject.

in the odds between BBBJ and BBFS, so you should treat them separately because the risk is not even proportional.  As Rafi says, most providers will be happy to use a cover for BBFS or BBBJ.  While I dabbled in BBFS many years ago, since 2019, I have always used a cover.  However, I have never used a cover for BBBJ, never caught anything from a provider, and I have seen over 1000 providers since I started in P4P in 2007.  

with LSD^^!

I offer non-GFE services for those who prefer to keep it safer. When I first started working as an adult entertainer I would give hand jobs with a glove and covered blow jobs only. I used to go to Dr after every encounter in fear of bringing home something to my SO at the time. Abstaining is the only 100% risk free option.  
I truly believe as a professional escort I am extremely safer, than most people. I am happily STD free. I like to keep the lights on to explore body parts because you can see herpes outbreaks. 🤔It is estimated that about 60% of adults in the United States have herpes simplex virus, but the majority of them have HSV-1, which is not typically associated with genital infections.👁️

I have a standing appointment in the Sexually Transmitted disease clinic of an accredited teaching hospital. I go every two-months for full screening and medication review.

Practices know as CBJ ,CFS, hand job, no DFK...ever heard of these safe practices ?

The danger would expire waiting for a stamp collector to lick a stamp.  They just look at them.  They buy regular stamps for their erection tests.

To start you in your journey in the FAQ for Newbies, make sure you see https://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion_boards/viewmsg.asp?MessageID=48178&boardID=10&page

Silicone lube application even if it a small dab drastically reduces chances of catching some thing..
Warning , it just REDUCES...does NOT eliminate or  avoids the problem.
Correctly  and repeatedly (do drying out) applied silicone lube forms a thin layer akin to a condom.

Would you please provide a link or reference to research showing this?  I hope there's something to it.

Thanks, Bubbleboy!

Calling BS  on this.  

Sorry to break it to you, but there is a risk anytime any activity happens. But you know what? I would trust that the provider I meet is cleaner than a civilian girl I meet at a bar. Provider is much more likely to get tested frequently. How many civilians even get tested? When was the last time you got tested?

The responses on here are frightening. A shower and vigorous scrub will help?!? Lube reduces your chance of catching something !?!? Jesus - this just makes me think going bare is much, much more dangerous than I would normally think if the other customers are approaching sexual health like this. These kind of 'tips' are debunked in 7th grade health class.

i second everything just said ..  have i rationalized going bare wayyyyyy too many times, yes ... but i didn't do it blindly, i just tried to use good judgement and hoped for the best ... of course i didn't go bare with some KGirl with 248 reviews ,  it stuns me that guys are fine with that.    

Excellent, concise, and accurate response.

Shut the fuck up because you're just a troll and leach on TER.You dated no one and never will so GTFOH (get the fuck outta here).

Doing what you can to be safe is better than doing nothing.

Vigorously shower to prevent STD after going bare...okay. That's a new one for the medical journal.  
Total  'kooku  de kooku  pots '.

Some providers takes great care of themselves than civilians. So just never know. More precautions lower the risk.

Yes,believe it or not , he said a shower. Make you cringe at people's stupidity. That's how dumbed down America has become.

here is the best way ......   see link

Yes, you correctly notice that I called BS on this.

Total "Duh" response,

You can kiss my ass in Macy's window, Boobie!!

Thanks for the laugh!

May I suggest visiting the Noobie board?

Sorry, Valida!

It’s important to know whom you’re sharing your time and energy with choose wisely. 🗣️

Stop making assumptions. you have no data to back this up. Just repeating what has already been said before.

Hey Dumbo!  

Don't.  
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That is, don't "work through the fear".  
Instead, do the research (in decent medical sources, not here!!).  
Then if the fear persists, simply don't fuck.  
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If the fear is abated by knowledge, behave as required to keep the risk within your tolerance.  
For example, choose your fuck partners from those with lower chance of STDs.  
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And remember to calibrate the risks against the other risks in your life, such as
 - driving to an appointment
 - driving to the grocery store
 - eating pre-packaged produce, candy,  
 - drinking alcohol
 - breathing maskless (flu, Covid, hantavirus, pneumonoconiosis, measles, ... ... )
 - social interaction (conflict, marital conflict, gang suspicion ...)
and so on and so forth.  Each of these has a risk and a benefit.  The tradeoffs are yours to make.

I had my first ever interaction over the weekend and am terrified of STD now (in relationship), there was no BJ, I was uncovered and she just started grinding me, no penetration, she grabbed my johnson while in cow girl and put it between us, when I came it was on both our abdomen

It can be done anonymously at any Planned Parenthood location.

It can be done. It’s a mind over matter type thing. Start with massage and lvl one endings then progress.

Always a risk.....remember what you are involving yourself in...having said that and in no particular order:

To play the game bare, both the provider and client should be on prep and doxy. The client should also ask for recent test results and be willing to provide them as well.  

You protect yourself and wear a condom Most/All upscale ladies keep a dresser full of condoms(I am assuming). Also towels to shower before and after