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I bring a small bottle of my body wash with me so I will not smell different (i.e. fancy hotel soap).
Jd

BigGuy19761209 reads

There's a "two girl adventure" I've been wanting to hook up with and I can't seem to work out a good time to do it.  I can squeeze it in today but, the first person I'd see afterward is my SO.  I wouldn't even have time to shower before seeing the SO!!   Besides, I don't want her to be the first person I talk to after doing something like that.  I can't seem to pop my cherry into the hobby due to these roadblocks lol  ARGH

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BigGuy1976184 reads

Great idea!!  I'd just have to finish 45 minutes into the hour.  I have another shot tomorrow afternoon!  BTW, do you ever make it to Cleveland?  ;)

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giselle69205 reads

Tee-hee!

XXX-Giselle

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bballs177 reads

shower at the girls' place before you leave

you deserve this

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BigGuy1976141 reads

Thanks!  I keep telling myself that to move past the guilt lol

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trex44159 reads

...means that you're still a bit new to all of this, right? The risk potential probably seems high to you (and we never want to discount the potential downside to the SO catching on to any activities), so why rush? With time, the "roadblocks" will resolve themselves and things will happen when they are supposed to.

ALWAYS listen to that inner voice that tells you when it *will* be a "good time to do it." If this particular duo doesn't work out right now, well -- there will be other opportunities that will feel right.




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bballs121 reads

best to just go ahead rather than let it continue to hang over his head, imo

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BigGuy1976126 reads

Yes, I'm a complete Newb.  I've been researching and reading for months.  I've read a ton of mrfisher's stuff and that guy is the Yoda to TER BTW anyway, I think you're absolutely right.  My intent with the post was just to share my experience and hope for advice.  Thank you for helping!!!!!!!

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washdc1146 reads

I always shower before I leave.  My SO has a nose that finds one part in millions.

Posted By: rleejr1856
There's a "two girl adventure" I've been wanting to hook up with and I can't seem to work out a good time to do it.  I can squeeze it in today but, the first person I'd see afterward is my SO.  I wouldn't even have time to shower before seeing the SO!!   Besides, I don't want her to be the first person I talk to after doing something like that.  I can't seem to pop my cherry into the hobby due to these roadblocks lol  ARGH

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BigGuy1976106 reads

so does mine!  I haven't done anything but she picks up stuff from women I work with!!!!  That just makes it that much more stressful.  But, I'm in a position where I have to P4P or nothing.  We have two small children and have no time for each other.  Which is why I'm hobbying in the first place.  I love my wife dearly but I have needs and have to do what I have to do!  The hobby is by no means a permanent deal for me.

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anon65331122121 reads

I bring a small bottle of my body wash with me so I will not smell different (i.e. fancy hotel soap).
Jd

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Posted By: jd735
I bring a small bottle of my body wash with me so I will not smell different (i.e. fancy hotel soap).
Jd
Excellent sugestion !

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SweetCheyenna136 reads

Afterwards having someplace else to go, as in meeting a buddy for a beer so you can unwind and let some of that excitement wear off. Surely there is some way you can do that. PLAN! There guys here are very helpful and have already thrown in some great pointers.
Maybe make it a golf thing where you can block a few hours out and tell her you had one celebration drink with the guys after cuz you played that "hole in one" so well. Being new, you do not know how you will handle the after part and some guys have a lousy "poker face".  
Or even a guys night poker game...
Best,
Cheyenna

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