Personally, I often find it very sexy still having some lingerie on when I'm having sex.  Naked feels great but sometimes with a little lingerie left it feels to me like we were too eager so get to each other that the lingerie was just pushed aside rather than wasting time taking it off and that is very exciting.

However, I know lots of guys like their woman completely naked (as I prefer my men!).

I'm never quiet sure how to judge this one so I'd be interested in hearing other people's thoughts.  




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For you carrie Clack nylons with garters and black high heels



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When I was a lot younger, as Carrie described, I was too eager and left my socks on while ripping my clothes off.  The socks seemed to be a big turn-off for my partner.  In retrospect (and after looking at a mirror), I agree.  A guy who is butt-naked with socks on is indeed a turn-off.  LOL.

As long as it is me!

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I prefer a little something on, too.

Personally, I think stockings and a garter belt are a huge turnon.  I've heard this is so because guys of my generation grew up looking at Playboy Playmates who wore exactly that.  Well, yeah, we did more than just look, too.....

.....of perfume is generally enough for me. Although I can see the attraction of stockings and a thong pushed aside once the urge becomes overwhelming

I'm an artist so the naked form has a different meaning for me.

Carrie, I too like something on. Nothing better that the sight of a thong still there in the mirror or in certian positions (Ruff Ruff). I like to think that our passion was so great that we forgot that last piece of clothing. So Carrie, I'm totally with you! something, lingerie, skirt, blouse, but something.

I like garters and stockings on playboy models, but in the bed, I want it more realistic. Even granny panties can have their appeal, when the mood is right. lol I had better get off this topic.

Works for me all the time!

Cheers Carrie!

From one hot Brit to some others. Enjoy the eye candy link...fellow TER members.

If I was forced to pick one answer, I would choose completely naked. But I agree with you that leaving something on gives that intense, eager feeling, which can be a real turn-on. My favorite there would be to leave the panties on, and just shove them to the side a little bit. That also provides some extra friction of a different type.

I have seen a few ladies who preferred to wear a bustier because it hid their stomach. They didn’t have to, in my case, but I think it made them feel more comfortable (so much the better for me.)

The one turn-off for me, strangely enough, would be thigh high stockings, or stockings and garter belt.

Stockings, silks, ANYTHING in white…. ultimately “almost nothing” is my favorite.
I would definitely agree, the excitement of removal and discovery of what’s underneath takes my breath away at times. I like the idea of slowing down the action, first taking my time exploring the parts left exposed, then uncovering the rest, fingertips always in motion…

I was the kid who carefully removed the tape first from his presents, and then saved the wrapping paper. Helped to savor the moments and make them last a little bit longer… I guess some habits are hard to break

Right now, as far as bedtime wear goes; I have a hunger for a certain beautiful woman in a sheer black cocktail dress (maybe not the type you might wear out) and black high heels….mmmmmmmmm

Play nice…SM

I'm a sucker for costumes and role play so I love something to spice up things visually.

Stockings are a big hit, shoes as well.  And if she has some of those boots that stop above the knee.......

Sorry, drifted for a second.

My vote is for leaving a few things on.

My favorite: A beautiful woman, freshly bathed, smelling of soap, wearing a pajama top with no bra, in a bed with clean sheets, in a cold room lit only by firelight.

...firelight is an idea I find very appealing along with everthing else you suggest. I would add lots of covers for the bed. Nothing like being all snuggled up under lots of covers when the room is cold. Also I do like stockings and a garter belt but not much of a fan of heels at least once the action starts.

I am one who enjoys lingerie clad ladies.  No sense in taking it off unless you don't want to chance damaging the goods or it's something that is 'in the way'.  Better yet, use it as part of the play.  One of my most memorable is a wonderful encounter where she wore totally white bra, thong, garters and silk (real silk) stockings.  Instead of a 'russian' rub, I used her silk covered calves for cleavage.  MY GOODNESS, the feel of that silk coupled with the visual had me boiling in no time.  I've said it before, be as creative as you can and have fun!!!

I think a woman should never come to bed totally naked.  For me having her climb into bed with sexy, silky smooth thigh highs  and sexy "Blahniks" along with a hint of Agent Provocateur just drives me crazy.  The soft smooth feeling of her legs sliding up against me can hardly be expressed, and especially when she whispers sweet words with that sexy British accent.  I feel like I have drifted off to another world.

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One of my long time ago college sweethearts wore this beautifully aromatic floral & spicey influenced fragrance during the hot summer months we spent together. After many long, hot nights of passionate love making, I would awake in the morning to the sweet smell of her subtle fragrance of intoxicating aromas permeating the warm sheets and thus, memories of the nights before. I cannot smell that perfume to this date without getting all excited like a rabid Pavlovian dog.

I think most men like the look/feel of lingerie so I would suggest a slow striptease and let him stop you once you get down to what he likes - say bra and panties or just panties or maybe just perfume.  

That said, Carrie, you are so beautiful I would take you wearing a ski parka and be happy for it!  Slowly unwrapping that beautiful package would be an erotic experience in itself!

I agree that the allure is probably that feeling that the situation was too urgent to bother getting everything removed.

My nomination...  Thigh high stockings.  No garter, no shoes, just thigh highs.  The nice thing is that they don't interfere with anything, so there's no real downside to just leaving them on.

Way to go eastsider!  I always thought of this as being embarassing but thanks to eastsider I'm coming out today!

About 20 years ago, I had a girlfriend who had the nicest legs I had ever seen, and she knew I thought highly of them.  She suggested a similar escapade between her calves (no stockings) with wonderful results.  Years later (post involvement) the subject came up and she wondered why I never asked to do that again.  I said it seemed kind of one-sided, that there didn't seem to be much in it for her.  I was surprised when she told me it was a really big deal for her.  She had not tried it before or since and just assumed I hadn't gotten much out of it.  Go figure.

THIGH HIGHS ARE FANTASTIC!!