In some cultures, it's considered impolite to arrive exactly on time. Ever heard of "Indian Time?"
I set up an appointment at time x. At about one minute before x, I text "I am here." Then, it never happens that the immediate response is "I am in room xxx." It is always -- "not quite ready yet," "running behind," some other variant of that, or, the worst, radio silence for 5, 10 15, minutes. Why, oh why, is it so hard to run on time? Why, oh why, don't more providers schedule enough lead time, or space between appointments.
Sorry to rant, my experiences generally are good, i just hate waiting.
Happy new year.
Although there are some in the real world that don't give a shit about anyone's time as well.
The reality is that the providers of the world simply can't get jobs elsewhere. That behavior simply won't be tolerated for long. Those that try and get away from here end up back here because of this.
It's a vicious circle for most of the providers. They want to get out of this, but can't.
Maybe try texting them 15 minutes before your appointment?
Sorry to rant, my experiences generally are good, i just hate waiting.
Happy new year.
Stereotype much?
I hve seen several escorts who have not kept me waiting...they were ready and waiting when I arrived at their incall...only one has kept me waiting more than a couple minutes...
I'm not going to claim to speak for any of them but I am quite sure that a good percentage of professional providers are capable, intelligent women who could succeed in any field they choose...
I guess you may be right. But with the women I've known in this game that just hasn't been the case. Some have tried to exit, but few succeed for more than a few months. If you get to know why the providers are here, you'll perhaps form a different opinion than what you've expressed here.
I have no problems with women working as prostitutes. Many of them are very good at this.
To suggest that many of the providers could succeed elsewhere, again, that is just your opinion. The reality is that most of the women providing only have a high school education, or perhaps spent a few hours trying college. The options are quite limited with that skill set.
I guess you believe the rhetoric on many prostitutes websites about their advanced degrees.
I hve seen several escorts who have not kept me waiting...they were ready and waiting when I arrived at their incall...only one has kept me waiting more than a couple minutes...
I'm not going to claim to speak for any of them but I am quite sure that a good percentage of professional providers are capable, intelligent women who could succeed in any field they choose...
I think that's a gross misstatement to say they could not succeed elsewhere. I have offered jobs to retired providers and one provider I knew quite well had a very responsible job at one of the most prestigious hospitals in the US.
Yes, I suppose all of us mongers have done pretty well in the work world to be able to afford their rates, but I think there's an argument to be made that they have already succeeded because they have all of us chasing them around looking for a few hours of their time at a rate higher than virtually any other professional charges.
But to your point, yes opinions are like assholes as everyone has one, and I just don't happen to share yours. Yes, there are women who cannot do a traditional 9-5 job who go into the hobby and I would also say there's no shame in that. But I would also say that there are many many (including quite a few who I have known) who have a sharp intellect and could and do hold many traditional jobs but choose to provider for reasons known only to them and I don't care about the reason.
I'm not being a white knight here, or at least I'm not trying to though I have been accused of such. I'm just stating my opinion based on my observations and with regard ti punctuality, when is the last time your doctor took you at the precise moment of your appointment.
C'mon man. Painting an entire group of people with a broad brush has never portrayed the painter in a very good light. Personally, I think you're better than that - I just think you whiffed on this one.
Many of the TER providers have been at this game for a long time. As they stay in this game the prospect for getting out gets dimmer and dimmer. My way of looking at that is that it's an easier game to stay in since a provider really doesn't have to answer to a supervisor. Many people like that option. However if a provider is looking to get out after, let's say 10 years here, what does she have to show for experience in a traditional employment opportunity?
If a young girl gets into this at, let's say 20, and does this till she's done with school, let's say 24. She can easily make that transition. But if she sticks with this, the longer she does so the less opportunity she will have in entry level. And 10 years will go quickly, now she's competing for an entry level against that 24 yo.
How about the millions (closer to tens of millions) of people (most of the providers fall into this group IMO) who have nothing more than a GED/High school degree, or some college classes) and are working at low level jobs as factory laborers (or other low level hourly wage jobs). Can they also succeed as attorneys? How about engineers? Teachers? Or any other profession that requires education and experience? No they can't. They can go and get the requisite skills, but kids, life and other things get in the way of that.
I don't think I whiffed on this. But that is just my opinion.
High school education? A few hours in college? Hey I read their websites! Most of them have graduate degrees from elite schools!
I must agree and disagree... it has more to do with overall work ethic and respect than with simply being a provider. I have been in this business for a number of years and can only recall needing extra time once or twice... we are talking over five years! OTOH, I can name over a dozen provider friends of mine who are always late and with good reason... they get a slew of calls and take them because they have the time to do so. When you're only getting one or two calls a week, you can bet your ass it's rare you flake and are seldom late. So again, agree that a large percentage of providers are always late, but disagree it has to do with them simply being providers.
It makes them feel better for paying. Very few of my guys know what else I do and those that do are very trusted and loyal...and we know a lot about each other.
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I thought you only do the quickie dates and no more?
Amazing how you can build up all that trust and loyalty in such a short session.
Why would anyone care about what else you do? These johns are customers. They don't care. Why is it so important that you think they do care?
Stick to your anti-TER and misandrist posts on that Twitter page. At least those are consistent.
It is so sad that another delisted provider has to still post on TER to be heard. You and your pals bash this site, but here you are. Can you say hypocrite?
I LOVE to pay. The convenience and mutual fun and especially beauty and performance, cmon
where else can a guy get all that for just benjamins?! The variety, omg
Whatever you do DONT quit! Btw where can I find you?!
1. First poster expirencing unprofessional and disorganized individuals ( women - providers)
and
2. Second poster choosing well doing in life women - those who are abler have it all - well balanced fulfilled life - just choose to have extras on this site as well.
I absolutely agree agree and with first poster and with second - just I can see clear that those two gentlemen as well coming from different worlds
First - most likely not spending more then 400 on date and
Second- second seems able spend way more.
As being a woman who met many men in my life and many men and from our site - I have seen very clear pattern in gentlemen behavior as well -
Gentlemen which able to schedule ahead and manage their time and generally are in charge of own life - those gentlemen way better in financial meaning
And
Those gentlemen who can not manage own time well those, as a rule, have limited finances.
My gold rule is - stay within your own kind. KNOW WELL WHO YOU ARE and with whom you will enjoy simple ( and not so simple) pleasures of life the most.
Never go on compromise and do not kid yourself that there is good qulity of services or product be on the "sale"
I am very surprised to find here so many naive gentlemen. As if you do not know life as if you do not know your own country and its marketing strategies and that here is everybody is writer, or if not writer then hiring writers, and it is not always would be as you read it on sitter saw on pictures.
I think everybody knows this felling - was thinking that going to the palace but when stepped in - found yourself in Turkish like Gypsy like shiny tabor... ( myself I feel sometime that way when I am choosing place to dine out, or when ordering items online - I may only imagine how you gentlemen feel unsafe when you have to buy a woman on line .. )
So it is why I always have date deals - as we meeting in the bar first and then go to the room . I do gave my date opportunity to feel chemistry or not to feel . ( of course with 30 % of prepay over paywall for 3 hours date as min )
I never was sent back
But again I never see those who can not plan ahead, those who can not trust with real life screening and sharing who he is, I never see those with whom I not connected on human level over few emails .
Any way .. seems as people here spoke ONLY from own experience. Never deny or be little other person experience - it is just what she or he has in life.
You can accept it and relate or you can move on
But you can not tell them - you are wrong and I am only the one who is right.
Happy New ye
Don't worry about him...did you see his alias? Anyone stupid enough to insist on bareback, especially in P4P, is too stupid to have a valid opinion on any aspect of a hooker's life. He's one of the worst trolls around here, and I take nothing he says seriously.
Funny seeing as how myself and most every other provider I know has a career and does this on the side. And even for those that do this full time good for them! Ever thought maybe it's because we like it or that it's financially a good move? Do you really think it's because we can't actually do anything else or were you just looking for some attention?😂 To assume its because were not capable of getting jobs elsewhere is plain ignorant! Lawd!! seems this discussion board is just filled with mean spirited bullying half the time hence why I rarely stop by anymore.... But when I see a post like this just can't help myself...smh....
Although I have most likely spent years collectively waiting for women, both hookers and non hookers, I have to admit most of my appointments start on time. Actually since I try to account for traffic and usually end up in the area early, many of my appointments start a few minutes early.
Now before any of the BSC start jumping out of their skin about me being early, this is how I handle it. I send a text before I actually leave for the appointment confirming our actual appointment time. I almost always allow for traffic which means if I don't run into traffic I often get there 20-30 minutes early, in which case I will send another text something along the lines of "I am in your neighborhood, looking forward to seeing you at _____, BTW if you would like I can be a bit early, but no worries, I will see you at ____" I would say at least a third of the time the lady will respond with "sure, I am ready, come on up, I am in room ___" the other two thirds of the time she will send me a text at the agreed upon time.
It's really pretty easy, I often wonder why so many guys are constantly getting stood up or left waiting for inordinate amounts of time.
I only do out calls, but I've received lots of the same texts from providers saying they are early, which is fine by me. I LOVE getting an "I'm early" text when I just got out of the shower.
Now before any of the BSC start jumping out of their skin about me being early, this is how I handle it. I send a text before I actually leave for the appointment confirming our actual appointment time. I almost always allow for traffic which means if I don't run into traffic I often get there 20-30 minutes early, in which case I will send another text something along the lines of "I am in your neighborhood, looking forward to seeing you at _____, BTW if you would like I can be a bit early, but no worries, I will see you at ____" I would say at least a third of the time the lady will respond with "sure, I am ready, come on up, I am in room ___" the other two thirds of the time she will send me a text at the agreed upon time.
It's really pretty easy, I often wonder why so many guys are constantly getting stood up or left waiting for inordinate amounts of time.
If you're used to seeing more "mature" providers in their 30's on up (which sounds really strange to me, seeing as how I'm in my 40's but oh well) ... then you probably haven't experienced the lovely phenomenon knows as the millennial girl.
Let me just tell you, they are a treat.
And it's not just the providers, but the whole thing. To say that they operate on their own time is the under-statement of the century. At this point, I've kind of given up on ever being able to follow a schedule with one. You just have to roll with it.
I think the reason I don't have these issues is my appointments are almost always booked same day, and I keep in contact as much as possible during the process.
It is usually drama that they are going through that makes them late. If they are really close to you they will show you the texts lol.
The other reason is they are sharing the room with someone else.
But for some reason after they suck our dick for a good 10 to 15 minutes we forget they were late and see them again.
LOL
I have to agree with you. A really great time goes a long way towards forgetting about a late start.
But I am sure it's NOT the girl running late.
It's all these dick poster hobbyists before you overstaying there allowed time
I was late to an appointment once, count it "1" time, it was a scheduled 2 hour appt that I spent 1:45 at, because it was "my" fault that I was :15 late, still paid for 2:00.
I have come to expect "hooker" time, and as long as she stays for the time/allows me to stay for the time which I pay for then I am happy.
I had a hooker text me 15 minutes prior to an outcall, she told me she was there early and could she come up, I said sure, she walked in my room 5 minutes late. Uhhh, no clue how it took her 20 minutes to go from the lobby to the 12th floor, but she rocked my world so what the hell.
have you lol?????
Sorry to rant, my experiences generally are good, i just hate waiting.
Happy new year.
People who are just inconsiderate assholes about others time, are simply that.
I interact with a lot of people. Whether it's a business proposition or a social commitment, I expect people to be there when they say they will be there.
When someone simply is late, that speaks volumes to me about them.
Men have waited on women for as long as there have been men and women.
Women have put up with men being inconsiderate assholes in ways that make a woman being late seem worthy of a congressional medal of honor
And everyone has to put up with waiting for their doctor
Just because someone is late doesn't make them an asshole. Although speaking like one does speak volumes about someone.
Perhaps your time isn't important to you, but mine is very valuable to me.
When someone, anyone disrespects my time, they are assholes.
I also have no problems letting anyone know how I feel about them being late. It is only told once to them.
Women have put up with men being inconsiderate assholes in ways that make a woman being late seem worthy of a congressional medal of honor
And everyone has to put up with waiting for their doctor
Just because someone is late doesn't make them an asshole. Although speaking like one does speak volumes about someone.
And you are right, being on time is important and I do value my time. I like punctuality a lot but I don't reach the same conclusion as you when a person is late. You started by suggesting that people have different opinions and that is quite fair.
I would just urge you to reconsider yours about providers having the capacity to do other work, as among the ones I've really enjoyed spending time with have been lawyers, school teachers, owners of a not for profit, key hospital personnel, and on and on. And to be honest, even if she's someone who is not able to do other work, what they do is hard honest work that it has to be really hard to get up for each day and disciplined enough to keep as many appointments as they do... Do I condone getting blown off; not at all. But it hasn't happened to me and I have met some women here who are quite smart though perhaps in a non-traditional way, and I am thrilled they do the work they have chosen to do as they make people like you and me feel whole lot better than any lawyer or school teacher ever made me feel lol. You're obviously very intelligent, I guess we just don't agree. Peace.
Unfortunately his opinion of hookers in general...is bad and neither you nor anyone will change his mind. And that's okay too. I know differently and so do you.
And many other business that overbook. I had to wait 20 minutes for my dentist and did not get "more time" or a hefty discount.
and they finally got around to seeing me 30 minutes after my scheduled appointment time
I can't believe that you wouldn't ream out that dentist for being late. Have some self-respect.
Or do you just talk a big game here and on your Twitter pages?
...jump right to comparing it to other businesses whe it behooves them to do so?
I wish these broads would make up there mind. LOL
Piss and moan about them.
Comparing can mean pointing out dissimilarities and she seemed to be wondering if he got riled up over the myriad of other businesses that have tardiness as a norm.
We can't change her no matter how hard you and I try.
She is a living breathing oxymoron.
but if I, the patient, shows up late,
they want me to reschedule.
Just like the escort/hobbyist life. 😷
Shit happens, don't get there so early.
There probably is some jerk (like me?)
hanging, shooting the shit.
She can't exactly throw him/me out into
the hallway
I can't remember being late more than once.
Often guys are early and I am still able to see them early.
Time management is the key
Time has value to me 😆
That's important if I layover in
RD on my way to FL in January.
Check PM.
I'll keep the light on for you
No milk is leftover.
...... the full time hookers I see are a little late some of the time.
The part time ladies are all professionals in the medical industry or have their own RW businesses. They are in this because they like the extra money and they like to play. They also have exit strategies in place, so your theory about jobs passing them by does not apply to them.
The full time hookers have different situations.
I've had numerous times where I've set an appointment with someone, showed up on time, text that I was there and never heard back. That's what's frustrating. You sit in the parking lot like a horny dog for 20 -30 minutes getting more and more frustrated, you try a phone call to know avail. I try and talk myself out of leaving if it's more than 15 minutes but I still want to wait and wait. Eventually I will leave. Most providers in the city are on the other side of town for me, so roughly 40 minutes each way. That's a lot of wasted time for a no-show. My feeling is many of the ones over book or if it's the end of the day they just don't care and cut out early if they've made enough money. Most guys don't repeat anyways I'm guessing they don't care if they never come back. About a quarter of the time I go out to meet someone this is what happens here in Phoenix. This is even with some well-established providers. It does make me appreciate the professionals that act appropriately.
Just build the delay into your schedule. You can always surf TER on your iPhone from the hotel lobby while you wait
Why do you suppose they have all those chairs and sofas there?
Just stay busy on your phone and you'll look like a big time tycoon waiting for a business meeting to start.
I've done that for years with no problem.
Now, waiting around in a lot or garage in your car is another matter
Dudes will wait rather then split especially really good pussy.
if more guys didn't put up with it it wouldn't happen especially at
3 bills and up.
she just wants extra time baby
In some cultures, it's considered impolite to arrive exactly on time. Ever heard of "Indian Time?"