I set up an appointment at time x.   At about one minute before x, I text "I am here." Then, it never happens that the immediate response is "I am in room xxx."  It is always -- "not quite ready yet," "running behind," some other variant of that, or, the worst, radio silence for 5, 10 15, minutes.  Why, oh why, is it so hard to run on time?   Why, oh why, don't more providers schedule enough lead time, or space between appointments.    

Although there are some in the real world that don't give a shit about anyone's time as well.

Stereotype much?

Although I have most likely spent years collectively waiting for women, both hookers and non hookers, I have to admit most of my appointments start on time. Actually since I try to account for traffic and usually end up in the area early, many of my appointments start a few minutes early.

It is usually drama that they are going through that makes them late. If they are really close to you they will show you the texts lol.  

I guess you may be right.  But with the women I've known in this game that just hasn't been the case.  Some have tried to exit, but few succeed for more than a few months.  If you get to know why the providers are here, you'll perhaps form a different opinion than what you've expressed here.

But I am sure it's NOT the girl running late.

I was late to an appointment once, count it "1" time, it was a scheduled 2 hour appt that I spent 1:45 at, because it was "my" fault that I was :15 late, still paid for 2:00.

have you lol?????

LOL
I have to agree with you.  A really great time goes a long way towards forgetting about a late start.

It makes them feel better for paying. Very few of my guys know what else I do and those that do are very trusted and loyal...and we know a lot about each other.  

People who are just inconsiderate assholes about others time, are simply that.

And many other business that overbook. I had to wait 20 minutes for my dentist and did not get "more time" or a hefty discount.

I think that's a gross misstatement to say they could not succeed elsewhere.  I have offered jobs to retired providers and one provider I knew quite well had a very responsible job at one of the most prestigious hospitals in the US.  

I thought you only do the quickie dates and no more?

Why would anyone care about what else you do?  These johns are customers.  They don't care.  Why is it so important that you think they do care?

Men have waited on women for as long as there have been men and women.  

High school education? A few hours in college? Hey I read their websites! Most of them have graduate degrees from elite schools!

Many of the TER providers have been at this game for a long time.  As they stay in this game the prospect for getting out gets dimmer and dimmer.  My way of looking at that is that it's an easier game to stay in since a provider really doesn't have to answer to a supervisor.  Many people like that option.  However if a provider is looking to get out after, let's say 10 years here, what does she have to show for experience in a traditional employment opportunity?  

Perhaps your time isn't important to you, but mine is very valuable to me.

and they finally got around to seeing me 30 minutes after my scheduled appointment time

I can't believe that you wouldn't ream out that dentist for being late.  Have some self-respect.

...jump right to comparing it to other businesses whe it behooves them to do so?

but if I, the patient, shows up late,  
they want me to reschedule.  

I only do out calls, but I've received lots of the same texts from providers saying they are early, which is fine by me. I LOVE getting an "I'm early" text when I just got out of the shower.  

And you are right, being on time is important and I do value my time.  I  like punctuality a lot but I don't reach the same conclusion as you when a person is late.  You started by suggesting that people have different opinions and that is quite fair.  

Unfortunately his opinion of hookers in general...is bad and neither you nor anyone will change his mind. And that's okay too. I know differently and so do you.

Piss and moan about them.
Comparing can mean pointing out dissimilarities and she seemed to be wondering if he got riled up over the myriad of other businesses that have tardiness as a norm.

I can't remember being late more than once.  
Often guys are early and I am still able to see them early.  
Time management is the key  
Time has value to me 😆

I must agree and disagree... it has more to do with overall work ethic and respect than with simply being a provider. I have been in this business for a number of years and can only recall needing extra time once or twice... we are talking over five years! OTOH, I can name over a dozen provider friends of mine who are always late and with good reason... they get a slew of calls and take them because they have the time to do so. When you're only getting one or two calls a week, you can bet your ass it's rare you flake and are seldom late. So again, agree that a large percentage of providers are always late, but disagree it has to do with them simply being providers.

We can't change her no matter how hard you and I try.

That's important if I layover in  
RD on my way to FL in January.

Funny seeing as how myself and most every other provider I know has a career and does this on the side. And even for those that do this full time good for them! Ever thought maybe it's because we like it or that it's financially a good move? Do you really think it's  because we can't actually do anything else or were you just looking for some attention?😂 To assume its because were not capable of getting jobs elsewhere is plain ignorant!  Lawd!! seems this discussion board is just filled with mean spirited bullying half the time hence why I rarely stop by anymore.... But when I see a post like this just can't help myself...smh....

I'll keep the light on for you

...... the full time hookers I see are a little late some of the time.
The part time ladies are all professionals in the medical industry or have their own RW businesses. They are in this because they like the extra money and they like to play. They also have exit strategies in place, so your theory about jobs passing them by does not apply to them.

I LOVE to pay. The convenience and mutual fun and especially beauty and performance, cmon
where else can a guy get all that for just benjamins?! The variety, omg
Whatever you do DONT quit! Btw where can I find you?!

I've had numerous times where I've set an appointment with someone, showed up on time, text that I was there and never heard back. That's what's frustrating.   You sit in the parking lot like a horny dog for 20 -30 minutes getting more and more frustrated, you try a phone call to know avail.   I try and talk myself out of leaving if it's more than 15 minutes but I still want to wait and wait. Eventually I will leave.  Most providers in the city are on the other side of town for me, so roughly 40 minutes each way. That's a lot of wasted time for a no-show. My feeling is many of the ones over book or if it's the end of the day they just don't care and cut out early if they've made enough money.   Most guys don't repeat anyways I'm guessing they don't care if they never come back. About a quarter of the time I go out to meet someone this is what happens here in Phoenix. This is even with some well-established providers. It does make me appreciate the professionals that act appropriately.

1. First poster expirencing unprofessional and disorganized individuals ( women - providers)
and  
 2. Second poster choosing well doing in life women - those who are abler have it all - well balanced fulfilled life - just choose to have extras on this site as well.  

If you're used to seeing more "mature" providers in their 30's on up (which sounds really strange to me, seeing as how I'm in my 40's but oh well) ... then you probably haven't experienced the lovely phenomenon knows as the millennial girl.  

No milk is leftover.

Just build the delay into your schedule.  You can always surf TER on your iPhone from the hotel lobby while you wait

Why do you suppose they have all those chairs and sofas there?

I think the reason I don't have these issues is my appointments are almost always booked same day, and I keep in contact as much as possible during the process.

Dudes will wait rather then split especially really good pussy.
if more guys didn't put up with it it wouldn't happen especially at
3 bills and up.

she just wants extra time baby

Don't worry about him...did you see his alias?  Anyone stupid enough to insist on bareback, especially in P4P, is too stupid to have a valid opinion on any aspect of a hooker's life.  He's one of the worst trolls around here, and I take nothing he says seriously.

In some cultures, it's considered impolite to arrive exactly on time.  Ever heard of "Indian Time?"