When I started in this industry everyone had a box of white envelopes in their house, now today not so much. I have run into several instances where I have seen younger guys who said they actually went to Walmart to buy a box to put the money in to see me. Some of my regulars still do use an envelope, many do not. Should we keep this practice or ditch it? What is everyone's opinion? Positive and negative?  

IMHO cash is king if it's in a white, pink or yellow envelope, or if it's just cash on the nightstand. No problem and no preference with us.

It takes little to know effort to buy a greeting card.  You can get one almost everywhere (drug store, gas station, convenience store, etc.) and augment it with the intended gift.

That, of course, was bullshit. It was also part of the GFE illusion.

oragami envelope  can be made easy with just a sheet of paper

Oh, never heard the LE protection with the white envelope, that is new to me! But I do have clients that are actual LE and they do use an envelope, so......lol  
I like the GFE connotation. Maybe makes it seem a bit more classy than just leaving the money on the nightstand.  
Thanks for your feedback!!

A Provider friend of mine bought me 100 of them.  As sort of an experiment she wanted to see what type of reaction I would receive.  Some of the responses so far:

Envelopes provide a convenience of passing money without others knowing it's money. Usually in public. Well for non-walker providers you're not exchanging money in public. So it doesn't matter.

I dont think it's much of a "burden" . Then again I'm a millennial who does keep a box of white envelopes at home.

Thanks for your feedback and yes, I agree!

Just like LE Check..  I had one do that to me..  Because she was hot and really good in bed I was Ok with it..

The whole concept is silly these days and there's no point to it. Out of habit I still use them but they really serve no purpose when you're in private. Sometimes if I didn't have any handy I'd just fold up a piece of paper and fashion a makeshift envelope.

Having it in an envelope is not only easier to carry around, but also more classy to leave on the table rather than slapping down a wad of cash.  

a simple greeting card. I don't believe any envelope or card is necessary, but it does add just a touch of extra class, IMO.

spin on an envelope, IME, it really kicks up the sessions!
No trouble or bother for me to bring them to the girl I see!

Is either sitting in plane sight, handed to the provider, placed in the bathroom - whichever she prefers, as I always ask beforehand. And yes ,this is done at the beginning of the date ,not ar the end.

I have a box of envelopes and have always used them.

When I receive a card it’s a really thoughtful 🤔 gift, not just an envelope. Even my friends who mail me money it always comes with a personal card and a thoughtful message. Most people have clients, but I prefer connecting with my friends. The majority of my friends pay in full prior to our meeting it’s better because money is never mentioned. I rarely have cash 💵 because there are so many other options that keep it super simple for me and my current lifestyle. Do what works for you. We are all very different and have different needs.

Adds a certain style. I’m not the kinda guy who’s gonna walk in and make it rain

I put the cash in a gift card and place it on the TV stand.

Only if you wrote  "GIFT" 🤣🤣🤣

It really doesn’t matter. I don’t think more or less of a client because they put my donation in an envelope.

Amazon has white envelopes for a very low price.  Not getting why this is a big deal.  

Last few have just taken it out and left the envelope. Even the one who specifies how she wants it on her site. So now I just stick it in my pants and let them go get it…..

IT!! Or the envelope

if it puts them at ease then why not...  There are lot of rituals and silly habits, even superstitions, embedded in many cultures that make no logical sense, but if keeps the people happy and their anxiety under control then who really cares.   You can run your shop however you deem fit, but a lot of people will still be carrying those dopey white envelopes - especially the older folks.  

I never get grief about just setting the cash on a table or dresser top.  

believe in the LE fantasy and asked me to bring cash tucked into a birthday card.  

Much more available in the kitchen before you leave for an appointment.  Make sure to have 2, one for the donation, and the other for the condoms used during the appointment.

Do you take the used condoms home to insert them into your rectum?  

Congratulations  scarlet!! I didn’t think anyone could beat out “Amazing Single Mom” Bia for the most inane post but dagnabit you’ve done it.  
And of course all your little cuckolds have piled in with deep thoughts on such an interesting subject…White envelopes. Perhaps that’s what Hamlet was grasping at, not whether life is worth all the troubles existence offers but rather whether or not to drop his gold pieces willy-nilly or to wrap them in a small silk purse.  
As the old saying goes “men pay women for sex to leave,” I’d pay a pretty penny to see these boards return to men offering or receiving tips on the best tits, so to speak.
And then you can start a separate section, Perhaps Big Mama Bia’s Community” where you can all discuss Bia’s parenting skills, how to stop fake reviews, what’s the best vibrator, what’s your favorite color and other vital subjects. Of course all “Bia’s Boy Toys,” are permitted to join.  
Yours truly,
DisrespectfulDick

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Hi Loves !! Oh, I absolutely love when it’s placed in a clean, professional envelope - left discreetly in the powder room (for outcalls) or simply in a spot that’s obvious to both of us. Personally, I feel that counting the donation upfront is such a “vibe killer.” Most of my  clients already know how I like it, and yes, please continue being thoughtful, smart, and elegant by leaving the donation in a white envelope.

Awesome suggestion! I will happily stop posting on this board for MONEY! Name your price buddy.  WOOT!!!  
Now I no longer have to suck dick for money! Lip lock will send me his "pretty penny" so he can circle jerk with men ONLY and no longer have to associate with females. Great idea!!
Most men don't like to admit they feel most comfortable just existing in a testosterone fueled sausage fest, but YOU did! Great job just being you. Really proud of how far you have come!  
Don't forget to respond with your alias (s).....

because he's afraid the provider will use his seed to impregnate herself. I would love for him to confirm that.

I remember when he outed his own alias! Of course he then name called and lied about it, but then had the post pulled as he ran away in total embarrassment. Mensa certainly isn't calling. lol.

Jesus Christ.  
I do recall many moons ago reading a crazy post on Fetlife about some guy who would save spunk in condoms and freeze it and insert the frozen jizzsicles into his poop shoot and then jerk off. True story.  
 I think we may have come full circle. LOL

Don't need to doing child support in my 60s.

Ah how silly you are. Of course you will still need to “suck dick for a living” but in your ignorance you read my post as an anti-woman post rather than a bit of satire at  all you “dick suckers (Scarlets words) that sound so trite.  
I adore women and not just physically, however we rarely discuss white envelopes,,dildos or how we feel about the pros and cons of the prebook.  
I imagined you to be a bit more mature and intelligent to not read this as a call to kick you off the boards which i don’t have the power nor the desire to do so. Before, this board and society as a whole lost their ability to think for themselves there was a thing called comedy.  
Your extreme reaction only shows your insecurity about yourself and a need to attack  
If you can’t laugh LOUDLY every time Bia announces that she’s a single mother (100’s of times) then you are missing out on the only thing worth living for, Laughter. After all woman doesn’t live by dick alone.  
If you would have shown a little humor instead of passive aggressive bile we  might have a little playful banter. Instead, you tried to (sophomorically) accuse me of being a what? A homosexual? If I am is that a reason to criticize me? Are you homophobic? How is preferring men’s company  a bad thing. (which I don’t and you can read my reviews to see, as opposed to most of the cuckolds here don’t seem to have any).  
I have as you know since you spend so much time here that I rarely do. But I just couldn’t resist and I apologize for hurting your feelings.  
Please continue your life here and I shan’t trouble you again
By the way have we solved the White envelope conundrum? If so may I suggest we take on world peace  or feeding the needy.
Xoxo

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1 I didn’t have the post remived.
2 Since you remember this story I am right and believing your whole life here.  
3. Stating that I got outed for misbehaving on the fuck board as something i give a shit about.  
4. As opposed to you I contribute to the only thing TER has any use. I post reviews. You post childish retorts about some idiotic thing that happened a year.
5. I suggest you lose your virginity and get out of this virtual basement and have a life.

Amazing how little you know of this place. I do post reviews but I guess they are too difficult for you to find? Other people seem to have no problem finding them but it's just all above your pay grade I guess. Lol
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And if you didn't give a shit about outing yourself, you would never have pulled that post. Busted again. Yeesh.  
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It's incredible you would think that reviews is all that TER is good for. I'd tell you to build a network of friends to get the real info bc but I cant imagine you being able to figure out how to do that either.  
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But like I said, you have zero worries of Mensa membership. lol.  
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Now, get on that homework I gave you and find those reviews of mine, as that should keep you busy. I have tortured you enough in this thread and I know this is a school night for you.

I thought this was an innocuous post and many had good responses.

I thought today everything was electronic at some point between the two?

I haven't used an envelope in years, high end hooker or not. Haven't had a single complaint except one chick that didn't want to "touch" the money in front of me. Of course, this was after the fucking had taken place, so no idea what that was about. Just another law enforcement expert I guess.

If it's cash, it's whatever. Not hard to get envelopes. I go with what floats the providers boat.

Or maybe it was  "Law & Order: Special Victims Unit"..but it was about some celebrity who tried to get back his jizz that was in the condom and the chick had it. I think he whacked her or they went to court... But it was a about some chick who screwed around found out.

I am exercising my right to add anyone who I deem necessary to add to my ignore list. It’s a wonderful feature that should be extended to the aliases who write fake reviews for VIP days. Anyone who is a chauvinistic, disrespectful, or just uneducated posting bs deserves to be ignored.

I’ve had that clown on ignore for awhile now and I find my list grows longer each week.

Because married folk like to leave a paper trail? Really?

...guys should give the payment how it's been asked for.  Why create a potential issue and maybe fuck up your session by doing it some other way?  I'm sure I'll get the "buddy" response on somehow I'm wrong or writing this will get people on the FBI list or at least be brought to school on how most men think.  

There are likely more than a few professional athletes that have, or wished they had done this.  While Oscar Wilde may disagree, it was a Ray Donovan episode that had the gal trying to capture/keep a famous athlete's sperm.  OK episode, great series though.  

What this thread did not do, as you claim it has, is say "guys should not give the payment now it's been asked for".

you mean the incall?
Quite a few places, in So Cal that I've been to, it's a hallway right to the playroom.

I've been doing this since I was eighteen & a half (I'm now 49).  So, I have learned somethings.  

Thanks for chiming in, as always...

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Couple points for you TRQ.  Others chirped in on their own ways so I made the point of just do it how they asked.  Pretty much the one and only sentence that took you two paragraphs to whine because you took it somehow different.  
I rarely hear the request anymore so I thought I’d contribute what works for me.  I finished making a point about the post itself as it isn’t overly relevant but keeps certain people with a commercial interest on everyone’s screens.  

I didn't whine about anything. You attempted to do the whole condescending "just do it the way provider asked to lol" spiel and I called you out on it, reminding you that the topic is about envelopes, not people who don't listen to the providers.

I still like my cash in an envelope but I don’t specifically ask for a white one. Some guys bring greeting cards while others put it in the cash envelope you get from a bank. As long as I get the cash it honestly doesn’t matter how they present it to me.

...a special kind of stupid that ignores the obvious and just likes to argue and get the last word.  Here we go...

All those replies were replies to the topic title.

I somehow like the idea of bringing a "Thank You" note in an envelope with the cash folded inside.

I would prefer ladies don’t require it because sometimes I don’t have a chance to grab one— but I usually bring the donation in a non-sealed envelope. I don’t think anyone I see explicitly requires them though.

I always purchase a thank you card where I write a personal note of appreciation and include my gift.

Envelopes help immerse myself in the experience. After 16 years or so in the hobby, I started using artisanal envelopes with fancy designs. I usually get them off Etsy. The women loved them, and even a few asked me if I had any to spare as they wanted to use them to gift to other people in their lives. They would also post the envelopes on their social media and say what a nice gesture it was

You know those little cash envelopes that you get from the bank? Yeah, I just bought a crapload of those online and use those.