While I've hobbied quite a bit in the past, I haven't in over a year. And I'm meeting my first TER-reviewed provider in a few days. Anybody else have to restrain themselves from PMing their prospective provider every time they start thinking about the session? I don't want to bug her, and I respect that the session is about the session, not a two-day build-up of sexting beforehand. I'm just so damn looking forward to it. We men really are beasts.

sounds more school girl than beast.

Party pooper

Or you could chill out and realize my post was meant to be taken light-heartedly.  

Sounds like you're the one who needs to chill out before you wet yourself.
Take a Xanax or something. If you act like a 15 yo virgin getting their first hooker you'll just scare her off.

But, no, I don't continually email my teacher. And I wouldn't expect a good reaction from him/her if I did.  

unless I know her REALLY well.  Even then I don't want to bug her or make her feel obligated to respond just to keep me happy.  It's a good thing you've been able to restrain yourself because if you become a pest to her she could break the date.
Guys in this world become very needy and do stupid shit all the time.  But, hey, at least you're not stalking her.
Have fun.  If you played more often you'd have better perspective.

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It is totally ok to email the provider here and there up until the session as long as you respect her. If she is busy and let's you know she is not available, definitely respect that. I hope you enjoy your session and have lots of fun.

Two or three times a week, you won't have any desire to intrude on your provider's time before the session, because you just got your rocks off a couple days ago.  This has been my strategy for many years and it works.  The provider is more likely to try to juice me a little by text or email than me reach out to them just to say I have a boner already and the session is not until tomorrow.  

...How many more times will you casually mention in a post that you see providers "two to three times a week?"

It's one thing to covet a person's wealth, but wealth and stamina together?   Yeesh.

and you don't really have to be wealthy to get laid twice a day. Wealthy guys race yachts, cars, race horses. Poor guys like me settle for betting on the races and fucking hookers. lol

the rich from the poor...

in context for this thread.  Not everyone here has heard me say it before, and not everyone reads every thread here.  It only gets old if you read EVERYTHING I have EVER posted.  Most people don't have time for that, so I don't assume anything when I'm posting on a new thread.  Like others here, I TRY to be humble, but its just not a good fit for my personality type.  So sue me.  

are just like us, except they have more money.  

Well, partially disagree. It's certainly good advice not to blow up a girl's inbox with messages. It's also a good idea to limit your messages if you aren't getting responses to your chit chat/the response is short, etc.  

If there is ANY doubt as to whether the conversation is welcome, IOW, your longtime friends, family et al aside, I take the cue from the response I get and I NEVER send out a new message without getting a reply from the last one, unless of course it relates to the actually appointment

I'm a new ebony  provider in the Carolinas and I dont have a review yet so I understand your anticipation....I can't wait to get my first review! 😌

Because my thumbs are too big to text on the regular-sized iPhone, and autocorrect can't fix the kinds of mistakes I make with using my thumbs.  It not just a misspelling, its incoherent jibberish.  

on the side of caution and respect her space.  E-mails, like all forms of communication, are vulnerable to misinterpretation.  So minimize the probability of misinterpretation, or worse yet, that she will perceive you as needy, creepy, or a time waster.  Avoid sending e-mails that do not have a clear purpose.  Don't send e-mail #2 until she has responded to e-mail #1 favorably, hopefully with a question.  Do what you can to make her feel empowered.  Don't make her feel like a pizza or fast food that you are ordering.  She is an experience.  Be careful not to project a sense of entitlement.  If you can't decide whether or not to click send, then don't.    

I love how many people thought I was asking for advice in this post. While I am certainly not above listening and learning (and I know I have a lot to learn), that wasn't the purpose of this post.  

and I NEVER send out a new message without getting a reply from the last one

Thank you for your response, and I hope things go well for you soon! You sound like an eager beaver, and any client would be lucky to have you.

EVERY provider has an eager beaver, its why they do this, but its always nice to have new blood here.