So I go to this little bar/restaurant all the time and one day I see a lady and she's having dinner with someone maybe 30-40 yrs her senior and the conversation is date-like (so what do you like to do-not as in hobbies but more intimately). Then I see her 2 days later and she's there with someone different. This time he seems to be a mid 40s married man.  

Since we live in the same city, I know exactly what you mean. Whether it's sugar babies, escorts, etc.

be looking for 'it'. But most of the time, if you become aware, the 'looks' are most definitely there

you ladies don't have a secret sign that you flash to let the other lady know you are a member of the profession?  
Don't tell me that provider was telling me a big fat lie!

Since we're in the same City...

Anything you'd like for me to relay?

Out in my little part of the Wild West, there are tons of great restaurants and resorts to visit for drinks and dining. That is not counting the numerous exotic/collector car auctions, PGA tournaments, MLB Spring Training, etc events that happen this time of year.  

When I worked for an IT firm, I would go out of town and stay over in order to be fresh for the business meeting the next day.  Sometimes a female business associate was assigned to go along with me and we would go out to dinner.  The company always hired good looking women to balance out all of us ugly looking guys. So we would be at dinner and get a lot of stares because people would think that this old fart had either paid for a provider or had a lot of money to seduce the hot babe sitting with him, when it was just a business dinner.  Since most of the ladies are hired by the company because they are extroverts, they can converse with ease and have great repartee with me.  So you can't judge a book by its cover sometimes. LOL

Ever watch Hitch, he had these cool little black cards that people passed around.

and interferes with your public enjoyment of a hooker you're with?  

Old ugly dudes surrounded by beautiful women... No one would bat an eyelash.

Guy walks by on the beach while I'm sitting there with my wife.  He is 400 pounds plus, pasty white and not looking good. My wife comments on him while he has trouble laying down on the beach. About 15 minutes later this 20'ish hottie in a thong strolls by then puts herself down by the beached whale and starts slathering him with sunscreen. My wife is speechless (hard to do).  

I notice it all the time, but I never really listen to the conversation though.

...it's dangerous to point out "pros" to your wife?
I think the natural response would be: how do you know?

Lol, so how many of the ladies there that night did you recognize or even know?

or legitimate mail order bride..That's why I try to avoid going to the same/restaurant place twice, I strategically go to places where:
a) I won't run into anyone
b) I won't feel awkward if the hostess recognizes me  
c) I feel comfortable with super dim light just in case
Miami is not that big obviously but, if NYC is the place you are referring to, with some many choices and places everywhere, why she picks this place is beyond me.. Perhaps she gets a kickback each time she brings a date? LOL

discretion, discretion.... EOM
Love
TL

Definitely not a kickback because it's a hole in the wall, but with the weather people are lazy. I think she's just like "whatever, I'm not walking farther than this". And with so much ice around, it's hard to want to walk to a different place.

Sorry sftd, I just couldn't help myself.  That's a line someone used on me once when I told him I was taking my girlfriend to Italy

Guys often fall into the train of thought that "she's hot so she must be a hooker."  It's bullshit.  The trampiest looking girls in Vegas are civvies.
Also, it doesn't matter if it's a John seeing a hooker he knows in public, or Cosette wanting to reach out to a fellow provider.  It's a major No-No.  Always respect someone's privacy outside the session. At most, smile and nod politley, then move on.  Never approach someone you know or speak to them unless it's clear you're welcome.  And it's much better to assume you're not and move on,.

This was way before I knew about our "secret society" but it was so fucking obvious that even though I was clueless I knew.

I am a very heavy man, crooked teeth, balding, and in short not all that attractive. My wife works out everyday, and.is a real looker. People assume my wife is with me for my money but when we met and married she made twice what I made. Sometimes love finds odd pairings. Sometimes that ugly or old dude is one just lucky bastard and sometimes it is him paying for it. From a casual glance it is hard to tell.

BOO  

BAM

Are you looking for a sorority sister, or a piece of ass?

You do agree conversing with the lady on "his" time is rather rude, right?

Completely. I mean I wouldn't know the first thing to say. But maybe a wink??

Seriously! are you winking at the guy or the girl in the bar?

But one doesn't count because she came by to have a single drink with her roommate (my date).

If you were to do that to my ex GF and current FWB who is thirty years younger than me and I caught you, I'd tell her that some "old broad" thought she was a hooker, and she might not take it so kindly.  

What the hell is a BAM...I expect more from you Cosette.

and didn't you feel a bit silly when Terrilynn not only admitted that she is a SLUT, but that she loves it, and that you were the only one taking offense at the term, not her?

and yes you and ADJ are definitely "polar opposites" he is the stick, and you are the piñata, you can't get much different than that.

Tardwell, please don't ever change, if we didn't have you to kick around, we might have to turn on each other to entertain ourselves.

One last question, can you really see the veins popping out of your head when you slam your keyboard in response to one of our posts?

and Taylor really needs a nice sensitive man like you to make her feel good about herself, she thinks the rest of us are mean.

and don't worry, even if the rational version of Taylor is the one that shows up today, a couple of posts by me will bring back the BSC one.

So have you seen the "real" Joselynn lately?

and the night before when you thought you saw Joselyn when I was with that other chica about a week ago, that was not Joselynn either.

I would accuse you of being drunk or needing glasses, but I had been with both girls several times, and it was almost five minutes before I realized that the chica I was with was Sharon, not Joselynn, but in my defense, I WAS drunk.

I don't know if I really care about the $150 barrier anymore. I hate to be partially responsible for a quantum leap in rates, but Costa Rica is not exactly a cheap place to live for these chicas, and the fifty bucks isn't going to exactly break either of us, but I guarantee you, the moment $150 becomes the new standard, $200 will only be weeks behind.

A lot of fun I bet, but Catty nonetheless. Kudos for your maturity

Spending as much time in Costa Rica as I do, being in the same room with even a dozen different women that I have slept with at one time or another has lost it's awkwardness, unless it's someone that I've actually been involved with, and didn't just fuck for money.

Blame Nicky, "he started it" lol

Ok lets bring it back on track AND talk about Costa Rica.

In Costa Rica it's common place for men, Gringos and Ticos alike to be with women 30+ years their junior. It doesn't raise so much as an eyebrow from anyone but American Soccer Moms on vacation, and it's that way in virtually every country from Mexico south that I can think of. Why is is such a big deal in the States when a man is with a much younger woman.

Thinking about it, I have a FWB in Atlanta who is almost exactly 30 years younger than me, we almost never get those looks any more now that she is 25, when she was closer to 20 we got those kind of looks all the time, enough so that she actually confronted a couple of old biddies who were not doing a very good job at hiding their disapproval.

That's why I said in an earlier post to be very careful just in case you have misread the situation, my girl might just punch you in the nose if you were to come up and wink at her in that manner if her and I were out in a restaurant somewhere.

Let me point out if that's true about Roddy (and I suspect it is) the post above is three words over his limit.
As for Taylor, it will be interesting to see which version has returned after her brief hiatus.

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For this psychological profile, I laid out the OP and your replies so you can see where there 's clearly something wrong with your thought processes. The question was whether we also wonder about encounters around us. Yet, somehow you immediately answered about how people view yours and your dad's dates. You spend one superficial second talking about old men but only to put yourself in context rather than vice-versa. On top of that, you indicate that sometimes other men stare rudely at your date.  

but just because I am an asshole doesn't mean that you aren't BSC.

FWIW Nicky, Panthera, and CPA are all assholes too, if you don't believe me, just ask them, I bet you they will freely admit it.

I met a guy friend at our favorite lunch spot, and my old sugar daddy was in a booth with this hot mess that was clearly his current recruit. I couldn't tell if they had just met, or had been involved for a while but I had a ball observing from across the bar, eating my taco salad and watching her texting the whole time and him staring at the ceiling. When they were leaving and walked passed us he finally saw me and looked mortified as he walked past. It was hilarious.

I haven't seen Joselyn in about a week.  Even more important, Miss Ray Ban continues to be absent. The good news is Miss Medellin showed up last night, so there was some fun to be had.  I continue to resist The "Other" Miss Medellin (a/k/a "Miss $150"), but I know it's futile and I will cave, if not tonight, certainly before I leave in a few weeks.  Sorry.
As to the betting line, up to you but we know your scenario is correct.

If someone suffering from said affliction has a thought consistent with their disease, would it be correction to label it "Tardwellian?"

They were sitting in a booth right next to our regular "spot" at the bar, and as much as I was tempted, I refrained from sitting there and instead walked around to the other side before he saw me.

We get it, you cool kids. Sheesh.

And, yes, I do recall the confusion between Sharon and Joselyn.  But it's easy to tell the difference now based on boob size.  So add two days to my Josie time line.
As for the game changing here, Miss Medellin tried to get $120 out of me last night.  When I pointed out I saw her in Dec. for $100 she changed her tune.  But the problem was, her menu had changed a bit, so she wasn't as much fun and I won't repeat.  But what a bod!  Totally rocked-out bikini-model type.  Great DD bolt-ons, tiny waist, tight tummy, big, firm natural ass.  My kryptonite. Too bad.

mean, you're just an asshole. I don't like assholes, though they come plentiful

I think just might have a different idea about married providers since he's married to one. Now she can get blasted by manginas and assholes alike.

about the only thing you and I will agree on. ENOUGH with CR already. Shit eat and breath it somewhere else gentlemen. It's old. And yes, everyone here GETS IT. Are you that bored in CR that you can't find anything else to talk about? Maybe it's not all it's cracked up to be afterall.

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If you don't like it, how about this? Just don't read our posts. Arg.

You've mentioned the forbidden "Costa Rica" in one of Cosette's threads! LOL!  How dare you?

and I am pretty sure that I long as I am part of it, Cosette is going to stay upset. I certainly hope I will be able to sleep tonight with all the angst I am suffering over it.

Because that what I needed in that case (to be parallel with narcissism). Not an adjective.

I just wanna know when it's OK on one of "your" threads. LMAO!

No comment.

Now here's a bet: you'll never get Taylor to admit she's BSC.  And it took less than a day for her to make it clear she's the same judgmental clownette as before.  Being called an asshole by Taylor is actually high praise and something any self-respecting monger should ass-pire to.
Did you see her little "no comment" comment about married providers?

You've gone over your limit mister.

I actually enjoy reading different true experiences. Here, we have to screen for a lot of bs and imposters. But since that is not a concern in this case, why stress out? And this comes from someone who's not a cool kid. I actually don't dig the CR scene but I enjoy hearing about it from coworkers.  

Costa Rica!  Costa Rica!  Costa Rica!  COSTA RICAaaaaaaaaa!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Dummies seem to be the only ones here you like, and more importantly, the only ones that like you.

You and Roddy Turdwell should make a lovely couple, if he is into "older women" of course as he is most likely at least a decade younger than you. but he is so clueless you might actually be the smartest one in the room for a change.

That'll distract her. She loves dwelling on those subjects.
Just Don't objectify women either unless it's a subtle linguistic slight like restricting a clause about ladies with "that" instead of "who."

Cause I've got some knuckle sandwiches to pass out.

Gosh, I hope Cosette isn't upset we've hijacked her thread without mentioning, well, you know, that place I'm staying in Central America....

And making fun of ISOs is my NY board cause, a lady needs some goals. This weather is DEPRESSING, another storm on Monday. I'm going bananas, add that to my tired subjects.  

I didn't mention CR until you asked me if I'd seen Joselyn recently.  You could look it up.

Wacky Wabbit. Enjoy the video.  

Now please unbunch your panties.  As for me, I'm going for a power walk on the beach.  What beach? Where?  My lips are sealed.  Unless you hit them with your knuckle sandwich.

It would be far too fun for me to dance circles around your SLOW (physically & mentally of course) old, crusty ass any day of the week. Now that would be beyond joyful for me Almost too much to take I'm afraid LOL. Ok, maybe not.

Because all your panties must be bunched up.

TS at her shrink's

What do you think you would have done if some unknown hooker were to have walked up to you while you were with your husband and given you a "knowing wink" without knowing anything at all about the two of you?

you'll have to come up with something a lil more clever to win my heart. I don't like dummies either, I thought I was pretty clear on this. Do I need to make it clearer? Geezk.  

You boys are far too easy to dangle the bait in front of these days haha. You are literally foaming at the mouths, it's hilarious, this thread is proof. But don't worry, there's enough of me to go around. It's ok. Just don't make the other ladies jealous.  

tell me not even you expected me to come back on as a good lil girl now did ya? I don't kiss ass. Sorry.

You really have delusions of grandeur, my little asparagus.  We just enjoy having one of our most reliable and predictable pinatas back.  Smacking Turdwell around gets boring fast.  Adding TardlorStoole to the mix makes it enjoyable for another, say, 15 minutes.
You are a legend in your own mind.