so I'm not look on suggestions on how to avoid this situation...

It ruins our time together. If I was a client, I'd wonder if she is going to talk about me to the next guy.

I think most of the time it might be related to the conversation we are having, and they are only trying to relate with a situation from their life. Most of the time it's a piece of mundane information, these women aren't usually on the professional end of the provider scale. Sometimes I don't think they really separate this life with their real one, as if it's all one in the same.

Why do we have to keep agreeing?

Especially hokey players pay her a 1000 a hour well I was a cart pusher and she been doing this for 10 + years and was on on herion that she stuff up her nose and I got Into a fight with her pimp and she took off with me because all thay got was my bike the wip me 4 times with my backpack that had a bike lock in it. So nedless to say she did it for a pack a dew and a room she want a new outfit too but we got into at store and I was dripping to much blood she took off running when the store called the cops.

If I am having OTC time with a dude, it is what it is. Psst. you guys talk a hell of a lot more than we do.  

It's always my first time doing this, don't ladies love p4p virgins?

Providers will sometimes tell me things about some of their clients that they would never dare tell a guy. Cracks me up. Girl talk can be fun, and as long as it's after our session and I'm getting ready to head out anyways, I don't mind it at all

... were mentioned for the negative stuff, like when a client tried to get the provider to go beyond her comfort zone and menu, or when there was a major hygiene problem. But a few times my atf has told me about light-hearted things that happened with a client, and mentioned his handle. And sometimes we'll discuss the goings-on from TER land, but that stuff is public knowledge.

Taking off on a bike? REALLY? After 10 plus years she should know better.

They let me get a hotel room but not get clothes at a fashion bug. Yes drugs are bad and they will make you do dumb things Like try to get with a guy on a bicycle.  

The provider I'm seeing tells me about her other regular clients she sees. It's great insight to what these gals go through in this business. The stories and requests about her other regular clients is scary. I'm not sure why she tells me about her other clients. I guess she trusts me.

But nothing specific. I know that some guys pay to grill the girls about other clients who they've been reviewed by. Which is a good reason to be careful about who you review.

What is of greater concern is when a guy interrogates a hooker for personal information like real names of other clients, their professions, home addresses, email addresses, or--probably most dangerous--about the names of other people in their lives like family, SO's, or any kind of professional relationships that might have been divulged during pillow talk.

I personally do not mix any of my experiences with clients. I like to keep my moments fresh and unique to the person I am entertaining.

I've been in this same category with a (now regular) provider.  She thanked me for going the extra distance cleaning up, dressing nice ( even if casual) and making her feel special.  She says to me " ...some guys out there don't give a sh*t"

Only question is whether this will be published on its own or in your upcoming anthology ('Tweets From The Philosopher King'). Either way, I'm buying the autographed cloth bound edition.

Could you understand one word he wrote?  No wonder he does NOT write reviews.  Who would understand them.  And TER admin screens MY posts?

Even if they are about me. My wife and does one of my favorites tells me about her strange clients it is kind of funny other times she must vent a little about the stupid things some men do. But never do the give handles or names or anything identifying so the guys are still anonymous and there secrets are safe.  

A provider talked about a client who's a member of this forum. She said that he wasn't to be trusted (we were talking about some drama concerning her on the regional forum).  She also said his real first name is *****.  I don't give a shit about him, but I didn't like that she brought all that up.

Even good BCD stuff shouldn't be discussed wit identifiable information. Handles are identifiable information. Tell all stories but keep identities out of them, unless they are to keep others safe from bad stuff like a lady telling another lady of a pushy client or something.

Now it's become fun, sort of like doing a word puzzle

and he always WILL BE annoying.

Some trolls are entertaining, some even fun. He is nothing but annoying and a complete waste of bandwidth. For a while he was pretty much ignored and he sort of faded away, let's see if we can go back to those days.

Real hot air.

Not sure why I took him off, perhaps I was bored and wanted to do a word puzzle

Maybe I haven't been around long enough but I read some douchebags msg saying this somewhere (not calling you one. Just familiar with this dudes douchebag mentality) and I almost pissed my pants laughing. Like, can we please examine why one would feel the need to put someone on ignore for discussion board purposes!!! I can understand for some providers or harassment through PMs a little bit but for discussion board purposes? The dude I'm speaking about had the nerve to call who he was talking about a Retard. Idk. I just saw him as one sensitive ass dude to the point of being retarded himself. I stick with that analysis!  

the definition of "cisgender," mtndew formulated this wonderfully concise & droll explanation that also was a sly jab at the ole IQ:      "means you happy the way you came out of you mommy".

well except for one's own ability to ignore other posters if one sees fit. I honestly can't imagine needing a feature like the ignore feature.

and yes, I am positive that some of the "ubersensitive" folks around here most certainly have me on ignore, I can't count the amount of sleep I have lost over it.

I never said I couldn't understand it, just that I would never use such a ridiculous term to describe "normal"

and I think I "might" have expressed my slight displeasure with the PC Police, and I am sure I did so with all my usual tact and sensitivity. lol

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She was Telling me about One of Her clients, a Pathetic man, Who tries To win her affection By buying her Diapers And Milk and giving her Rides. He also Thinks he Is the Only one She Gives BBFS to.

I don't get annoyed about it.  If it takes too long to get the gist I simply just move on to the next post.  I take it on as a challenge actually, to see if I can completely understand his entire post.  I know I will never receive any awards for my writing, but he makes me look like a literary genius.  I have to wonder if he writes that poorly through his own intention, or he is actually that illiterate.

I think his keeper took away his computer for awhile.

I'm not sure if these young women know about review sites. I'm sure some do, but I don't think they all do.

... but if I know site member has me on ignore. I return the favor, just to be an ass.

Dear Alex:
There should be a venue in which providers should be able to convene and discuss business.  Perhaps they should have groups sponsored by organizations that are active in the commercial sex industry.  That way they will have a modicum of privacy and security when they convene.  This would be good for you guys because they would give you a venue to discuss those items of interest and they would insure your confidence as well.

I said I do not believe in talking about clients to others (which I agreed with him on)

I realize my mastery of the English language leaves a bit to be desired.
    Could you define macho for me ?  
  Machismo is not a strength  I see in your words .  
   
     I must digress, I could be completely off base.  
   I am sure you know a Hillbilly like me has a limited vocabulary    
   
Please explain your definition of Machomen and the color of the  favorite  dress you wear.  

Others including me put out handles. I answered  you question and expanded on the topic others did as well. Once posted the tread gains its own life and isn't necessarily about you situation and your post but every person who responded posts and ideas as well.

in the process come off like the Village People.

GaG, pulls that look off very well.  

Yeah? I was just setting the record straight.

Be considerate and polite if these gals talk about another client or anything else happening in their lives. These gals are like anyone else. They need to talk to someone about things going on in their lives. So we shouldn't get mad or be critical towards them. Just listen and be polite when they talk to you. It doesn't hurt to be considerate and polite to these gals. Even though they have an unusual way of making a living.

I usually make the mistake of saying something practical/logical, and almost parental like. Only to be followed up by their awkward silence, as if I'm judging them based on their choices. Like they know I'm right, but they rather live in their state of delusion

I think it just isn't a good practice to be in. I want the time I spend with a client to be our own and memories we both will have. It shouldn't be tainted with other experiences with other people on either end. Just my 2 cents.