A uniquely subjective and individualized transaction to be sure, but a transaction nonetheless.  

We pay women for a sexual experience.  Our own, individual experience according to our own, individual wants, desires, expectations, and experience.  Simple.  You get what she's willing to give as long as she gets what she wants you to pay.  

Short of safety issues, There is no RIGHT way to do this, and there is no GENERAL way the transaction should be conducted in any facet.  Handling the money, refreshments, how long to wait, physical issues, depth of screening, etc, etc, ..... - will all be different with EVERY single encounter because NONE of us are the same.

Do people around here really think that the academic, theoretical, and idealistic pablum thrown around these boards regarding Hobby Conduct actually applies to the real hobby world out there?  if you do, then you are ultimately in for a rude awakening.

It's nice because people from many different regions can pitch in their experiences and thoughts.

I don't think OP or anyone was actually overthinking anything.

Yes, all encounters are unique and there's no "one size fits all" method to doing things.

These opinions are what makes the hooker board fun....

If we weren't throwing around opinions, there would be canned advice for everyone...well.. in most cases, and that would be

"Do it as you see fit..."

What fun is that ?

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whores an excuse to pontificate...

That's because he's a lawyer.

He knows how to use words

Unlike you...Who only knows how to eat donuts...

Saw your pic in the thread below.. Damn dude... What happened? You should be surfing more, and not eating like a monster...WTF....

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I'm not very fond of.

LOL. I fuck better than I write FWIW.

Oh, EOM

Whatever alleged rules exist, God knows I've broken them all. Most hobbyists are  dumb sheep or lemmings.

Lets just shut TER down then and forget the whole thing!

It's just entertainment DC.  Don't take the posts or the people who post them so seriously...

Name drop, ass kiss, tell us about your bad boy ways, take a shot at your fellow hobbyists, mention God, sheep and show a video of some sort of vermin leaping 40 feet into a pool of water! Now that's a full post! Lol

There is only ONE way to play this game, and that's my way, damn it!

have become disconnected from "normal" society due to economics, technology and a general breakdown of family connections.  I have had several conversations with friend that I used to hang out with golfing 2 or 3 times a week and due to economics or our bodies breaking down that is gone.  We all work out of our homes on the computer for the most part then find this strange place.

Certainly this overthinking of things in this forum is because there are a lot of disconnected people out there that can spend time on a fuck board rather than interacting with real people face to face.

I think many people spend more time on TER than actually fucking. It's just another social media site that can be more fun.

It is a transaction, plain and simple.

And many people just overthink and try to find a one-size-fits-all answer.  Not just for protocol, but for everything in life.

I would articulate the hell out of you !!!

Luckily I took the time to actually read all of the responses to this thread. I was just about to reply with something like How fucking boring would this board be, then I remembered they have a site like that. It has all of the "This is what I will do" and "meet me at this cheap hotel"  for "this much money" and there are plenty of BP girls to prove it.

This site is for the regailment of anyone who can read. I don't think anyone here believes everything a board persona says, nor do I think anyone believes all of the subject matter of the reviews. Others may have jumped on the bandwagon because it is a break from the norm of the repetitive subjects that arise here daily. I can find the value in that.

What a boring site this would be if there were no confrontations that make it interesting.

MM

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I just think it's more annoying when people try to do the "one-size-fits-all" bullshit.

LMAO...well I am a "Swamp Person" so it won't take much bwahahhaha.

I'm saying...and that's how it's done folks.

I knew you would eventually come to the dark side, WOTW...ha ha ha. See..it's not so bad here lol.

Suppose, growing up a bit and facing real music would help.

They don't or can't get anything done. They drive people around them crazy. Pretty sure, it same here too.

overthinkng and generalizing, what are you doing around here? And what do you think your post will achieve? Oh wait, the blinding light of the truth has enveloped me, and I will be free of my past stupidity.

In case I was too subtle, DC, I am suggesting that your post suggests a single, clear understanding of how things work just as much as all the others you complain about. After all, if someone wants to do it a certain way, and part of that is to be absolutely convinced that their way is the best, maybe only, way to do it, doesn't your all inclusive, all permissive view allow that? Isn't that way just as acceptable as any other?

Yeah, I find it annoying as shit, too, when they come back and whine about how everyone else is so stupid because they want to do it differently. But a simple STFU in response to the whining seems more useful than some overgeneralized grand pronouncement.

In any case, most people tend to believe that the way they like to do things is the right way to do those things, not just in the hobby, but in general. Seems to be human nature. Not sure what you hope to achieve in arguing against that, so I hope your post felt good, at least.

zig

'over thinking it.'

In a nut shell, he is saying "When did P4P become so fkin complicated?" Hire a girl, arrive, pay her, fk her, and leave. It's that simple, yet so many complicate this transaction for no good reason. Who cares how long a guy waits to leave if he does hear from the provider...why would anyone ask US about that? If I said "wait a year" is he going to do that? No, I think not. This is supposed to be the most simplistic, non complicated arrangement on the planet, yet some still find a way to fk it up.

I am not saying any of the topics discussed are not entertaining, but they are not exactly significant in the grand scheme of seeing providers. Envelope, no envelope, how many guys per day, asking for discounts etiquette, etc. These are all things that are just minor issues, and don't really make a huge difference on the hobby as a whole. He is saying, "Just get laid already, and forget the dumb shit so many obsess over before and after seeing a hooker!"

That's what I got out of it, anyway lol.


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How is that working out for you?

You read WAY to much into this forum.
WTF? All they taught you in College was Vocabulary?

If it were your way. The board would have two things.
Crickets chirping.
Oh, and the occasional blowhard bitching about the crickets.

"Do people around here really think that the academic, theoretical, and idealistic pablum thrown around these boards regarding Hobby Conduct actually applies to the real hobby world out there?  if you do, then you are ultimately in for a rude awakening. "

Nope, you were not telling anyone to wake up and smell the coffee.

zig

If you can't beat em, join em. eom.

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Exactly, but that's the point. He is saying it does NOT have to be all that...just pick a girl, pay her, fk her, and be on your merry way...write a review, or don't write one.  Done deal.

There is a difference, and it is significant. FYI.