Is there such a provider that you refuse to see because you're afraid afraid she might ruin the hobby for you?  

... why this is on the Newbie board. It seems like a general question to me.  

The best provider i have been with was so nice, beautiful and such a lady(but very sexual)  I had to remind myself afterwards its only a paid date. I had to keep telling myself you don't love her and you absolutely have NO chance with her without $$.

but I wouldn't swear to it. I think she is asking if there was a woman so fucking awesome you were scared that you'd throw rocks at the other hookers after seeing her?

and my answer would fall along the same lines as yours.

Whether "ruining" as a positive or negative context (as mentioned above) are you talking about a provider that the hobbyist has seen at least once? because otherwise how am I going to know the provider will "ruin" the hobby for me (either positively or negatively) if I have never seen her? purely based on reviews? on how the pics (photoshopped?) look? or how fancy her ad is? if I believe a provider will "ruin" my hobby without having seen her that will be pure conjecture and presumption only. And that would be silly.

H I L A R I O U S >

when throwing rocks. That's a good thing.
So is finding that amazing woman that makes  
you wanna toss a rock or too

I'd like to know.

Good one tho.  

...to the wiley ways of sex workers.

then met a dancer that did ruin it for all others. When she retired, I never went back. Good thing I discovered FBSM and FS. I can see finding that one perfect provider. It's easier for a hobbyist to settle down and say I found her and stick with a true ATF. Much harder for a provider who still has bills to pay.

He was unreal in bed and I broke it off after a few appointments because it felt like potential trouble. It wasn't romantic enough to be worth leaving work over, but too addictive sexually to not be disruptive. Some people aren't particularly gorgeous or brilliant, but when viewed through a filter of multiple O's, get built way up.

Too bad we don't see more of it!

There was nothing about Walt's post suggesting he was intolerant toward those holding different opinions. He just want's to know the truth and not be deceived that seems to be a problem
for you.  Secrets do have a way of coming out.

the providers that might answer the OP's question not to identify me by name.  Thank you.

have another one.  I wouldn't hang up your spurs until their both gone.

have enough money, many providers are willing to settle down with just one guy and not see anyone else.  Its called an exclusive arrangement.

I once heard about a lady who showed up at the door of her favorite client, and presented the abortion bill to his wife. I refused to see her.

The only providers I refuse to see are the ones that are too expensive.

You can live fine with one kidney and a partial liver. No big deal.

My interpretation of what you mean is whether I might develop feelings towards certain providers that would spoil the game going forward.  Answer to that is no...in fact, I rather enjoy becoming friends with some of the ladies I meet.

I said I'd CONSIDER it.

We're not taking a life and death matter here; it's better to have loved and lost and all that. Have that amazing experience and if/when it burns out, you'll always treasure the memories.

I am really new to this. 5 or 6 ladies in a few months. (for the 2nd time in my life) Problem is I was aiming for one and I fucked others to get to her. Once I got with her, she has been better than I expected. She is my atf and I have been seeing her about once a week. Had I not had such a great connection with her (we have done otc time together) I would probably have been with several other ladies. Now I am very selective, more than normal, and not really interested in others. I am not leaving my SO for her, but if I was unattached I would be tempted to be exclusive. I said all that to say she fucked up my hobbying. without here I would be shagging multiple girls, but now she is like my only one....for now

and love when that happens ... variety is always there when desired  ...  
but having a sex partner that gets you is the best.

I might have 2 or 3 favorites, but no one who would "ruin" all the others for me.  Variety is the spice of life.