I am officially a San Francisco resident. I have adjusted to the hills and the fog (mostly) but I need a primer on west coast group dynamics. Help me calibrate?

Lead time:
Does the Bay Area plan its debauchery like a board meeting or a startup pivot (spontaneously)? What is the ideal runway to ensure a full roster? Two months or two weeks?

Location:
What hotels offer the holy trinity of soundproofing, discretion, and suites large enough to accommodate a crowd? I need a venue that doesn't require elevator key access and turns an approving (or at least blind) eye to our proclivities.

Density:
A previous event involved 14 gentlemen, with a rotating cast of about 9 active participants in the room at peak intensity. Is there a local appetite for this kind of volume? More or less?  

Viagra:
A question of etiquette: Is there a graceful way to encourage the use of Viagra/Cialis beforehand? I really mean to say, is there a way to ask the question without causing insult or hurt feelings. This is a meaningful question generally, I think.
I appreciate your help, I really do.

West coast eccentricities:
Anything I missed, please pile on. I'm new to the bay.

Not sure what happened, but I think the best approach for Viagra/Cialis is to simply mention it with the other information about the event.  
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Maybe a statement like:
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If you need or use Viagra/Cialis, don't be ashamed!  Be sure to take it {insert here} minutes before to make sure you're good and ready for me!
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Keeps it fun and let's them know you're ok with them using it.  

I would love to participate if my schedule permits.  

I met a provider at the Embassy Suites by San Francisco Airport one time she had booked a suite it would definitively accommodate  your needs.

Great recommendation, thank you!

I host GBs weekly in the bay and have been for 3 years. I rotate between SF, Oakland, and SJ. I used to go to Sac, but attendance got unpredictable, and it's too much of a drive for a dud. I usually have 2-4 women and I cap the guys at 20 so the suite stays comfy. My events always reach capacity, with disappointed gentlemen who didn't RSVP in time. I have curated a group of 900+ interested guys. A lot of guys who wouldn't see a provider feel ok going to a party. So I would say that, yes, there is an appetite for it.  

I do have a list of venues- you can reach out to me if you'd like. I don't want to list my faves publicly- I'd hate to lose them for some reason. I already got asked not to return to a favorite hotel because I can be quite loud when I'm having a blast.

I DM'd you!

It’s happening! May 18th, San Francisco.  

We have 15 confirmed guests so far.  

I’m very excited about the number. What are your thoughts?

If anyone ever holds one in San Jose, I've always wanted to try this and I'd be up for it. I don't get to San Francisco often. I know some other ladies who would also love to attend. And welcome to the Bay area babe!

Thank you so much! Can you make it on the 13th of July?

You should be careful about who you invite to your events. Take a look at utrrose post history. She vouched for a provider heather who stole deposits, then refuses to take accountability, let alone understand why she should disavow or retract her approval.
http://www.theeroticreview.com/discussion-boards/san-francisco-11/i-vouch-for-heather--34545

Lol, You guys are so weird. I'm actually super rad. Thank you very much and a big part of this community. I have hosted gatherings and parties in the Bay area for many years now and have brought the community together and have kept a lot of women safe. I also run a chat room for our community and have lots of love and lots of friends who love me. I also have like a million reviews that state otherwise. When that post originally came out about Heather, I had literally just met her at a gathering in Sunnyvale. She was a total sweetheart and just a quirky fun girl. She also provided out of an apartment that a lot of my friends have used and was friends with my friends. We both also shared a regular, that regular who has also left me a review on TER adored her and saw her all the time with no issue. I had only heard great things about her. So when I saw a post asking about her, of course I wanted a root for her and show her love. I had not had any bad experiences or had heard any negative feedback about her. So why not show another lady in this business? Some love right? Whatever her behavior was after I left that post is none of my business. I don't know if things have changed with her, nor do I know anything about scamming people besides what I see bullies in here talking about. I did not scam you. Nor did I do anything wrong to you. I gave feedback about a woman I had met, from my perspective. I don't owe anybody an apology nor am I unsafe. The community I find here on TER Is the most negative in toxic environment. Every time I try to chime in or make a connection with someone on this site, it is always a negative experience. Every woman I talk to says they hate this site. It's because of men like you. Of course women don't want to hang out in a room full of meanies.  If you don't want to get scammed, don't give a deposit.

Yeah like it's fine they are talking about their differing experiences with a person, but for them to attack you like this is just weird. Lots of histrionic people online unfortunately, also most ppl have been robbed before and can focus on not letting scammers scam, but if you can't afford to get robbed periodically you can't afford to do this.