You don't have to respond why, but think.  
It is sickening!

generation coming up that thinks this is okay if you don't get caught, as evidenced by the fact that there is no remorse over scamming this woman on the part of the perp, but only concern about what might happen to HIM in retaliation.  

For me, the definition of "Integrity" is what you do when nobody's looking.  Follow that, and you will never find yourself in this kind of predicament.

Posts like that are why I spend very little time on the General Discussion board.  

Also, I don't for a second believe that this person has a "friend."  This is something he either did himself and he gets off on telling the world how "smart" he is, or he's making the whole thing up and he gets a rise out of stirring up shit on the boards.

General Discussion boards seems a little like an intellectual wasteland compared to the regional and topical boards.

Think of it as the Underground from our old dear departed site.  

I blame the menu system. It's clearly confusing and results in working as some type of filter limiting the less discerning to the the general discussions.

I also agreed that the guy "with a friend" needs a new one. Clearly needs to associate with better people or have better mentors/role models.

I responded on that board and I'll say the same thing here.  

As a provider, I don't accept any card without the activation receipt.  There's also a number on the back of the card you can call to be sure all the funds are there.  I also don't accept Green Dot Cards.

Are there any black list boards for the Sugar baby side of things?  I would black list a guy that did this to me.

Someone posted this on the other post but I'll repeat it: he may get off scott free from any of the girl's recriminations but one NEVER escapes the effects of doing shit like that. Whether it's just the general fear he seems to be living in, or some random retaliatory action visited upon him by the universe, he will pay for ripping that girl off.

To be honest, I speak from personal experience: haven't committed an act like that (financial honesty is something that comes naturally to me) but I've been less than honest with women in the past (to protect them, YES, BS) and I always was repaid with interest

if integrity is what you do when no one's looking, my right hand has tons of integrity!

the reason i spend so much time on the general discussion board is that it is way more active than any of the regional california boards.

i wish la, sd and sf (and orange county) had new and interesting topics popping up every hour or so.  but these days we are lucky if there's one new topic a day, and real lucky if it's something besides a "hey, i'm in the south bay on friday afternoon and i'm looking for a bbw milf who likes nuru slide, any takers?" kind of iso ad.

would love to keep my discussions on the regional boards.  on general discussion there are too many participants, of both sexes, both providers and customers, that seem to have huge disdain for the other side of the bed.  men who put down the women who are offering this service ("these stupid whores, what do you expect, they're just hookers lol!") or women who have huge disdain for the men they are with ("if you guys knew what providers really thought about you, you'd cry!  that's why i'm posting under an alias, i don't want my business to falter because of my opinions here!")

woah.  why would anyone be involved with a whole class of people they don't respect?  money?  geez, no matter  your job, if you hate it and are only doing it for money, you are wasting your life.  and imo if you are being physically intimate with people you hate just for money, you are wasting your soul.

if you gotta drink to do your job, get another job!

and men, if you continually pay to screw people that you disrespect, you don't respect yourself, either. you are only as good as your partners.  

consensual sex is an equation;  that is to say, the factors on one side are equal to, neither less than nor greater than, the factors on the other side.

kinda wandered far afield there, back to my original point:  too much hating going on with the general discussion board.  if we can get the regional boards going here in california, ter would be so much more entertaining.

...where I like to play or intend to visit to interact with other people who are more like me. I value hearing others' perspectives and I am quite open minded about learning new things and assimilating new attitudes based on this learning. But, as I have said before, the General Discussion board is filled with very unlikeable characters, every thread turns into the equivalent of a train wreck and nothing good can ever happen on that board. The only times I visit the GD board are when someone makes a specific reference to a thread on that board on a topic that piques my interest. Once I visit, I'm almost always disgusted at what I read and feel I need to shower afterward. It's gross and I'll continue to try and ignore the dark side that's represented on the GD board and focus on appreciating those who engage in a positive manner on the regional boards.

I'm glad I'm not the only one with a disdain for the General Discussion board. Y'all over here in SF regional seem so much kinder!

If TER is the underbelly, then General discussion is the underbelly of the underbelly. Basically it is just five people who have countless Alias IDs and think they own the board.