the reason i spend so much time on the general discussion board is that it is way more active than any of the regional california boards.
i wish la, sd and sf (and orange county) had new and interesting topics popping up every hour or so. but these days we are lucky if there's one new topic a day, and real lucky if it's something besides a "hey, i'm in the south bay on friday afternoon and i'm looking for a bbw milf who likes nuru slide, any takers?" kind of iso ad.
would love to keep my discussions on the regional boards. on general discussion there are too many participants, of both sexes, both providers and customers, that seem to have huge disdain for the other side of the bed. men who put down the women who are offering this service ("these stupid whores, what do you expect, they're just hookers lol!") or women who have huge disdain for the men they are with ("if you guys knew what providers really thought about you, you'd cry! that's why i'm posting under an alias, i don't want my business to falter because of my opinions here!")
woah. why would anyone be involved with a whole class of people they don't respect? money? geez, no matter your job, if you hate it and are only doing it for money, you are wasting your life. and imo if you are being physically intimate with people you hate just for money, you are wasting your soul.
if you gotta drink to do your job, get another job!
and men, if you continually pay to screw people that you disrespect, you don't respect yourself, either. you are only as good as your partners.
consensual sex is an equation; that is to say, the factors on one side are equal to, neither less than nor greater than, the factors on the other side.
kinda wandered far afield there, back to my original point: too much hating going on with the general discussion board. if we can get the regional boards going here in california, ter would be so much more entertaining.
