: San Diego Discussion : Re: Not always ...

J.APPLESEED 48 Reviews 685 reads

posted 13 years ago

1 / 12

For the ladies,

How do you deal with guys who smother you with e-mails and text messages that go no where. I had lunch with one of my top ATF and she clued me in on how she gets these messages from guys who claim to want to see her but back out at the last minute or jerk her around. Which begs the question: How do you deal with it? Do you ignore the calls? Do you confront them and in the process, allow some stranger to get under your skin and ruin your day? Or do you simply ignore such messages and delete them? It's such a shame that a lady would have to deal with such immature behavior. I guess it goes with the territory. Such a shame.

J.A.

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 417 reads

posted 13 years ago

2 / 12

Trolls & Time Wasters Are The Worst By Far!

I tell them directly, do not continue to text me if I have not seen you in over a year, or two. I take back my whitelisted, and I ignore some members here on TER for being obvious trolls on theses boards. If you have not hobbied this year & post all day long get a life. If you do not have the $ to hobby please do not haggle, or contact a provider asking for a quickly, or a discounted rate because your, so hot! Lmfao!

Get it together. I require a 50% deposit to book & reservations for great reasons my TER friends. Pick a provider who suits your needs.

Posted By: J.APPLESEED

For the ladies,

How do you deal with guys who smother you with e-mails and text messages that go no where. I had lunch with one of my top ATF and she clued me in on how she gets these messages from guys who claim to want to see her but back out at the last minute or jerk her around. Which begs the question: How do you deal with it? Do you ignore the calls? Do you confront them and in the process, allow some stranger to get under your skin and ruin your day? Or do you simply ignore such messages and delete them? It's such a shame that a lady would have to deal with such immature behavior. I guess it goes with the territory. Such a shame.

J.A.

MSON123 44 Reviews 339 reads

posted 13 years ago

3 / 12

The other side

There is a flip side to the story.. What about ladies who do not respond to your inquiries? Do you send more than one? Was your txt/email/voicemail lost? Or ignored?...

Or how about the ladies where you go through the screening process and then no contact for the date?
For guys it is easy just move on..

Why can't we all show some courtesy

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 364 reads

posted 13 years ago

4 / 12

Common Courtesy! Yes indeed I respect everyone's time. Eom

END OF MESSAGE

ClairJordan See my TER Reviews 374 reads

posted 13 years ago

5 / 12

You learn how to cut and run very quickly.

Annoying, but a negative you gotta learn to control,and just let go when things go south.
A deposit cures all! Shows they are serious.

Raoul.Duke 407 reads

posted 13 years ago

6 / 12

Trolls lol.

It's nice to know what the ladies really think about us.

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 327 reads

posted 13 years ago

7 / 12

Lol exactly & why use an alias if we already know who you are?

To much bs.

montybb 320 reads

posted 13 years ago

8 / 12

Not always ...

...what, or the way it, seems, nor "always" a waste of time. There are circumstances in some cases that can't be overcome. But, you are right, there are or should be limits. The time spent or invested should be appreciated / rewarded. I have rewarded the time invested and spent, given my own circumstance. It comes down to reading the person, hopefully being able to pick those who are "real" vs those who are just wasting time. Recently (last week) I had this same conversation, her comment was, "some of these guys should pay me for the time I spend just talking, but understand that some of them, that's all they need is to just talk".

JessicaSweden See my TER Reviews 337 reads

posted 13 years ago

9 / 12

Re: The other side

They probably do not respond because they get swomped in text and emails from timewasters wanting to say hello or asking what I am wearing....last months I got 3729 text alone...they were not all people wanting to book me...I would be rich

Guys shape up and only text when you want to book. I want to have time with my kids and do a lot other fun things besides texting.

xox Jessica

Posted By: SampleTaster

There is a flip side to the story.. What about ladies who do not respond to your inquiries? Do you send more than one? Was your txt/email/voicemail lost? Or ignored?...

Or how about the ladies where you go through the screening process and then no contact for the date?
For guys it is easy just move on..

Why can't we all show some courtesy?