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montybb 320 reads
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...what, or the way it, seems, nor "always" a waste of time.  There are circumstances in some cases that can't be overcome.  But, you are right, there are or should be limits.  The time spent or invested should be appreciated / rewarded.  I have rewarded the time invested and spent, given my own circumstance.  It comes down to reading the person, hopefully being able to pick those who are "real" vs those who are just wasting time.  Recently (last week) I had this same conversation, her comment was, "some of these guys should pay me for the time I spend just talking, but understand that some of them, that's all they need is to just talk".

J.APPLESEED687 reads

For the ladies,

How do you deal with guys who smother you with e-mails and text messages that go no where. I had lunch with one of my top ATF and she clued me in on how she gets these messages from guys who claim to want to see her but back out at the last minute or jerk her around. Which begs the question: How do you deal with it? Do you ignore the calls? Do you confront them and in the process, allow some stranger to get under your skin and ruin your day? Or do you simply ignore such messages and delete them? It's such a shame that a lady would have to deal with such immature behavior.  I guess it goes with the territory. Such a shame.  

J.A.

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QueenBia417 reads

I tell them directly, do not continue to text me if I have not seen you in over a year, or two.  I take back my whitelisted, and I ignore some members here on TER for being obvious trolls on theses boards.  If you have not hobbied this year & post all day long get a life.  If you do not have the $ to hobby please do not haggle, or contact a provider asking for a quickly, or a discounted rate because your, so hot!  Lmfao!

Get it together. I require a 50% deposit to book & reservations for great reasons my TER friends.  Pick a provider who suits your needs.

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For the ladies,  
   
 How do you deal with guys who smother you with e-mails and text messages that go no where. I had lunch with one of my top ATF and she clued me in on how she gets these messages from guys who claim to want to see her but back out at the last minute or jerk her around. Which begs the question: How do you deal with it? Do you ignore the calls? Do you confront them and in the process, allow some stranger to get under your skin and ruin your day? Or do you simply ignore such messages and delete them? It's such a shame that a lady would have to deal with such immature behavior.  I guess it goes with the territory. Such a shame.  
   
 J.A.

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MSON123339 reads

There is a flip side to the story.. What about ladies who do not respond to your inquiries? Do you send more than one? Was your txt/email/voicemail lost?  Or ignored?...  

Or how about the ladies where you go through the screening process and then no contact for the date?  
For guys it is easy just move on..  

Why can't we all show some courtesy

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JessicaSweden337 reads

They probably do not respond because they get swomped in text and emails from timewasters wanting to say hello or asking what I am wearing....last months I got 3729 text alone...they were not all people wanting to book me...I would be rich ;)

Guys shape up and only text when you want to book. I want to have time with my kids and do a lot other fun things besides texting.

xox Jessica

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There is a flip side to the story.. What about ladies who do not respond to your inquiries? Do you send more than one? Was your txt/email/voicemail lost?  Or ignored?...  
   
 Or how about the ladies where you go through the screening process and then no contact for the date?  
 For guys it is easy just move on..  
   
 Why can't we all show some courtesy?  
 
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J.APPLESEED293 reads

I agree with you. You must have some family time and me tine. Otherwise, you'll be on the fast track to burn out city.

J.A.

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ClairJordan374 reads

Annoying, but a negative you gotta learn to control,and just let go when things go south.
A deposit cures all!  Shows they are serious.

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Raoul.Duke407 reads

It's nice to know what the ladies really think about us.

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QueenBia327 reads

To much bs.

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montybb321 reads

...what, or the way it, seems, nor "always" a waste of time.  There are circumstances in some cases that can't be overcome.  But, you are right, there are or should be limits.  The time spent or invested should be appreciated / rewarded.  I have rewarded the time invested and spent, given my own circumstance.  It comes down to reading the person, hopefully being able to pick those who are "real" vs those who are just wasting time.  Recently (last week) I had this same conversation, her comment was, "some of these guys should pay me for the time I spend just talking, but understand that some of them, that's all they need is to just talk".

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JessicaSweden296 reads

....that is why I started a chatline so people understand to call there if they just want to talk...there are so many of those...or I get less call from them to my regular phone because they know I will just tell them to call my chatline. It saves me sooo much time.

xox Jessica

Related Link: http://www.swedishredhead.com

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J.APPLESEED338 reads

smart thinking to provide an outlet for those who just want to talk.

J.A.

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