Hey guys,

Another SDExotics.Com ripoff...this site has more and more scams than ever before...beware of a lady named "Shannon" under the Brunette section...first of all that is not the lady in the picture because it is an agency...the ad claims "Independent escort, no driver, no agency, no hassles". Their phone number is 619-270-9111. The girl shows up and asks for $250 and says oh yeah I'm an independent then once she is through the day proceeds to ask for more money then pulls the ole' well I'm really with an agency and if you want me to get naked it will cost you alot more.  The girl they sent is 19yrs, tall (5'9"), beautiful light-skinned black lady (looks like a young Vanessa Williams), claims she has a twin sister (from San Diego). Beware, total rip off!!!  To this agency: What goes around comes around...

why do you guys keep going to places like SDX and Eros, and Craiglist with all the problems??? ROBS, LE...etc.?

It's like you're just asking for problems! With all the good info on TER, why keep going there?

Because the rush of having a random beautiful woman show up at your door and blow your mind is worth the risk......occasionally.

The information on TER is second hand... Guys that don't read the advertisement that I spent my money on and my time writing aren't going to know what I'm looking for in a date.

As a matter of fact, I've spent most of the week dodging lazies that didn't take the time to read my advertisement and only took the time to read TER.  

That's not going to get a guy even a sweet response from me.  What it will get is a bitchy, short, why didn't you even take the time to look at my advertisement and digest the information there before picking up the phone or emailing me and wasting my time?

I don't have the time nor the patience to be communicating 5, 6 and 7 times each with a guy in order to just get the basics covered (Verification Queen Here!) for a simple 1-1/2 hour date.  Keep in mind, I might get 50-100 requests in a week and I've got school, family and a LIFE!  Barely time to squeeze in one or two dates a week!

So, Long story short, they need to read Eros to get the basics about me, and several other nice ladies that advertise there.  Just learn to read the properties line and it's simple as pie to distinguish between the bad girls and the good ones.

Thanks, Sedona, for that opportunity to do a little "vent".

xoxo
Elise

I am surprised you see ANY clients with that much angst! Afterall you are paying good money to, oh wait, that's right, hey, they are paying YOU!!  The nerve of those bastards!

Second!

I've been lurking on this board for some time, this is my first post.  Only a few experiences with providers.

I had a similar experience with this rip-off artist about a month ago.  Description is accurate, a very slim young lady who seems legit upon first meeting.  She went by the name of "Jordan" and had a small cheesy-looking blue panther tattoo on the small of her back.

Long story short, after we both disrobed, she acted shocked that I expected FS and the date ended very abruptly with a "heated discussion", to say the least.  

Jordan should be thankful that I'm not a violent person, but she is really going to get herself in trouble someday...

STAY AWAY FROM THIS ONE !!!

Much rather thin the herd out here.  Life's just too short & studies are WAY too demanding.

Nobody's ever accused me of being a shrinking violet. ;P

You want your women to shut up and bend over... move along, baby.  Although, I have done that role play, come to think of it. *winks*

SMOOOOOCH
Elise

I personally have NO claims whatsoever against your service. I was rubbed the wrong way by what I perceived as arrogance in your post. Some of us clients PAY TER to be a member and do not submit reviews for various reasons.  I prefer a woman who is intelligent and shows it, regardless of what you may have perceived in my comical post. Clients and providers each have their own agendas and neither is more important than the other.  The lifeblood of your business is the same as any other business: MONEY.  The money comes from us clients and that should be noted mentally by the providers before they post on TER and possibly alienate any cross-section thereof.  Not good for business. By the way, I totally disagree with the person who wrote you that letter telling you to "shut up" that you posted about. I would much rather engage you in discussion to get my point across. Also I like the way you say what you feel, I do the same. I like the cut of your jib!  

I would imagine there are reputable providers on exotics and
eros but they need to be verified.  The percentage of bad
players on those sites has got to be large.

On the right coast, CL is just bottom fishing.

fr

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her tongue may be sharp as a razor, but no one can doubt her sharp intellect and insight. I doubt if she panders for mere simple coinage as her real forte is the intellectual conquest. Go, Elise! Knock them dead with your brain power! They are too slow to fully appreciate your intellegence.

I don't have a business license, not an escort, don't have anything to sell like time or any of that.. so.. THAT is why a guy needs to go to EROS and read my advertisement and digest the wording there.

I don't really care who I alienate, because I wouldn't want to date that guy in any case.  Ahhh the freedom of it all!

I date, I accept gifts.  Maybe four dates in a month, Maybe a couple less, Maybe a couple more.  I'm doing the graduate school thing.  Sometimes I want to take a trip out of town or my car needs a brake job and guys like to help me out.  No crime in that.

I do this as kind of a little dating service.  Why the escort advertisements?  Because it's a VERY good way to keep the boundaries and to meet extremely interesting men that want short dates in the fashion that I want~~ short dates. And when the date is over, I don't need to worry about stalker boy calling me up or following me home, or thinking that I love him.

So... you perceive arrogance, when all I was trying to do was answer Sedona's question that a guy needs to do more than read the information that's here on TER IF he wants to date ME.  If you had read all the words you would have seen the "THANKS to Sedona" at the end for allowing me a small vent

BTW.. I find the word BASTARD to be hugely offensive.  Talk about rubbing someone the wrong way.  Just a suggestion, find a different slur to use when you're trying to be "comical".  My best friend is adopted and I admit it wasn't until I found out that I took that word out of my vocabulary.  (I would have preferred to send this entire post to you via PM, but you're using an alias.. so... I'm unable)

You may be against this, that's fine.

And YES, TER is great for confirming who is a RIPOFF, and these discussion boards, if you keep up with them are a GOLDMINE of information, especially if you are diligent and make some careful friendships..... the backchannel information can't be beat!

Most of my little sarcastic "rub the cat the wrong way" posts are written with my tongue firmly planted in my cheek.  It's the way most of the DB's that I go to function.  I'll admit I don't go to needlepoint boards, but I do go to The Stearman Restorer's board and those guys/gals will duke it out about a fitting just as intensely as we go on about.. well handing out info to an unknown.  The organic gardening chat.. well you'd better wear your steel plated armor if you plan on going in there.  Talk about cliques!

You've got to understand that the written word just doesn't come across the same way a voice would, with inflections and facial expressions.  I'm a fairly caring person... in person.  I also LOVE a good laugh.  

I type pointedly, if you perceive that as arrogance, so be it.  I feel fat(look at my pictures), messy, and I don't shave my legs unless I have a date, because I'm doing my studies online.  (I do have wonderfully pedicured toenails!!)

I'm rather literal minded but that's me.  I'm honest and loyal to a fault.  Lie to me once, I'll burn the bridge for life.  Talk Crud about a friend of mine and suffer the wrath of E.

Bottom line, people here do care and will look out for your best interest and there's no way in the world we're dysfunctional as some would have the new and uninformed believe.  I believe we're running like a well oiled machine.

Now I need to go and live my life, so you all have a safe and fun and happy Father's day and all of that.  

I'm turning my computer off for a couple of days.

xoxo
Elise

Elise,
First of all I concluded you were an intelligent woman after reading your initial post. My words against that person who sent you that letter should have made that clear to anyone who may have thought otherwise, but I was not a journalism major so I can't really say for sure. You are absolutely right to point out the lack of intent or tone in the written word as opposed to conversation. My words were also misconstrued.
 I understand the drain of graduate school all too well, I went through that same grind 15 years ago and it helped me retire a couple years ago in my early 40s.
 I appreciate that you wanted to send me a private message, I use the alias as my name is well known on TER and TBD and I know that blacklists do exist out there in the world of hobbyists.  Forgive me for being careful.
 The word "bastard" is not a slur to me as I happen to be a person born into that situation.  I am thicker-skinned than your friend and have been called that all my life, it doesn't faze me. I am not belittling your friend's feelings, just expressing my own attachment to the word and its true meaning.
 This reply is not meant to incite any further hostile reactions or misunderstandings, it is made as a courtesy to you as I offended you with my initial post and most likely the subsequent post as well. Tongue in cheek is my forte in writing as well, evidenced by my Chris Farley reference that a knowledgeable hobbyist noted. Take care and good fortunes to you toward that degree. All the best

Sleepless in Seattle     (well after tomorrow anyway)

...but my question to your arogant a*s is, whenever do you have the time to 'do the Masters thing' when you are constantly posting on this board and others all over the US?  Just a small question from one of the less learned...

All of my studies are pretty much net based. There are many accredited Universities that offer distance learning programs.

As with any University it's more about hoop jumping than learning.

Arrogant ass? LOLOL Good one.

My question to you is why are you afraid to come out with your regular alias?

xoxo
Elise