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Re: Quality over quantity...
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I know right? ;)

Forgive me if this has been discussed before but how do you men assemble your bucket list (aka your to-do-list). Do you just keep adding ladies, in no particular order, and select your next one randomly? Like picking a folded piece of paper out of a hat? Or do you methodically knock them off a list, one at a time, starting from the bottom of the list? What determines her qualifications to even make it to your bucket list in the first place? I can only imagine it's something akin to being in a candy store. I want that one...and that one...and that one...OMG that one too! What an awful task you guys carry lol

Just curious!  

Me? I'd want the entire candy store, in no particular order :)

xoxo!

The candy store analogy is a good one. There are so many wonderful ladies here it is very hard to chose. For me it has a lot to do with the marketing. I do keep a list of ladies that are "possibles" that come from the reviews. I know what I like and look for those things in reviews as I read them. If the lady being reviewed delivers those services at a reasonable price point then they make the list. One of the things on the top of my list is compatibility. I couldn't possibly do the 15 minute or half hour specials. I am not a "wham, bam thank you mam" kind of guy. I want to make a connection with the lady before getting too far into the date or it is just sex and that doesn't work for me. May be old fashioned but that is me! If the big head isn't stimulated the little head doesn't cooperate very well.

How do you predetermine if the compatibility is there? Solely from reviews? Does website content matter on a lady's website?

 I personally like to see if the compatibility is there beforehand as well....and can usually get an ok sense of what a guy is like by looking at his reviews and at his P411 profile, if that's available. Sometimes I'll get a response from a lady, after I've requested a reference from her, and she will tell me something about the guy that puts me at ease. Reviews are a very helpful tool for me. I look for intellect and a good sense of humor. I avoid the guys who are chronically displeased with the world and all it has to offer

Compatibility is really difficult to predetermine. You can get a sense of how a woman acts by reading the reviews but you really don't know the reviewers so that can taint the perspective. It takes 2 to make compatibility and it is human nature that every pairing is going to be different. I have seen ladies with excellent reviews and had a not so excellent time. Nothing that would keep me from trying again. In the end it is a calculated risk but the excitement is always there in meeting someone new and when it clicks it is well worth the risk.

However, I do tend to get a bit apprehensive when meeting a new guy. It takes me awhile to warm up to idea of meeting someone new. But like you said, when he turns out to be fabulous it is well worth the risk. I think it's harder for guys to get an idea of what to expect, chemistry-wise, from reading a lady's reviews. Whereas, us ladies can learn a whole lot by reading a guy's reviews.

First off, I love asian women and your on my bucket list. For me it's more about the quality. When I started in the hobby, it was just girls that were willing to see me. I took so many risks and gladly haven't suffered the consequences. But now I see quality girls if possible. But for me, and I'll catch ALOT of flack from it, I don't have a taste for the Blonde, DD-cup, White girl. I like exotic women from all walks of life. But my list is short due to lack of funds for now. But like a wise man once said, Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

but it only held 150 escort names back then. I ran out of room while using the list, so I realized it was ridiculous for me to even have a list.  BTW, there is no method to my madness of selecting whom I'm going to see next.  I have seen you, and that was a great decision.

Forgive me if this has been discussed before but how do you men assemble your bucket list (aka your to-do-list). Do you just keep adding ladies, in no particular order, and select your next one randomly? Like picking a folded piece of paper out of a hat? Or do you methodically knock them off a list, one at a time, starting from the bottom of the list? What determines her qualifications to even make it to your bucket list in the first place? I can only imagine it's something akin to being in a candy store. I want that one...and that one...and that one...OMG that one too! What an awful task you guys carry lol  
   
 Just curious!  
   
 Me? I'd want the entire candy store, in no particular order :)  
   
 xoxo!

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It's easier for you to keep a list of who you've seen already lol Should you ever have a weak moment and decide to repeat..you know where to find me! xoxo

...I'll start off by saying that you, Akiya, are on my Wishlist. You have been highly recommended by a couple of local ladies who, when asked who they'd like to do doubles with, they enthusiastically call out your name. I keep Wishlists on TER favorites, P411 Favorites (which lets you categorize favorite providers by city) and Microsoft OneNote. You're right in that I often randomly choose who I'm going to ask for a date almost by closing my eyes and pointing to a name on my list. There are so many women on my Phoenix Wishlist and I can't prioritize them. It helps when a woman flirts with me on the boards or sends me a PM. Recently a woman who is on my Wishlist PM'd me telling me she is seeking new quality clientele and I promised her I'd move her to the top of my Phoenix Wishlist and I will follow thru with that promise. So, being active on the boards and flirting with the gents I believe is highly recommended to draw more business to you, if that's what you desire.

by the looks of the caliber of ladies you have reviewed. Especially Mya....she was my first and last strap-on recipient (it was HOT!)  Go ahead and ask her if she enjoyed it! lol!

Since I started this hobby a little over a year and a half ago and because of my age, I'm not thinking about too much experimenting. I prefer quality (in my opinion) rather than quantity. I check the reviews here in TER  other review boards and then what is offered by the lady and the compensation for our time together.  I may even ask one or 2 of my ATF if they think I would be happy meeting with the lady of interest. This has worked for me. In fact, when my second provider decided to retire she introduced me to a lovely woman, who retired after a few torrid (for me lol) and wonderful months to a couple of outstanding ladies. I can very honestly say I have yet to be disappointed in the very least with any of my encounters.  
There are some outstanding participants in this hobby. Keep up the good work ladies.

You have exquisite taste....I know 3 of the ladies you've reviewed and ALL qualify as HOTTTTT. You and I are friends by association :)

LOL, I'm glad to hear that my friend. It may not surprise you to know all 3 of them speak nothing but praise of you too. Just between you and me (plus all of TER) you have been on my A list or in your case my  tea cup list should be revised to 34B cup list LOL. Let me know when you will be coming to Tucson

Akiya, I am honored to be your friend by association and I hope sometime we can make it more personal!  You have been on my favorite list for a long time.  

 


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I might be changing that 34B to a 34DD soon! I'm still weighing out the pros and cons lol.......as for Tucson,  I'm there weekly!

LOL, there's a lot of that way of changing things going around lately.

Posted By: akiya
I might be changing that 34B to a 34DD soon! I'm still weighing out the pros and cons lol.......as for Tucson,  I'm there weekly!

RE: as for Tucson. I sent you a private message about when you come to Tucson. I'd love to see you some time.

but you are high on my list in the coming year. Why?
You have exceptional reviews, you were extremely courteous when I inquired as well as when I was unable to meet, you are well organized and efficient regarding arrangements, and you are extremely attractive!  
Nothing methodical, lots of inspiration, and a roll of the dice, I guess. But I've got to confess: I don't look at any one with reviews below 7.
Admittedly I also like a woman with whom I can go out to dinner, a woman with whom I can talk freely, and a woman who can relax.  
You impress me as all of the above ;-

I would imagine pictures do most of the inspiring, on her behalf? Men are so so so visual, I'm reminded of this daily. It's oh-so fun to put a sway in my walk when I know a man is watching. Or to bite my lower lip. The reactions are priceless and immensely gratifying, especially for someone as sensual as I am. Attraction is primal and instinctive. You can resist it, but you can't deny its existence ;)  

Hoping to meet you in Tucson soon xoxo



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OK! That is a picture by itself! You are talking animal brain, and it is soooo basic. But the words and how you form them are basic too. Women talk, but some of you speak to men much more effectively than other women. You certainly know how to speak with both body language as well as words.

I'm wondering whether we might spend more time at the dinner table than on dessert! Damn!

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