...I'll start off by saying that you, Akiya, are on my Wishlist. You have been highly recommended by a couple of local ladies who, when asked who they'd like to do doubles with, they enthusiastically call out your name. I keep Wishlists on TER favorites, P411 Favorites (which lets you categorize favorite providers by city) and Microsoft OneNote. You're right in that I often randomly choose who I'm going to ask for a date almost by closing my eyes and pointing to a name on my list. There are so many women on my Phoenix Wishlist and I can't prioritize them. It helps when a woman flirts with me on the boards or sends me a PM. Recently a woman who is on my Wishlist PM'd me telling me she is seeking new quality clientele and I promised her I'd move her to the top of my Phoenix Wishlist and I will follow thru with that promise. So, being active on the boards and flirting with the gents I believe is highly recommended to draw more business to you, if that's what you desire.

Since I started this hobby a little over a year and a half ago and because of my age, I'm not thinking about too much experimenting. I prefer quality (in my opinion) rather than quantity. I check the reviews here in TER  other review boards and then what is offered by the lady and the compensation for our time together.  I may even ask one or 2 of my ATF if they think I would be happy meeting with the lady of interest. This has worked for me. In fact, when my second provider decided to retire she introduced me to a lovely woman, who retired after a few torrid (for me lol) and wonderful months to a couple of outstanding ladies. I can very honestly say I have yet to be disappointed in the very least with any of my encounters.  
There are some outstanding participants in this hobby. Keep up the good work ladies.

How do you predetermine if the compatibility is there? Solely from reviews? Does website content matter on a lady's website?

It's easier for you to keep a list of who you've seen already lol Should you ever have a weak moment and decide to repeat..you know where to find me! xoxo

by the looks of the caliber of ladies you have reviewed. Especially Mya....she was my first and last strap-on recipient (it was HOT!)  Go ahead and ask her if she enjoyed it! lol!

You have exquisite taste....I know 3 of the ladies you've reviewed and ALL qualify as HOTTTTT. You and I are friends by association

LOL, I'm glad to hear that my friend. It may not surprise you to know all 3 of them speak nothing but praise of you too. Just between you and me (plus all of TER) you have been on my A list or in your case my  tea cup list should be revised to 34B cup list LOL. Let me know when you will be coming to Tucson

Akiya, I am honored to be your friend by association and I hope sometime we can make it more personal!  You have been on my favorite list for a long time.  

I might be changing that 34B to a 34DD soon! I'm still weighing out the pros and cons lol.......as for Tucson,  I'm there weekly!

but you are high on my list in the coming year. Why?
You have exceptional reviews, you were extremely courteous when I inquired as well as when I was unable to meet, you are well organized and efficient regarding arrangements, and you are extremely attractive!  
Nothing methodical, lots of inspiration, and a roll of the dice, I guess. But I've got to confess: I don't look at any one with reviews below 7.
Admittedly I also like a woman with whom I can go out to dinner, a woman with whom I can talk freely, and a woman who can relax.  
You impress me as all of the above ;-

I would imagine pictures do most of the inspiring, on her behalf? Men are so so so visual, I'm reminded of this daily. It's oh-so fun to put a sway in my walk when I know a man is watching. Or to bite my lower lip. The reactions are priceless and immensely gratifying, especially for someone as sensual as I am. Attraction is primal and instinctive. You can resist it, but you can't deny its existence  

OK! That is a picture by itself! You are talking animal brain, and it is soooo basic. But the words and how you form them are basic too. Women talk, but some of you speak to men much more effectively than other women. You certainly know how to speak with both body language as well as words.

LOL, there's a lot of that way of changing things going around lately.

Compatibility is really difficult to predetermine. You can get a sense of how a woman acts by reading the reviews but you really don't know the reviewers so that can taint the perspective. It takes 2 to make compatibility and it is human nature that every pairing is going to be different. I have seen ladies with excellent reviews and had a not so excellent time. Nothing that would keep me from trying again. In the end it is a calculated risk but the excitement is always there in meeting someone new and when it clicks it is well worth the risk.

RE: as for Tucson. I sent you a private message about when you come to Tucson. I'd love to see you some time.

However, I do tend to get a bit apprehensive when meeting a new guy. It takes me awhile to warm up to idea of meeting someone new. But like you said, when he turns out to be fabulous it is well worth the risk. I think it's harder for guys to get an idea of what to expect, chemistry-wise, from reading a lady's reviews. Whereas, us ladies can learn a whole lot by reading a guy's reviews.

Nothing like mental stimulation! Nothing!

I know right?