I'm wondering why all providers use the terms of endearment. Hun, Babe, Lover etc. Is it so they don't mistake Dave, for Bill or Tom for Sean. If providers are wanting to make a real connection and get to know the guys paying there wages, wouldn't you think they would call you buy your name. Just a thought !
....... I would be able to tell what a woman, let alone a sex worker would be thinking. Let alone try to tell her how she should think.
Just me.
I’m 1 of those girls 😂
I was raised in MN and grew up in a family where we called ppl we care about those types of names. If I use even my kids rl names besides an endearing name they think they r in trouble. So, for me, when I call anyone in any area of my life sweetheart, sweetie etc...it simply means that I really like and enjoy them (even if I haven’t met them) If I’m calling anyone only by their 1st names it’s probably a date that won’t happen.
I gotta agree with my buddy Mick here... I could write everything I think I understand about how and why women think the way they do on a post-it note. Which would be a good place for it because it changes about every week anyways.
Why do some of them have "donation: ask me" on their 411 and then get bent out of shape when you do because "it's right there on my website"?
How exactly does the posi-traction in the rear end of a Plymouth work?
I will say that a lot of providers do what you're talking about, but it certainly isn't all. I've known several to use my first name in person and text, though it certainly is not the norm. It is sexy. A provider was saying my name while she was having an orgasm just last night. She even said the right name and everything!
LoL. My grampa used to say if it's true, it ain't bragging. I didn't even say how many orgasms she had lol. I'm no stud, women have faked for me, but if this one was faking, then I'm Elvis Presley. She was a lot of fun.
I've developed a distaste for writing reviews and pretty much only do so if I'm asked.
You just became infinitely more appealing to a bunch of ladies with that statement I’m guessing!
Xxx
LoL. My grampa used to say if it's true, it ain't bragging. I didn't even say how many orgasms she had lol. I'm no stud, women have faked for me, but if this one was faking, then I'm Elvis Presley. She was a lot of fun.
I've developed a distaste for writing reviews and pretty much only do so if I'm asked.
Haha! I actually never thought of that, but maybe so. A bunch of ladies I've met know I'm fearghas, but not long ago I decided to start trying to keep that separate. (Possibly a lost cause) Some things you bring up in your advice thread are some of my reasons. Even though I score too high.
And yup, this board has been a better place lately. I like it.
Oh and I'm not silly. I'm just a goofball. Everybody knows that.😝
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“She even said the right name and everything” ❤️
So silly babe! 😜
And Might I add...the overall tone of the posts on the board is improving. Makes me smile.
Xxx
I gotta agree with my buddy Mick here... I could write everything I think I understand about how and why women think the way they do on a post-it note. Which would be a good place for it because it changes about every week anyways.
Why do some of them have "donation: ask me" on their 411 and then get bent out of shape when you do because "it's right there on my website"?
How exactly does the posi-traction in the rear end of a Plymouth work?
I will say that a lot of providers do what you're talking about, but it certainly isn't all. I've known several to use my first name in person and text, though it certainly is not the norm. It is sexy. A provider was saying my name while she was having an orgasm just last night. She even said the right name and everything!
The follow is not uncommon:
TER name Jimmy25
P411 name Steve blah blah
Email name Scottxyz at xyz dot com
Contact form name jeff
SIgns his messages as Frank
We can call you generic name, or fucking dumbass......you just have to tells us what you prefer. We cannot read your mind. Your pursuit of remain anonymous makes it difficult sometimes. We can also try guess but that could disaster. Obviously this does not apply to the few who use same name all around. But when guy screens with 5 different first name its better than guess which is real.
Christine
Just go with fucking dumbass! You're hot enough to get away with it. You make a good point. Maybe that's why several actually use my name, because I always use the same first name.
The follow is not uncommon:
TER name Jimmy25
P411 name Steve blah blah
Email name Scottxyz at xyz dot com
Contact form name jeff
SIgns his messages as Frank
We can call you generic name, or fucking dumbass......you just have to tells us what you prefer. We cannot read your mind. Your pursuit of remain anonymous makes it difficult sometimes. We can also try guess but that could disaster. Obviously this does not apply to the few who use same name all around. But when guy screens with 5 different first name its better than guess which is real.
Christine
kali_gail3 Says:
I was raised in MN and grew up in a family where we called ppl we care about those types of names. If I use even my kids rl names besides an endearing name they think they r in trouble. So, for me, when I call anyone in any area of my life sweetheart, sweetie etc...it simply means that I really like and enjoy them (even if I haven’t met them) If I’m calling anyone only by their 1st names it’s probably a date that won’t happen.
Dave replies:
Hmm, wonder if your family is more German than MN Nice Scandinavians? I grew up until age 40's in Mpls area - Edina, Richfield St. Louis Park- and never heard these terms of endearment just first names.
None of those sweet terms are included in:
WCCO's 10 Minnesota Words & Phrases ASG Visitors Should Know
Minnesota's favorite terms of endearment - GoMN (pal and old pal etc)
Seems to be more German süsse/süsser- vs. conservative with less emotion that "Minnesota nice" is known for.
Shirley Crash Smith-Tillman · University of Minnesota Duluth said: "sweetie or hon or any terms of endearment is just plain creepy.... finally after Two years of going to the same Mickey D’s, I am more comfortable with the same lady called me Hon.... Of course I won’t get mad at anyone (Minnesota nice...), but truly creepy."
Since I am always Dave and not use to such terms "sweetie" is more offensive like flirting vs more serious that respects women vs flirting
I will now duck into a trench to avoid the fire that may come!
Idk why ud duck Lol. I was raised how I was raised. I love my family and I’m very proud of them regardless of others opinions, and everyone is entitled to their opinions. U claimed MN is nice, I didn’t. I do think mid western ppl are extremely nice folks, overall. There’s the good, the bad, and the ugly everywhere. And ur right about being German. My moms side (who I was raised by) was German and Norwegian and my dads side French and Italian. I was raised in the northern part of MN in a small town (I’m not sure why it’d matter but I’ll share) And not in a large city. A lot of my elder family members were hard working, honest and respectable farmers. IMO there is no right or wrong on this, just difference of opinion. So no need 2 duck into the drenches ❤️
...... as she came would use her term of endearment that I still believe she saved for me.(Maybe yes, maybe no)
She would look me in the eyes and yell.....
"You FUCK!"
Damn I miss her.
I was just reacting to your MN related post that implied its common, that is all. BTW in case some didn't get it, "Mn Nice" is not about Mn being nice but the attitude of not showing emotion but being polite even if disagree. It is sort of the opposite of using the terms of endearment. Oh boy is more Minnesota culture than Hun, Babe etc , language I would never use.
Some German heritage in rural Northern MN may be very different than in "the cities". Old memories Bear Island Resort near Babbit and had relatives near the top of the hill in Duluth.
Warm thoughts from Phoenix to anyone reading from MN. Burrrr.. That is why I left for Phoenix, where I can stand the hot summers vs Mn winters! Engine heaters on all the time in cars etc.
Duluth is a beautiful area! I do miss the lakes and especially the people. I agree 100% with you about the winters. I just can’t handle that cold either. But you can’t keep me away in the summer!
Have a great day and soon a happy new year 🎊
Like one of the posters below, I have always done this with friends back home, its second nature! For me, it's not a replacement of your name or that I forgot it or don't care - just the opposite! I can't speak for everyone but when I use your name too much, to me, THAT is what sounds fake or you're in trouble, or we are at work. SO I throw in a few babes too (but not too many
Warmly,
Callie