I'm wondering why all providers use the terms of endearment. Hun, Babe, Lover etc. Is it so they don't mistake Dave, for Bill or Tom for Sean. If providers are wanting to make a real connection and get to know the guys paying there wages,  wouldn't you think they would call you buy your name. Just a thought !

....... I would be able to tell what a woman, let alone a sex worker would be thinking. Let alone try to tell her how she should think.

I’m 1 of those girls 😂
I was raised in MN and grew up in a family where we called ppl we care about those types of names. If I use even my kids rl names besides an endearing name they think they r in trouble. So, for me, when I call anyone in any area of my life sweetheart, sweetie etc...it simply means that I really like and enjoy them (even if I haven’t met them) If I’m calling anyone only by their 1st names it’s probably a date that won’t happen.

I gotta agree with my buddy Mick here... I could write everything I think I understand about how and why women think the way they do on a post-it note. Which would be a good place for it because it changes about every week anyways.

LoL. My grampa used to say if it's true, it ain't bragging. I didn't even say how many orgasms she had lol. I'm no stud, women have faked for me, but if this one was faking, then I'm Elvis Presley. She was a lot of fun.

The follow is not uncommon:

Just go with fucking dumbass! You're hot enough to get away with it. You make a good point. Maybe that's why several actually use my name, because I always use the same first name.

“She even said the right name and everything” ❤️

You just became infinitely more appealing to a bunch of ladies with that statement I’m guessing!

kali_gail3 Says:
I was raised in MN and grew up in a family where we called ppl we care about those types of names. If I use even my kids rl names besides an endearing name they think they r in trouble. So, for me, when I call anyone in any area of my life sweetheart, sweetie etc...it simply means that I really like and enjoy them (even if I haven’t met them) If I’m calling anyone only by their 1st names it’s probably a date that won’t happen.

...... as she came would use her term of endearment that I still believe she saved for me.(Maybe yes, maybe no)  
She would look me in the eyes and yell.....  
"You FUCK!"  

Idk why ud duck Lol. I was raised how I was raised. I love my family and I’m very proud of them regardless of others opinions, and everyone is entitled to their opinions. U claimed MN is nice, I didn’t. I do think mid western ppl are extremely nice folks, overall. There’s the good, the bad, and the ugly everywhere. And ur right about being German. My moms side (who I was raised by) was German and Norwegian and my dads side French and Italian. I was raised in the northern part of MN in a small town (I’m not sure why it’d matter but I’ll share) And not in a large city. A lot of my elder family members were hard working, honest and respectable farmers. IMO there is no right or wrong on this, just difference of opinion. So no need 2 duck into the drenches ❤️

I was just reacting to your MN related post that implied its common, that is all.  BTW in case some didn't get it, "Mn Nice" is not about Mn being nice but the attitude of not showing emotion but being polite even if disagree.  It is sort of the opposite of using the terms of endearment.  Oh boy is more Minnesota culture than Hun, Babe etc , language I would never use.  

Duluth is a beautiful area! I do miss the lakes and especially the people. I agree 100% with you about the winters. I just can’t handle that cold either. But you can’t keep me away in the summer!  
Have a great day and soon a happy new year 🎊

Haha! I actually never thought of that, but maybe so. A bunch of ladies I've met know I'm fearghas, but not long ago I decided to start trying to keep that separate. (Possibly a lost cause) Some things you bring up in your advice thread are some of my reasons. Even though I score too high.

Like one of the posters below, I have always done this with friends back home, its second nature! For me, it's not a replacement of your name or that I forgot it or don't care - just the opposite! I can't speak for everyone but when I use your name too much, to me, THAT is what sounds fake or you're in trouble, or we are at work. SO I throw in a few babes too (but not too many