What’s her working name? You can drum up some business right here!!
A couple of years ago I encouraged my daughter to do some escorting to raise money for college. It went well. She had a blast enjoying her sexuality and made good money she put away for college.
Sh'es been out of it a couple of years as she has a boyfriend but now wants to get back into it for a short time to get money to go back to college and focus on her studies.
Now when she was doing it she only did very light screening. My question is should she do more screening to keep Johnny Law from harassing her? I realize things have changed in the last couple of years.
Appreciate all of your help!
Tell her to join P411. Best way to go for both providers and hobbyist.
Did she decide to do it?
I happen to know a certain 19 year old provider girl from WA currently visiting Maricopa County with her dad. I suspect her dad is hanging out with her to get in on some action possibly with her friends.
411 is not as safe as you think and G. hides a lot. Haven't heard of anything recently but actively used a few years ago in Phoenix with LE taking over id when arrested and fake verifications. May still be listed on the FBI website as a sex trafficking site - was for a long time haven't looked for it lately.
There is an easy way to stay legal. Don't advertise or discuss by text/phone any illegal sex acts for money. Clearly, state an hourly rate for companionship but don't list GFE or worse on ads/websites. That itself has resulted in arrests for solicitation. Reviews that discuss illegal sex acts have been used for probable cause in Phoenix for indictments or warrants even if could not be used if goes to trial (almost none do, take pleas instead).
Follow more the Sugar Baby model for companionship which was more upheld by 9th Circuit case and others.
I'd recommend normal screening. I do 2 prior referrals and a membership with TER and/or P411. And sometimes an ID check. Very discreet of course. This might be more than some but in my experience, the quality client appreciates the due diligence as much as I do. The more comfy and safe we both are, the better the experience! But it's not just the security you're looking for, it's safety. The vast majority or people in this hobby are awesome but some slip through the cracks. We all want to be happy and safe. Good luck!
My wife decided that escorting was not for her. I respect her decision.
Paco, perhaps she should be asking the questions.
Why don't you take your hobby money and pay for your daughters education. Take some
responsibilities in life and support your family.
No just have the government pay for her education. Get a bunch of pell grants and loans then default on the loans.
Why don't you take your hobby money and pay for your daughters education. Take some
responsibilities in life and support your family.
Taking loans and not paying back would be unethical.
Yeah and then they will garnish her wages for the rest of her life even if she files for bankruptcy. Do a little research.
I came here to say this. What a dirtbag.
I think it takes a real man to not only except his daughter as a escort but push her towards such a financially gaining career or temporary step towards her goals . Maybe this man could talk to my father . Only question I have is .......does your daughter properly show homage with gifts and or money . Because she should most definitely should.
Thank you my dear. You are kind to say so. No I do not ask her for any money. Wouldn't seem appropriate to me.
What’s her working name? You can drum up some business right here!!
If she gets back to it I will give you info how to find her ad. I may be biased but she really is a beautiful young woman.
This is the answer for all the new hobbyists who have no references. Ideally they should see girls who do not require references but if they insist on paying more for girls with reference requirements then they can just have their daughters become providers and they can give them references.
I am encouraging all hobbyists with daughters to put them on the provider scene. That should drive rates down for everyone. Do your part and make providing a legitimate career choice.
How dare you encourage your own daughter to get into this business?? Ive been raped (3 times) robbed (twice) , it ruins any sort of boyfriend / husband relationship you may have going , even if they say its ok at first believe me they will develop a problem. I WISH i had never started stripping ( which my so called mother encouraged me to do or keep doing instead of concentrating on college , i was having trouble doing both) which led to my escorting which led to my having a hard time wanting to get a real job because how in the world am i going to make the kind of money i make with only an associates degree? Anyway at the moment i am job searching and its hard out there!! ( to find a good /decent paying job. ill live!!
Sorry to hear about your bad experiences. I know you have been doing your best for many years in the industry.
I know many companions with decades of experience that while having some bad clients never been raped or robbed. Don't know what is in the secret sauce that they must have or most likely just bad luck.
Long ago you posted that you prefer text. Some companions I know insist on a phone call at least for first meeting feeling they can get a good or bad vibe by how he speaks, whether sounds like a jerk or someone they would like to meet. My fingers are too big on those tiny text screens and seldom use cell but would always leave a voicemail which can be more convenient for companions than being interrupted while doing dinner, chasing after a child etc. Or I often use e-mail which can be answered when to have time but doesn't get to hear the guys interaction on the phone.
If my daughter wanted to be a companion my only issue would be safety. I view the potential of sexwork to be a healing profession more than just sex. But like the Phx Temple which was more "healing" for some than sex, it is illegal.
A large part of the problem, of course, is the legal status vs the legalness following a harm reduction model such as in Canada and much of the world with no fear going to the police etc.
I like the new agency Unicorn Healers owner Jasmine wrote:
Unicorn Healers does not simply cater to the men. Our mission, our goal, and our most cherished hope is to add value to the World at large. We think that our sexuality, our intimacy, our fetishes, kinks or simply our preferences should be celebrated and encouraged and not sources of shame or hidden in the depths of our hearts and minds.
Unfortunately, they are in Montreal, not Phoenix where they can be legal following the harm reduction model of Canada vs repressive laws in the U.S
I am sorry you have had such bad experiences my dear. I understand your anger towards me as well as you questioning my sanity.
However I see nothing wrong with being a sex worker. It is a very honorable trade and if measures are taken it should be relatively safe. In the case of my daughter she was sexually active so I said to her: Might as well be a sex worker and get paid for it and let it pay your way thru school. So she said she would try it.
Her first month into it she already made enough for the entire school year! And I think she only serviced like 30 guys to do so. I was very proud of her.
She understands it is not really aobut sex but about communication. For her it's win win all around. She met some great guys, had loads of adult fun, and enjoyed herself. The worst that happened was one client grabbed the donation after the service was completed and ran out the door with it. Live and learn! Anyway she is happy with her choice. I hope someday you find the job you want to do and find happiness in your life as well.
How to we find your daughter??
I hear the Grand canyon is great this time of year, especially for base jumping without a chute Paco
I second this.